oh amazing news for the guys out there.....i just saw it on CNBC....according to a survey, 55% of the women find "man preparing a meal"...sexy, and only 28% found "a man fixing a car"...sexy. ha ha ha ha ha...so there it is....men grab your knifes and head to the kitchen! LOL :)

Bushra_80: kyonki, hum jeete hain khaane ke liye, aur khaate hain jeene ke liye.

waise mujhe yeh samajh mai nahi ata ke cooking itna bara masla kyun bana howa hai.....har couple ke jokes mai yeh topic zaroor hota hai......i know zinda rehne k liye khana zaroori hai, but yara come on...enough of this fighting......i think agar dono ko nahi pakana to na pakayain, is maamlay mai lar jhakar ke kyun apna hi maghaz maartay hain....mashallah se shehron ke shehar bharay paray hain restuarants se.......huso khailo aur jao bahar se khao. life mai aur tensions kam hain jo aik aur paali jaye.....ha ha ha ha ha ha.....haan yeh hai ke bank balance to samjho giyoooooooo :) tabhi kehti hoon har pakistani larki ko do cheesain kitchen ki zaroori aani chahiyeh.......chai banana aur anda banana.......chai ke baghair to hum desiyon ki aankhain nahi khulti aur anda ka yeh faida hai ke subha nashtay mai sunny side up, dopahar mai omelette, aur phir shaam mai anday ki bhujiya :) ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha..........baigum bhi khush miya jee bhi khush! chalo ab ice cream khanay chalo dessert mai :) ha ha ha ha ha ha

Bushra_80 : Iska jawaab to bahot asaan tha, bus use kehna yeh tha ki "Nahin, Iski humen zaroorat nahin,hamen to kach-cha chabane ki aadat hai, woh bhi zinda Insaanon ko.

since we are talking about guys cooking for us.....here is something that i found really hilarious.

one of my female friends got a call from a guy who had sent a proposal for her.....to maa baap mai baat cheet ke baad, larka larki ne baat ki.......baaton baaton mai larkay ne poocha......"aap khana bana laiti hain?" woh tehri professional career oriented aurat, uske liye yeh baat discuss karna koi zaroori nahi thi, since it is understood that no matter how career oriented a girl becomes, after shadi ghar hi first priority hoti hai....so it just pissed her off,,,,,,,,usne jawab mai kaha......"NAHI MAI TO NAHI BANANA JAANTI, KIYA AAP KO ATA HAI?" thats not the funny part, the funny part is that the guy never called again :) ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Meetee_lassi: Mere hisaab se, aap kisi part-time bawarchi se nikaah karen to behtar hai. Aap ko woh achaa khaana to zaroor khilayega, aur aapko pakwaan karna bhi sikhayega.

bushra_80: will check out the song for sure. thanks for lettting me know.

As for your comments, I completely agree. Angooti deinei (chayhei woh aurat ki thuruft sei hoh ya murd kei thuruft sei) ek chotisi nishani hothi hei..ab aap yei nishani Tiffanys sei lei ya koi bazaar sei..ye aap ki murzee.

Veisei mei thoh apnei hubby koh ek kithaab dayoongi....kitaab ka naam hoga 'Cooking guide for Men- how to please the khartoon in your life'...errr.. aacha khana kana meiree kamzoori hei !!

meetee-lassi: go to muziq.net and listen to his song by jawad ahmed if u can, its even better when u listen to it. awesome melody!

another thing that came to my mind thinking of rings.....why is the focus only on a girl's ring, guys get wedding bands too right....atleast we gave our brother-in-laws.....and when it came to them, we picked the best platinum bands we could find......and the reason for that was that we wanted to express how much we respected and loved them.....it's a natural thing that comes from within each person i believe....when u love and care for someone, u naturally want to give them the best of everything that is out there....right? so if it has to be a ring or a wedding band, then meri aqal to yehi kehti hai ke apni chaadar mai rehte howay jitna acha day sakti hoon doongi, aisa nahi ke sasti ya choti cheese se woh baat nahi banay gi, balke in some cases zyada banti hai, for example a home made cake for someone rather than a huge present of some sort......but the fact of the matter is that, jab koie acha lagta hai, jis ki dil mai qadar hoti hai, to hamara khud ka hi dil karta hai ke bus sab se achi jo cheese mil sakti hain woh us shakhs ko dain. atleast thats how i think. but that does not mean ke agar mujhe badlay mai aik thoughtful petal ka ring milay instead of a diamond ring to i would not accept it.....yeh sab to side ki baatain hain, itna hi bohot nahi hai ke the person standing infront of you wishes to spend the rest of his life with you......itni izzat aur mohabbat har kisi ko nahi di jaati.

phew!!!!!!! :)

(btw, chicago rocks!!!!!!!!!!!)

it seems like u guys really are not looking for a life partner......a sincere friend as a roommate would do the job! then why r u wasting ur time talking about a husband or a wife.

Sam77: You are right! The best gift would an Ultimate guide of Gourmet cooking, the wife can enjoy cooking and the husband can enjoy feasting!!!!

Bushra_80: message u are giving to that person is that ke woh bhi is pathar ke tarhan bekaar aur bejaan hai!!!!

My GOD!!!!! I am on vacation from a vacation :) mujhe naseeb pe log in nahi karna chahiye tha *: yaara practicality achi hai, but is had tak nahi ke aap life mai jin choti choti cheeson se bahar hai, aap woh sab kill kar do. Occasions like the proposal....are once in a life time deal. poori life pari hai practical hone ke liye. Khud socho aur batao does it make any sense to you guys/gals or does it even appear romantic let alone be romantic?K.

Aik larka apni larki ko approach karta hai, kehta hai, kiya tum mujhse shadi karogi? Larki kehti hai, JEE.....larka ussay pihr kehta hai, I love you, here is a stairmaster for you #: dil phigal gaya naa....lllllllllllooooooooooooooooo o :P

Aik larki, shadi ki pehli raat ko, husband ko kehti hai, mai bohot khushnaseeb hoon ke mujhe aap jaisa partner mila, aap ke liye yeh laptop hai. (Bajay aik wedding band ke) Allah!

Yara poori life pari hai practical hone ke liye, shadi ke pehle saal ka maza to na kirkira karo in ideas se. jo bhi aise sochta, allah miya aap ko aap ki soch ka hi banda/bandi day, mere jaisi/jaisa howa to do din mai bhaag jayegi/jayega?K?Kaur jahan tak rahi baat us qeemti pathar ke peechay bhaagne ki, koi uske baghair marta nahi hai, there's a thought that comes with that stone. Choonke its so qeemti, jab aap woh kisi ko daitay ho to the message u are giving to that person is that ke woh bhi is pathar ke tarhan qeemti hai. Size to mazak ki baat thi. Milta hai to theek hai, na milay to bhi bohot theek hai. Jo bhi ho, mai apni SHADI KA PEHLA SAAL ATLEAST, practical ho kar boring nahi karoongi. I want to be a child, I want to enjoy little things like eating ice cream in the rain, etc. don?'t tell me ke barish mai mat jana beemar ho jaogi. kyun ke mai to jaoooongiii!!!! aaaaaggghhhhh :#

autumnbreeze: thanks for your feedback and like icekool said i am glad there is substance left. money comes and goes what stays is true love. if anything i'd like to be dirt poor when i get married but with lots of education so we can make that money 10 times over again.

I just thought of this.....

Ring cheez hai kiya...
Aap meri jaan lijiye...
Dukan nahin dil hai mera
Kuch tou kadar kijeya....

Vaa Vaa Vaa!!! This was my own shair! LOL!! :)

Hmmmm.....Sam77 and Autumnbreeze...very good! I am very impressed by the responses! :)

Mujhe bari khushi huwi yeh sun kay kay my Sisters still have a lot of substance in them! :)

I personally think that its important to give something....its just a sign of affection.......lekin us kee kimat tou dil mai hai...dukaan main nahin!

:)

Man, if a guy can come up with a poem like that for me, then who needs a ring?! Honestly, I don't understand the whole ring thing. I alreaady have SO many that my dad has given me or that I got from my grandma. I"d tell the guy to give me something useful like a gym system that he can use as well or anything that we can both enjoy. Don't get me wrong, I loooooove jewellery, VERY MUCH actually, but I already have so much and my favorite ring ever is a simple white bead ring that I made myself, LOL.

I think the value of a piece of jewellery is who gave it to you and why and not how much was paid for it.

Meetee_lassi: I think you are right ...we are going to end up doing just that.. I think we should publish about this topic !!

my god...are we intending on covering the whole marriage life-cycle here !!!

shaadi proposal...
post proposal processing...

next...

btw Bushra nice gana.

Zis725: Yaar yehi to insaan ki asli keemat bata hai. Ab hamen dekho, agar hamara life insurance 1/2 million ka bhi hota, to hum "naseeb.com" ke bajay "raehlat.com" pe hote.

mhdslm: i forgot about the life insurance. if that's the case then a ring for 'das hazaar dallar' is nothing. when that goes agar ring na bhi ho to chalay ga.