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Ok I thought to get people interested into joining the journal I gotta post in some topics.

I honestly dont understand why people lie. When you are first getting to know someone, its expected that they're not gonna spill all the skeletons in their closest the first time you talk, but at the same time some do display an artifical persona of who they are. Why? If one is dishonest about who are they are, it seems as if its inevitable that you 'real' charcteristics are gonna surface one day or the other, so even if they did attract your friendship or whatever they are trying to attain, the relationship is not even built on solid grounds. Let's say natuarally you're not attracted to a certain 'type' of person...and this person IS that type of person but they put on a facade, so now you click with them. But they really arent that person you've clicked with. It seems cliche but YUO ARE WHO YOU ARE it can not be hidden. You will obviouslly have a tendency of being that way more than the facade you are displaying.

I guess I think its just too much effort. Why do it? If you're the type of person that goes out clubbing, drinking..etc etc...so be it...why act as if you're not someone that you are?