it's crazy that many american people are convinced that it's a good idea to cohabited before marriage.

but if they ever see the facts behind cohabitation, they may change their mind. members.aol.com

well i am open mind and i like to hear what the opposite side says as well.
some may disagree with you that cohabitation is the best way to test ur partner before real commitment marriage. because u will never know ur partner unless u live with him/her.

Once you set your mind that there is an easy way out, you don't endure anything, that's a catch I guess. You need to feel that there is a way out to be secure but you need to feel also that you are committed and to set yourself to the better and worse to actually do it.

um, I never understood the concept...why would you get married if you are already living together? Also, ur saying it is like a tryout to see if marriage will work out...thats a problem right there. People like that go into relationships as another try, and then another try, and it doesnt even stop after marriage, that is a huge part why the divorce rates in this country are so high. Anyway, my opinon on the matter is that it is disgusting. How many tryouts are you going to have before you are going to find the right one?