How to distinguish between a traditional Pakistani man vs. a modern one!

#: This journal is designed for all the ladies to understand today's modern Pakistani Men. Why do today's Pakistani Men act and behave the way they do? Before you begin to read this journal, I must warn you that the opinions expressed in this journal are just my opinions and thoughts that I have gathered over years from my own personal experiences. Along with experiences from both my male and the poor heartbroken female friends. So take this as a light read, don?t get hung up on the issues and if you pick up a hint or two from this journal?I am glad I could help. Pakistan....NOT So Zinda Baadd

Your typical traditional Pakistani man is a man who is very family oriented, good hearted person, hard working individual. He is more likely to be an accountant, engineer, doctor, taxi driver or even a security guard. He is a man who likes to live a simple life, no pressure, just day in day out, same old routine. He may be married before his 28th Birthday, and may even be a father by the age of 30. He does not care weather his wife is skinny or fat, okay looking or drop dead gorgeous. He is not into fashion and more than likely not even a very sociable person. His weeknights are usually spent after a long days work by staying home and watching PTV, ARY or Geo on his illegal satellite receiver. His typical weekend maybe spent watching his local community desi channels on Saturday mornings and later during the day, going shopping for his usual spices and halal meat at his local India bazaar. The odd times this typical Pakistani man may even go to a Pakistani Gazals show if he got free tickets from his friend and if he was more daring, he may even go to a star-studded Bollywood extravaganza show at a big venue, but of course only in the $25 seat section located in the upper high area of the stadium, hoping that during intermission, he can sneak down to the $100 VIP seats on the floor without being caught. Now for every typical Pakistani man like this; there exists a newly, redefined, modern Pakistani man who is completely the opposite.

So who is this new 21st century modern Pakistani man? Well, he may be your son, your brother, your best friend, your boss, and even your ex-husband who divorced you because he found a younger, even prettier woman than you. Yes, your typical nice Pakistani men are now your fathers and your uncles. Welcome to the new millennium. A place in time where no one gives a SH*T about no one except themselves! A time where love is secondary, meanwhile sex and intimacy are more important than relationships. This is the way society has marketed us to believe. Watch any new Bollywood music videos and you can tell the old traditional days where a woman was covered up and god forbid they ever kissed in the movies are ancient. Now days, the less you wear the better. Indian movies on lust, sex, and polygamy are all over the screens. I am just waiting for the Pakistani and Indian Porn (Already available underground) to come out in the open and go mainstream. So don?t blame the modern Pakistani guy for his behavior. He is just being conditioned to today?s society by none other than his own society, and his culture. Just look at the statistics of the divorce rates. Even some of the profiles on desi matrimonial sites have a vast amount of young desi girls who have been divorced. It is shocking. 20 yrs ago Divorce in the Muslim community was taboo. Now it is the norm. What has happened to our society, culture and beliefs? Who is to blame? The Guy or the girl; I don?t know the answer to that. So ladies when a smooth Pakistani guy is salaaming you, be careful. If and when you do make physical contact and go out on a date watch out for the smooth talking Pakistani guys who just want to get inside your pants.

How To Spot This Modern 2007-08 Pakistani Man:

1. Career Oriented And Well Established
2. Well Groomed
3. Materialistic, May Even Drive A Nice Car
4. Maybe Mama?s Boy?
5. Drinks Alcohol & Loves The Nightlife
6. Not A Virgin
7. Will Only Date Girls Who Are Non East Indian or Pakistani
8. If He Does Date A Desi Girl, He Will Still Keep A White Girl On The Side For Those Late Nigh Booty Calls After He Has Dropped You Off At Home, And After He Is Done With His Booty Call, He Will Come Home And Log On To Naseeb.Com For More Future Prospects
9. Doesn?t Care If He Breaks A Desi Girls Heart. May Even Leave Her To Be a Single Parent
10. Not Committed To Marriage With A Desi Girl, A True Playa!

Pretty Harsh Huh! Well It's True. So Be Careful Before You Get Burned *: