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Ask Naseeb - To love or not to loveBy NaseebSupport
About User: Female - 26 - Florida
I always end up with the worst guys and now that I have finally found the perfect guy, he is off-limits and I can’t do anything about it. My last two boyfriends were complete disappointments as the first one was completely insecure and jealous while the other was a shameless flirt.
Now, I have fallen in love with my best friend's husband. I know it sounds wrong but it just happened as I am not the kind of girl who has designs on their friend’s husband. She got married 4 years ago and as I got to know him better, I started liking him. The three of us hang out together all the time and before long I fell in love with him. No matter how hard I try, I can’t ignore this feeling. I love my best friend and she has been like a sister to me ever since I was in school. The thought of doing something that might hurt her is unbearable but seems like I cannot avoid it.
Also, I feel that her husband also has feelings for me as he has given me some signals. Now, if I know that he loves me too, how can I ignore my feelings and go back to dating losers? I am totally confused, should I tell my friend or ignore the feelings that I have. Or maybe I should tell the man I love about my feelings, please help what should be done?
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