"Cheaters"

Login to find out (May 3, 2005 at 2:56pm)

well truth is different for everyone. That might be the truth for you, or you might think it is the truth.
But those who cheat on their wives/husbands do have a low self esteem in a sense that they need to prove it by doing something wrong that they got it!
Why not be honest because those are the people who got it. Anyways, its worse in any case cheating or being beated on.

Login to find out (May 3, 2005 at 2:06pm)

It is not a self esteem issue its an issue that one faces when they are not realizing the consequences. Also,for some that are doing this, they already have a perfect spouse and family life but need the adreneline rush to make their confidence go up knowing that "they still got it!"...stupid but thats the truth.

Login to find out (May 3, 2005 at 10:43am)

and yeah, being cheated on and cheating both are worse! Nothing is better than the other!
If you are cheating, you are actually not cheating on the other person, you are cheating upon urself. I mean people who cheat has a very low self esteem!

Login to find out (May 3, 2005 at 10:40am)

well, cheating is the biggest problem these days. But why not look at why people cheat. Look at the solution not just the problem alone.
Ladies cheat all the time, i 've seen it many times. Married Paki ladies flirting, cheating etc. But the question is why do all these people are cheating? They are not getting what t hey are looking for at home? Not getting enough attention from wife/husband? I truly believe its lake of communication. We listen to our boss more than we would to our spouse. We spend more time at our work place than you ever would with your spouse, so isn?t it pretty understood that those things will happen, I mean people need to balance. I?ve seen it many times when people are so much into their JOBs or professions that other things such as Family, wife/husband get very minimum attention, and if they complain then they all get that guilt trip ?oh I am doing it all for you? when infact all they need is attention and a little bit of quality time. Well, I can go on and on on this, but I hope it all makes sense.

Login to find out (May 2, 2005 at 6:01pm)

Well I htink both are pretty bad situations.... It hurts more when you are cheated on!!

Login to find out (May 2, 2005 at 10:30am)

lol i know, didnt mean to offend you guys. But i just think guys cheat more than girls do. I read this article once, and about 80% of men in the US cheat on their g/f/wife. Thats pretty sad...

Login to find out (May 1, 2005 at 8:49am)

hey girls can cheat as well. i know girls who have cheated on their b/f's. yes Desi girls!
So its not all about guys its just on person to person basis.

Login to find out (April 30, 2005 at 2:34pm)

Ya i can imagine that happening, guys are so selfish and hypocrites! lol, not all of them of course.

Login to find out (April 29, 2005 at 11:22am)

the-keeper, cheating on a cheater is for revenge! lol Jasmine, thats a good point, but i donno when youve been cheated on ull feel like ur not good enough and im guessing you will become more self conscous (sorry for spelling) and stuff.

Login to find out (April 29, 2005 at 10:52am)

Cheating on a cheater, hmmmm thats a question that needs an answer...

Login to find out (April 29, 2005 at 12:50am)

They are both bad, but i would say being cheated on is worse. I would be soo hurt. But no i dont have any situations since i never dates or had a b/f or watever.

Login to find out (April 28, 2005 at 11:20pm)

ahhh actually it's a tough decision :| I don't have a situation unfortunately...

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