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CAN I ASK THIS????


WHEN MARRIAGE PROPOSALS COME WHAT KIND OF QUESTIONS CAN YOU ASK????

CAN YOU ASK THE GROOM TO SHOW YOU HIS BANK STATEMENTS OR COMPANY ACCOUNTS OR WAGE SLIPS???

CAN YOU ASK TO KNOW ALL LOANS AND DEBTS???

CAN YOU ASK TO SEE THE DEEDS OF ALL PROPERTIES??

CAN YOU ASK TO KNOW WHERE/HOW YOU ARE GOING TO LIVE???

CAN YOU ASK TO KNOW ALL INCOME AND EXPENSES BEFORE MARRIAGE AND KNOW WHATS GOING TO CHANGE??????

WHAT SHOULD YOU ASK/NOT ASK????
 

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Login to find out (December 23, 2005 at 5:48am)
WELL SAM IS FUSSING AND BEING HORRIBLE AND DIFFICULT AND SO DOES NOT WANT ME TO SEE ANYTHING YET!!

BUT I HAVE SPOKEN TO MY UNCLE WHO SAID, ITS GOOD I ASKED AND HE'LL LOOK INTO HIM TOO!!!

DOC, YOU AND ME SHOULD OF GOT TOGETHER????
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 11:30am)
Missy

me and shazia?

there is no shazia pagal.
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 11:30am)
BUT THANK GOD MY FAMILY BACK ALL MY DECISIONS AND SAM AGREES EVERYTHING,,,, BUT TAKES THE PISSSS ON EVERYTHING I AM ASKING HIM TO SIGN...
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:54am)
I guess you being an accountant have probably seen many financial crisis occur between broken marriages so feel its right for you to do this...
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:48am)
I WOULD HAVE NO PROBLEM SIGNING A PRENUP CONTRACT!!!

I DON'T WANT TO BE IN A LIFE LATER ON STUGGLING WITH CHILDREN WITH A BROKEN MARRIAGE AND FIGHTING FOR A FINANCIAL SETTLEMENT,

MOST ASAIN PEOPLE INVEST IN PROPERTIES ABROAD, FIGHTING FOR THAT WILL BE NEAR IMPOSSIBLE,

NOWADAYS WITH PEOPLE DOING OFFSHORE ACCOUNTS ALL MONEY IS SAVE AND BY CHOICE MIGHT NOT BE DECLARED,

CSA HAS MANY LOPE HOLES WHERE MEN CAN GET AWAY WITH PAYING NO MONEY TO SPOUSES,

REGARDING VISITATION RIGHTS, I PERSONALLY THINK VERY FEW MEN DO MAKE BETTER FATHERS THEN MANY WOMEN, BUT THE COURTS OBVIOUSLY LOOK AT THE BEST INTEREST FOR THE CHILD AND AT TIMES I THINK MAKE THE WRONG DECISIONS!!
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:39am)
There are a lot of single men still waiting for visitation rights... what goes around...
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:35am)
there are a lot of single parents are still waiting for their claims from the CSA
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:32am)
The children will always get money if the guy has lots of money (heck, even if the guy has no money!) - the CSA are magnificently evil about things like that!
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:25am)
if sam wanted to do a pre-nupt, would you do one too?
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 10:15am)
EVERY WOMAN CAN STAND ON HER OWN TWO FEET,

BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU HAVE CHILDREN, ISN'T YOUR HUSBAND RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM,,,, I HAVE SEEN MANY HUSBAND WHO HAVE A LOT OF MONEY BUT WHEN THEY GET DIVORCED THE MOTHER OF THE CHILDREN DON'T GET ANY ALLOWANCES!!

SAY I BRING IN MY MONEY AND COMBINE IT WITH SAM'S MONEY, ISN'T IT MY RIGHT TO KNOW WE ARE EQUAL OR NOT,,,,,, IF WE ARE NOT THEN AT LEAST I KNOW BEFORE MARRIGE AND I CAN ACCEPT THAT,,, IF HOWEVER HIS IN LARGE FINANCIAL DEBTS THEN I DON'T WANT TO BE CLEARING HIS MESS!!!

MANY MARRIAGES BREAK BECAUSE OF FINANCIAL REASONS, I DON'T HAVE ANY INTENTIONS OF GETTING MARRIED TO GET DIVORCED STRAIGHT AFTER,,,,, SO I'D RATHER CLEAR ALL THIS NOW BEFORE ANY COMMITMENT IS MADE!!!
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 9:48am)
yes but in the Western society where women are independent, why does she need the financial security of a man? If divorce did occur, would she not be able to stand up on her own feet?
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 9:42am)
LOVE IS ONE THING SAHADAT AND BEING MATURE AND LOOKING AFTER YOURSELF IS ANOTHER!!!

EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO PROTECT THERE INTERESTS, EVEN A NIKAAH DOCUMENT WHERE YOU GIVE MAHR IS A WAY OF PROTECTING THE FEMALE FINANCIALLY.

I'M SORRY IF PPL HERE THINK I AM GREADY OR AFTER MONEY, BUT I DON'T HAVE GREAD BUT AS TIME GOES ON EVEN THE GOOD MAN CHANGES!!!
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 6:58am)
Oh Missy, young love is such a beautiful thing... You bring a tear to my eye.
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 6:17am)
LIYA HIS INVITED ME TO HIS HOUSE TO MEET HIM AND HIS FAMILY, THE ONLY THING IS HIS AN ESTATE AGENT BUT IS DOING AN ACCA,

LETS SEE!!!

I JUST SAM I WANT A PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT TO PROTECT MY FINANCES, HIS GOING MAD ANYWAY HIS DECIDED THAT HE'LL PUT ALL THE PROPERTIES IN JOINT NAMES, SO WE ARE GOING TO SEE HIS SOLICTER END OF JAN!!!
I'M PUTTING MY STUFF IN A FUND, I AIN'T SHARING NOTHING!!!
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 5:11am)
lol @ Dr's q& a session!!
 
Login to find out (December 22, 2005 at 3:47am)
I MISS YOU,,, WHAT MADE YOU THINK, I WROTE THAT TO YOU??

I ACTUALLY MEANT IT TO EVERYONE ON LONDONCREW???

DOC, WHATS HAPPENED TO YOUR SHAZIA OR THAT MANCHESTER LASS????
 
Login to find out (December 21, 2005 at 4:09pm)
Miss me?

what about ur husband to be? u should be finking of him
 
Login to find out (December 21, 2005 at 11:48am)
LIYA I FOUND YOU A HUSBAND, BUT HIS BEING NTERVIEWED AND CHECKED OUT AT THE MOMENT!!!
 
Login to find out (December 21, 2005 at 11:47am)
MY DARLIN DOC, THATS THE LONGEST POSSTING YOU HAVE EVER WROTE!!!!

ANYWAY I SUPPOSE IF HE LIES BEFORE MARRIAGE, THEN SEE A GOOD LAWYER!!!!

DO MEN LOVE HIDING THINGS AND LYING???

DOC,,,, WHATS HAPPENING IN HACKNEY?????

I MISS U,,,XX
 
Login to find out (December 21, 2005 at 10:02am)
truth is that asking the questions wont get u far.

IF man got somthing to hide then its not likely he will just tell u when u hask him.

so whats the point?

Questions

q1. hun do you have any big debts?
a1. no babe only credit card for ?100

q2. are u gay?
a3. no hun. not unless u a man

q3. Where we going to live.?
a3. will buy a luxury flat in docklands

AND NOW THE TRUTH

q1. hun do you have any big debts?
a1. YES I DO. i gamble everyday and own some loan sharks 50k each

q2. are u gay?
a3. YES I AM A FLIPPER . LITTLE DO U KNOW I GOT MARRIED THIS MORNING TO ELTON JOHN. AND IM 2 TIMING HIM WID GEORGE MICHEAL

q3. Where we going to live.?
a3. We goona buy a caravan and live in HACKNEY MARSHES.


U GET ME?