Are we demanding too much

Login to find out (June 24, 2005 at 1:06pm)

LOL!!! you two are so funny! blame us for you not being able to grab life by the you know what and run with it! if you like a gurl go for it! be a man and tell us how you feel, and if we like you back we'll tell you how we feel! we are sick of boyz!!! we need more men in this world, nice or not!

Login to find out (June 24, 2005 at 12:19am)

Prom I know all about it. I believe there is some truth to this theory and I'm a nice guy, thank you :) but I don't think this is why I'm single. Just like all middle eastern and Asian guys and Muslim guys for that matter my family and friends have long pressed very hard for me to find someone or else they will find me someone lol but the thing is my priorities were not aligned with the concept of being married in my early career years. You could argue with my approach to life but this is me.

Login to find out (June 23, 2005 at 8:55pm)

wisala good question I honestly don't have a good answer. Well I guess maybe because finding the right one wasn't at the top of my priority list. I have been busy building a career in the high tech industry but now am ready to shift priorities :)

Login to find out (June 23, 2005 at 1:33am)

Hey Caar than you know what you must be the exception to the rule, and that has gotten me to wonder why in the hell a guy like you has been swept off his feet yet... care to elaborate?

Login to find out (June 22, 2005 at 5:32pm)

even the desi men(asian guys) are very demanding..They also want everything in one package.

Login to find out (June 22, 2005 at 2:10pm)

Hey Wisala if I can have it all why not :) But I know I won't get everything I know no one human being is perfect. Things such as religion, purity, virginity and so on really depend on one's values as I may not look for someone who is religious but someone else will. I may or may not care about virginity but someone else will this is all about being careful not to judge people after all who am I to judge a gurl who is not virgin or religious or a gurl who is virgin and religious if I'm not. I don't believe in "double standards" what is OK for men is not OK for women and the opposite is not true?

Login to find out (June 22, 2005 at 1:47am)

Hey caar! And Arab guys don't want it all in one package?!!!! You want purity, virginity, innocence, intelligence, looks, values, religion, trust, loyalty, a girl who will cook and clean for you az all at the same time! You want her to love and be loved by your mommy and for every guy to envy you because she loves you! So don't sit there and tell me that we are being demanding! You Arab boyz wrote the book on it!

Login to find out (June 21, 2005 at 10:05pm)

I don't think it is fair to generalize. Guys do think with their brains if they have their priorities set :). Same goes for gurls. You can't just blame guys for everything and as to the culture I agree it does put more blame on gurls but this is not the reason why many middle eastern gurls are still single. Arab gurls, and I say Arab only because I'm more familiar with the culture nothing else, are very demanding they want everything in one package. This is also a cultural thing.

Login to find out (June 21, 2005 at 9:54pm)

the problem is not that we look for Mr./Miss perfect rather for Mr./ Miss RIGHT NOW. Many of things we look for in a person don't last they vanish with time things like physical appearance such as looks/beauty etc etc. We often talk about inside beauty, personality, chemistry, good values, integrity but ppl seem to make compromises on these essential qualities and stand firm on things which won't last. I understand there has to be some level of attraction but we shouldn't get stuck there and not look beyond.

Login to find out (June 20, 2005 at 12:52am)

okay i think i will ;) Thanks guys hehehhe i'll keep you posted.

Login to find out (June 19, 2005 at 8:32pm)

wait for a week and make a move before someother girl gets him...
you go girl :)

Login to find out (June 19, 2005 at 7:32pm)

Thanks Prom, but i am content and happy being single at the moment ;)
But here's a situation for ya!
I met someone recently that seemed to have potential. We hung out in a group setting. He brought a friend along and well i felt a strange connection to the friend! what do i do? do i say something or do i wait and see if the friend feels the same and makes a move???

Login to find out (June 19, 2005 at 7:01am)

Miss and Mr Perfect but very few of us are so so there has to be a problem of matching!

Login to find out (June 18, 2005 at 11:14am)

u welcome shezedii :)

Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 11:48pm)

so i can conclude that us girls are looking for Mr Right and guys are looking for Miss Perfect...:)

Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:29pm)

I dontthink its(the word LOVE) is even in guys dictionary.
Thanks Contact_me and wisala...

Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 6:32pm)

Hey Shezadii thanks for the elaboration! And as for Promakhos inorder to place blame on someone they must be mature enough to understand and try to change! Guys in general don't really think with their brain, so how can you ever be at fault when it comes to the matters of the heart? The gurls are the ones to blame no matter what the situation! At least that is how it?s done in my culture, and that is why I and so many other smart, educated beautiful Middle Eastern women are still SINGLE!!! LOL
Blame you don't know the meaning of the word love!

Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 3:58pm)

Shezadii, u do have a point

Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 3:49pm)

i did not mean white girls when i said gori...sorry sould have elaborated myself...ok usually so far what i have noticed is that desi guys like desi girls who are fair skinned, they prefer fair color over wheatish or tan(esp in pakistan, things might be different in america if u say so, but i have not seen, the thought process of desi guys over here is no different then one in paksitan) , now i may be wrong this is just an observation....
And arent you guys are more concerned for pretty girls then you are for average looking girls,(if dont agree on color issue).
Ya sure guys are never at fault, they are not at fault when they ditch one girl after years of relationship, oh ya it was girls fault she was not compromising or she was not understanding enuf..correct.

Login to find out (June 16, 2005 at 3:59pm)

guys prefer to be nice to beautiful gori girl then wheatish skin girls....whether u like it or not thats the truth.

What does this mean? please elaborate. :)

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