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Undecided in Love
By NaseebSupport
About User: Female - 30 - Indianapolis
Question:
I have been in a stable relationship for 2 years and I really love my boyfriend who is a very caring guy and the last two years have been full of happiness. Recently, he proposed to me and I said yes. But since then, I have been feeling like I gave the answer too soon as there are some unresolved issues which are confusing me.
The thing is that I still have feelings for my ex who broke up with me 4 years ago. I thought that I was over him but 6 months ago I accidently ran into him at a mutual friend’s wedding. We got to talking and all the feeling I thought had gone away, came rushing back. Since then we have been in touch and have even met for coffee twice. The more I talk to him, the more I feel that I love him. But then when I think about the way he broke up with me and left without any explanation, I think I am being a fool. He says he couldn’t get in touch because he had to leave the city in a hurry.
I have been thinking a lot and somehow I cannot convince myself that it I should stay away from my ex. I have not shared my feelings with my current boyfriend as I am sure he will not understand what I am going through. I am thinking of postponing my engagement party scheduled for next week so that I can have some more time to think about it. I love my fiancée but not the way I loved my ex. Is there any way to find out which feelings are true? I really need to decide soon or I might end up losing both.
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totally agree with ZIRCON...dudette think logically...the dude broke up with you without any explanation...hasnt contacted you in almost 4 yrs...i mean wtf lol....have some self respect....grow up...forget the ex....and either deal with your current b/f or break it off with him and move on.


I think your ex will do the same thing to you once more. Maybe hes just tryin to see if he can "get you" again. Once you someone treats you like cra.p once, its likely to happen again. And leaving in a rush.. that just sounds like a lame excuse.
Seems like you were fine with the new bf till you met the old one again. Is it just something that was taken from you, and you couldnt attain at the time, and thats why its more attractive to you.
Im almost afraid to be conservative in this day and age, but I really dont want a wife who would ever have the conversation of "you cant tell me who I can or cannot be friends with," and this is exactly what I would be afraid of.


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