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Commitment Fobia
Women think about their wedding ever since 3rd grade. The have at least 4 different scenarios, at least 5 different back up plans. This is beyond evident because I have seen men in the past try to convince their bride -to-be to wear a certain dress. This is relationship suicide. Stay away from any discussions about the dress. It is a sacred symbol for a bride and you do not want to mess with that.
I guess this is the reason WHY poor MEN ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENTS. They have been under so much stress already and the wedding plans is just like killing the dead again.
WHAT DO YOU THINK ?
I guess this is the reason WHY poor MEN ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENTS. They have been under so much stress already and the wedding plans is just like killing the dead again.
WHAT DO YOU THINK ?
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Trust me it was VERY VERY innocent....
Not all Women are the same....not all women will have a BALL and Chain Attitude with their Boyfriend/Man/husband.
like my cousin and her husband have an AWESOME relationship, they do things together but then also have time apart where they hang out with friends.
He goes to see a Game with the guys, or play Basketball, while she goes out to dinner and hang out with her Girls.
THATS how it should be.
They even have a Son, he is soooo well behaved, and has HEALTHY attachment to BOTH parents cause he sees how GOOD, FIRST that their Relationship is.
anyway....But what makes a Guy be afraid to have a nice committed relationship with a Girl and HOW can a Girl put a MANS mind to ease?
or do their "wedding plans" at that age involve them all dressed up in fancy dresses, chatting with fellow girlfriends while at the same time munching on popcorn and cookies, topped off with a glass of Cool Aid?
I have 3 books for 3 types of weddings...each planned out from beginning to end!
Even Halls and hair styles all have been put in threw over 20 years....but its not just me alone...my childhood friends and i planned a book for each other when we were kids and growing up we use to stay over at each others homes (sleep overs) and plan our wedding books.
It was Cute.
Your right MANY (but not all) Girls look forward to this day from the beginning of there little live!
Its very sweet. I even remember listening to Hindi/Urdu songs with these girl friends and just dreaming up what our husbands would look like and how he would be, what work he may be doing, where he is etc...
WE all grew up to go to college and be successful...still remembering those days when ever we get together now.
wow FON, did you just tell us how you and G got hitched? (H)
Engagement Ring
Wedding Ring
SuffeRing
I can't stand fuss therefore want to get married on a remote island where theres no intervention from anyone..its our day so lets just keep it that way!..oh yeah..not forgetting the witness..As for colour, well seeing as I act on impulse..whatever happens to be the colour of the day!..
oh yeah i forgot the GROOM to use the broom on later ;)
maybe thats why the commitment phobia
.the dress..
(H)