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Ask Naseeb - To love or not to love

By NaseebSupport

About User: Female - 26 - Florida


I always end up with the worst guys and now that I have finally found the perfect guy, he is off-limits and I can’t do anything about it. My last two boyfriends were complete disappointments as the first one was completely insecure and jealous while the other was a shameless flirt.

Now, I have fallen in love with my best friend's husband. I know it sounds wrong but it just happened as I am not the kind of girl who has designs on their friend’s husband. She got married 4 years ago and as I got to know him better, I started liking him. The three of us hang out together all the time and before long I fell in love with him. No matter how hard I try, I can’t ignore this feeling. I love my best friend and she has been like a sister to me ever since I was in school. The thought of doing something that might hurt her is unbearable but seems like I cannot avoid it.

Also, I feel that her husband also has feelings for me as he has given me some signals. Now, if I know that he loves me too, how can I ignore my feelings and go back to dating losers? I am totally confused, should I tell my friend or ignore the feelings that I have. Or maybe I should tell the man I love about my feelings, please help what should be done?
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   Comments: 26     Raters: 5     October 19, 2010 at 5:59am         


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Jezebel (October 30, 2010 at 4:35pm)
messed up
iamjustme (October 27, 2010 at 11:07pm)
jo dil main aye kar do kabhi pasaman no ho k dil ka khay mana na
1model (October 25, 2010 at 11:17pm)
Some friend you are! And the husband must not be as great as you think he is if he's really given you signals...do you want a two timer husband, that's really the best you can do? Or maybe the signals are just in your head. Get help, don't try to break someone's marriage. Find someone that's available and move on. This isn't love, it's Satan trying to lead you astray...don't fall for it. Allah swt puts love in the hearts of married couples, don't try to mess that up.
amir_bubble (October 24, 2010 at 1:01pm)
i think u all go to jerry springers and make some dollars lol
fat_cat (October 21, 2010 at 2:29am)
RYRM - I do not deal with Naseeb Vibes or articles that will be posted through this. However, I have conveyed your message to the editor in charge.
JABD (October 20, 2010 at 6:10pm)
LOL!! I'm not praying for harm to anyone. Just saying that praying for that (her best friends death) or for her own mister right may be a viable option for the Naseeber who posted this question :)

I hope that here best friend lives a long life too :)
force_of_nature (October 20, 2010 at 11:36am)
i'm with FB...expose this dimwit!
JABD (October 20, 2010 at 5:34am)
Really not a cool idea to go after another woman's man. BUT!! If your best friend dies of cancer or something, it's all good :-P

So pray that you'll find the right man on Naseeb or pray that your best friend dies. Hope everything works out :-P
force_of_nature (October 20, 2010 at 12:09am)
lol @ FB
hpyldy (October 19, 2010 at 2:35pm)
Zircon, I've lived a little...I get it... trying to toss the t-shirt! -hpy ldy
hpyldy (October 19, 2010 at 2:22pm)
But if it were to be true...then right on Zircon!!!!! - hpy ldy
hpyldy (October 19, 2010 at 2:21pm)
Well...she could be makeing up those come-ons by the husband...it is one sided...and we all know how we can imagine we see what we want to see when we're high on attraction! - hpy ldy
mh_naqvi (October 19, 2010 at 1:14pm)
or she could hire a hitman to take care of her friend :)
force_of_nature (October 19, 2010 at 1:01pm)
the above dudette needs some sense knocked into her lol

how's that for happy helping :-p
fat_cat (October 19, 2010 at 12:48pm)
Naseeb has been publishing Vibes e-zine for the last five years and Ask Naseeb questions are a part of that publication. Vibes has been taken off the internet for now as we are turning it into a blog. However, we have started publishing Ask Naseeb questions again in the journals section on main site.

We will be displaying usernames of members who sent the question if they are okay with it. However, this is not a marketing ploy and we have seen much more dramatic questions in the past. :D

Happy helping everyone!
force_of_nature (October 19, 2010 at 12:20pm)
MUDS I don't entirely agree...i too have been a member on here for yrs and some of the 'ask naseeb' questions on the old version where just too ridiculous to be true at times...and so it wouldn't surprise me if those questions were put up there to generate interest.
hpyldy (October 19, 2010 at 10:08am)
hahahahaha!!!! Hilarious DYRM! - hpy ldy
force_of_nature (October 19, 2010 at 9:42am)
rofl @ DYRME...awesome solution lol
force_of_nature (October 19, 2010 at 8:55am)
totally agree with HPYLDY :o)

RAMO, marketing ploy or not, its the issue itself (just like HPYLDY pointed out)....and lets face it, this kind of thing goes on countless times anyway.

FATTY....did you make up the above, to get us all hot and bothered under the collar, as RAMO has suggest lol :-p
fat_cat (October 19, 2010 at 8:05am)
I think you should leave your friend and her husband alone and look for someone on Naseeb.