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I have this habit of saying dude, man, yo, yaar, buddy to people and one of my friends pointed out that it sounds very uneducated. I also noticed my "desi" male friends saying that too, but none of my non desi friends ever use these terms. Why do desi men say that? It sounds so weird...dude, man, yo, buddy, yaar its such a guy thing and a guy should say it to a guy, not to a woman. What are your thoughts about it? Personally, its such a turn off when a guy says that to me. I want to smack him silly ;) And when a guy says that to me, I feel as if I am on the show, Beavis and Butthead...lol.. BTW, I asked my caucasian male friends, and they thought it sounded pretty weird too...
 

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Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 11:40pm)
flattery never hurt anyone :)
 
Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 5:09pm)
Xubernt: put that energy to something (or some one) useful.... don't waste on comebacks that are of no consequence
 
Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 3:13pm)
oohh, I'm blushing!
 
Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 12:56pm)
i';m with you humble soul. i call everyone "hun" or "sweetie". I dont know why. lol. I don;t do it that often and it is only ppl i like though and 99.9% of the time - girls... although i'm straight. :)
 
Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 12:13pm)
it is a compliment, so go right ahead
 
Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 11:38am)
just don't call a woman "chica" or "girlfriend" unless you're part of the Fab 5
 
Login to find out (July 7, 2005 at 11:30am)
It is. Feel free to tell me that as often as you like.
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 5:18pm)
OMG! Yes, it's a major turn off, epecially if another dude is calling me a dude! Yaar, is just so fobby, Man is annoying. Yo is okay.
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 3:33pm)
How does the foot in mouth taste like after sucking on it so long? LOL This is fun
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 3:17pm)
Umair: You misunderstood me..I was referring to what you said about me..and I said, thanks for being honest...truth always comes out some how and it always hurts..hope you understand this time!
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 3:07pm)
Xub: Truth always comes out and truth always hurts..but thats life.....so its all good...
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 2:48pm)
I guess you misunderstood me..oh well....no big deal! Like you said, I tagged along and I am crazy..nice piece of work :)
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 2:42pm)
Excuse me? Umair which history are you talking about? And what makes you think I would even fantasize what we could have been? I think you are mistaken. Besides what are you talking about? Have you taken too many dumb pills lately??
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 2:03pm)
Umair: hahahaha...good one ;) Honey, I am not street and believe me, I dont want to be..not my cup of tea. I am not losing this one..lol..I got my back ;) Levitra..good one. I know what happens after you take half of that tablet. Besides, my shots are never cheap..too bad you cant keep up with it ;) Besides, I am sure you know I am messing with you... ;)
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 1:28pm)
Labina: awwww...thats is sweet actually..I dont mind that ;) Xub: keep that in mind Mister...lol...so I give you the right to call me Yaara esp. because no one calls me that :) ...gosh I seriously need to do something with my free time at work...
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 1:24pm)
i think yaara is sweet..
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 1:14pm)
Dont be such a loser...alright ;) And dont be gay here..hehehehe..and I am not losing....I always WIN, G ;) Just call me Shirin, ok Dawg..see, I am talking in your language....Yes you gave me Yaara and Lady ;) Which isnt so bad..so I can deal with that...I am just hyper today...something in the air ;) BTW, smart a$$ do you know what Levitra is?? you might need to take that one ;) I know you have a history of that homie ;) hahahahaha...Yeah you better stay in hiding esp. with your comments here...I am ready to pounce..nothing wrong with that ;)
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 10:33am)
Alright fine...you people are so hard headed..hehehehe..I will accept the following: Shirin, Dudette, Yaara, lady, sweetheart, babes, baby, darling, honey, sweets, sweetie, girl, girly..lol...I think I had my sugar rush this morning...hehehehe...LOL..
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 10:29am)
Dude, I love the word "yaar"
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 10:29am)
yo yo yo dudes and duddettes :P