
Journals
Resonate your identity with Naseeb journals. Express your opinions, share your thoughts, post your writings and connect with like minded people through the power of expression.
Login to my account

Should I Trust Him or Not?
By NaseebSupport
About User: Female 30, Chicago
I have been married before but my husband cheated on me and left me for another woman. Now after 3 years of divorce, I have met a decent guy who is interested in getting married to me but I cannot seem to be able to trust him. I trusted my ex-husband completely but he betrayed me and now I cannot trust anyone at all. I really like this man and he is everything I could ask for but something inside me is afraid of trusting him and facing betrayal. I am totally confused and have no idea what should be done. Will I never be able to trust another man? I even went to a psychiatrist after my first husband left me as I was completely devastated and needed help. Now I am thinking of having some sessions again to figure out if something is wrong with me. What do you guys think, should I go see a psychiatrist, refuse the guy or just take a blind leap of faith?
---------------------
Note: Naseeb Members can send us the questions they want to ask on rida.fazal@naseebnetworks.com. We will post these questions for discussion on Naseeb. Identity of the user posting the question will be kept confidential, unless SPECIFICALLY mentioned otherwise.
Not Rated
Add Comments
Comments on this journal

Bingo! Sipa, you said it word “wahabi”…....
Jeez, Gotty where is your stop button.....lol


anyways i wrote a journal blog about how you constantly use the word mullah. let's be real, the fanatical 'mullahs' you speak of are really wahabi fanatics. moulana eidhi runs a charity in karachi. and when that poor village girl was gang raped in rural pakistan punjab, it was a village mullah who told her to go file a complaint at the police station.
got5


got5

got5

btw someone from youtube spotted me on devon and we became friends after that. it turns out he had emailed me once.
got5

First of all I am not here to judge or defend anyone. I dont have any grudge against you and anyone on Naseeb. As I told you I am on Naseeb just to share,learn and have a good time.
It was you who asked me - hey Mahek did you hear about the new facebook group "Speak your mind"? That's when I questioned you. I am sorry if it caused any misunderstanding between us:)
So Gotty if I see you on Devon street would you respond to my hello?...lol

khushi is a 2 faced woman and nothing more. funny how man-hating feminazis like her are also divorced. gee any connection there huh huh?
as far as my journal, those people deserve it, they chose to make things personal a long time ago. they take the internet waay too seriously, and i can do the same thing too.
and since these feminazi lesbo want to act like men, ill show them how a real man acts.
not run and hide, and gossip and cry and whine to admins or whatever. you stand your ground like a soldier.
you say to 'ignore' those you dont like. tell me how come you dont tell your internet friends the same things? or acting 2 faced is just another desi custom?
i did ignore anwar, i have asked him repeatedly on several occasions to leave me alone, but he couldnt stop and became obsessed with me.
you know i dont usually take things personally, and i dont hold personal grudges against anyone either. if i do have one, i let them know upfront. if i had a personal grudge against you, i would let you know it. yet here you are assuming that i do? that i can only assume must be the desi in you, and why you struggle so hard to in your attempts to 'understand' me.
so here is a word of advice.
in america, americans speak bluntly and are upfront, so long as you do it in front of a persons face. the worst thing you can do is to bad mouth someone behind their back.
it seems for desis, especially your beloved fobs, the reverse seems to be true.
and thus your failure at 'understanding' me.
this isnt meant to be an attack on you, which you will assume no doubt. its my attempt at trying to explain things to you and i hope that helps.

Gotty, its not necessary we get along with everyone in life. I might dislike few too but bashing each other on je’s just makes it worst. Out of all the people I know - Khushi is a good person at heart. We all have our personal life aside from naseeb. Why come here to fight or cause drama. I am here to share, learn, laugh and log off:) I did meet few good people here who are like my family now.
Jeez …I sound like a spokesperson for Naseeb:)

i was added to the group as a member for five whole days. in five whole days, i was mocked, attacked, insulted, and ganged up upon by a bunch of retards who think of me as their 'mortal enemy', people who do not know me, never met me, and never even chatted with me! talk about taking the internet waaay too seriously. that even my presence drove them insane!
you know i have real friends in the real world, i am a respected member of the community here in Chicago, i am a respected member at several masjids that i either attend or have attended in th past, going back to my youth! people from my old high school, from my old elementary school, former neighbors i grew up with from my childhood, black people, white people still remember me and you can easily find them in my fb friends list!
i have plenty of friends, i dont need to scour the internet for them from people who live hundreds if not thousands of miles away, some on the other side of god's only inhabitable planet in this grand universe!

Just curiosity sake hope I visit my family & friends in Chicago and bump into you on Devon street...lol! Why do you take pangaa with everyone here? I have been on Naseeb for more then two years and I fail to understand you:).
Speak you mind group most of the people are my good friends and when I wrote the comment I didnt know you had put up a je. Btw, I remember it was khushi who wrote a je to bring you back on Naseeb:). If you dont like something avoid or ignore the situation why write a nasty journal.

i keep wondering if thats a dirty joke LOL
yes the group is full of retarded ex-naseebers, please do tell them that i wrote that here. full of man hating sluts who got used and abused due to their promiscuous lifestyle aka drunk party girls who wasted the prime of their youth screwing around, usually with white boys they are not allowed to marry =).

Got, once in my life time I'd like to meet you in person:). I want to see after all aap cheez kya ho...lol!(just kidding). G, be nice;p

