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Arab-American Girls are Neurotic


yes they are.
the question is why?

for some reason they get all nervous and wierd if i try to carry on even the most trite innocouse conversation to them.
This happens even before i know they are arabic, and i would assume, before they know i am.

I would say that perhaps i make people nervouse but this doesn't happen with non-arab girls.

Whats the deal? i'm assuming since there are 50 members here, that at least 27 will be female (just percentages) and since the title is arab american at least 19 would be arab american. (damn fobs sneaking in everywhere)


anyway. what the deal?
i can understand if some people just don't jive with my conversation topics.
i can understand is some don't like my conversation style.
But every single one?

And these aren't shy girls, many have non-arab guy friends, but precious few have arab guy friends.

Are you all worried that the arab guy is gonna call up your dad and ask to marry you?

is that it?
 

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Login to find out (November 12, 2005 at 1:01pm)
breaking news!
'prantly there are some desi-girls out there that got insanity going on too....

who knew?
 
Login to find out (October 13, 2005 at 11:04am)
how many arab american males are you friends with? vs non arab american males?
 
Login to find out (October 12, 2005 at 3:18pm)
yeah, see thats the problem right there H, how about you act like yourself and see what happends?
 
Login to find out (September 29, 2005 at 7:37pm)
ummm 1st of, you did not give examples of how "neurotic" they get...second of all, just to prove you wrong, you really did not talk to ALL arab girls :P so relax and dont give up
 
Login to find out (July 14, 2005 at 11:30am)
Wow! maybe you are just meeting the wrong arab american girls. I have arab male friends and we are all straight! No Neurotic girls here!

Or maybe its you that is a possibility but i think someone would of told you by now. jk.

I didn't read all of the comments but I know that a lot of girls think if a guy talks to them he wants to propose. They are the type of girls who don't even say salams to a brother when he walks by, but is giggling when bobby her her poli. class makes a joke because she knows that if she wanted to marry bobby she would probably have to be disowned because her parents would kill her. thats enough for now.
 
Login to find out (May 26, 2005 at 9:19pm)
Haha Smilz, you need to. I for one got ALOT to say about Arab guys!! lol
 
Login to find out (May 26, 2005 at 6:33pm)
it's mutual
 
Login to find out (May 26, 2005 at 6:31pm)
haha...beware Plato...one of these days I'll start a journal on muslim guys and BELIEVE ME...it will not be pretty. I definitely have a beef with "muslim" arab males.
 
Login to find out (May 26, 2005 at 5:06pm)
it didn't work ladies. we got the wrong impression. we think you're neurotic.
 
Login to find out (May 26, 2005 at 4:44pm)
Actually your comments made me laugh Masrawaya because it made me think of the times when I hung out with my muslim pals at college. They'd be in the library, at a restaurant, cafe, whatever being completely loud and if some muslim guy came within some ten yard radius...the girls would all hush up and be like, "Quiet...It's one of the brothers!!!" I guess one of the reasons is like you said, girls didn't want them to get the wrong impression of them.
 
Login to find out (May 26, 2005 at 12:42pm)
haha yes yes, but like I said you guys...a huge reason for that is just cause we are not used to it!!!
 
Login to find out (May 25, 2005 at 9:41pm)
Yeah Masrawaya you're definitely right about the fact that arab muslim guys and girls act differently when they're around each other...go to any msa meeting lol
 
Login to find out (May 25, 2005 at 4:44pm)
non-arab's all have the potential to marry each other too, but they don't seem to share this same quirk. Are arab american girls always worried about getting married off? do the arab girls who want to get married sooner rather than later act differently? anyone here know? help me out here people.
 
Login to find out (May 25, 2005 at 4:41pm)
yep, thats what i'm saying. Masra here describes it perfectly. She interacts fine w/ guys and girls, and probably, if she can't tell if the fella is arab, then no problem. but an arab comes tromping along and all of a sudden he's trying to carry on a conversation with a person who appears to be trying her damndest to ignore him. he wanders off thinking "man, arab girls are all shy and wierd" then goes to his non-arab friends, male and female. and when an arab girl walks by the male friends say "hey there's Masrawaya" "she's such a nice person, and man can she play tennis!" and arab boy is thinking "wow. that's wierd, she won't even talk to me"
 
Login to find out (May 25, 2005 at 2:20pm)
I think especially because we are not used to interaction with such guys through out our lives. In Egypt or wherever we come from, girls are always around guys and so develop these interaction skills...but since we are always forced to sit on opposite sides of the room, when we actually have to interact with these guys..we dont know how to. (This is my theory...who knows though?)
 
Login to find out (May 25, 2005 at 2:07pm)
I dont understand it myself plato, heh!! Ok, at school with guys and girls I joke around, laugh, talk ALOT etc... but if you see me at the mosques or gatherings with arabs or whatever I am as shy as can be. And if a guy comes to talk to me, I stammer, and start blushing like I am 10 years old. I dont know what it is, honestly....but I guess it could be that there is a possibility that you can marry that person, ya3ni, not that you will but that small possibility makes us all nervous and giddy hehe!!
 
Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 1:33pm)
I know...the truth can hurt sometimes. I'll try to be nice :)
 
Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 12:00pm)
i believe i will start avoiding you at this point. for the sake of my own fragile ego. Salam!
 
Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 11:59am)
?
wow
 
Login to find out (May 16, 2005 at 5:31pm)
hmm...well girls in general are superior to guys...that's a given, but maybe the fact that we're cultured and educated enflates our ego a bit more--to the point where we feel it is simply unnecessary to condescend to lower species or life forms. Soooo...based on that theory...the girls are just ignoring you because of mediocre bordom with your dimwitted male race