hey everyone,
life is a mystery and sometimes things happen, good and bad, I think that the most important aspect is balance. While many things are meant to be we also have been blessed with a mind, heart and soul and we must use them. Every single person deserves the right to be seen for who they truly are and not judged because of generality, eg. there are definately people off the net who are not genuine, however there are many who are... so might as well just let life unfold while still taking part! So allow fate and our own choices to work together hand in hand... afterall love is a mixture of many things ... Sara

of course I believe in it! :)

I totally agree with you .But you know the best thing is not to take a person on the net very seriously .
I think God has a plan for all of us and all we have to do is wait .We all go through shitty relationships.Learn from ur mistakes.

I am on the same page as Tayy....I also hope that one day I might actually "fall in love" but it doesn't seem likely. I have never been in love in my life. Several Desi Muslim girls I know fall in love when they are in high school or college. In my life I have only met one guy who is nice, decent and sweet and good to me. We are not "in love" with each other....we are more like friends. But right now I have other more important things to think about....finishing graduate school, starting my career, etc......getting married is the last thing on my mind.
I tried to meet a guy from online and it ended in absolute disaster. I will never try that again.

I HOPE that one day i will fall in love, but the way people are these days it doesn't seem very promising. I have tons of friends that date and most of them get hurt in the end. A lot of my friends never dated and ended up getting arranged marriages and SOME of 'em actually worked!! So i say, have fun w/your gals while you are in school and hope for the best. I know a lot of you don't agree w/that, but thats just how i feel. I hope that my friends have made other friends through me on naseeb.com, but i haven't just cause i don't want to trust anyone online. I DO love to read all the journals though :)

Janaat7, u bet! Break it off, coz u need both side work hard, instead of making the relationshp like "video game"..."Play, Pause (and eat something while it is pause) and Resume"

It is not like that, u have to be damn dead serious about the Realtionship / Love , to make it work.

Coz the "relation-ship when it get in to the rough water, both partner must work out to put that relation-ship out from the storm, else one of them will be like holding the wheel and try to pilot it and other will just retreat and will run away coz that partner might be thinking that it is a video game OR that one Partner is just put that relation-ship in the storm and runaway and dont work out wid u when u know whos mistake it is and u r agree to solve it..... , so when u see ur partner is in pause mode or He/she after making mess run away and wanna run away from u .................then do one thing, call 911, and get the rescue team and get out from that ship too, coz it gonna be drown anytime soon, so why hurt yourself when ur partner doesn't care"

I had this experience, i called 911 though and well i survive into bits and pieces.

Take care,

Mudassir

i believe in luv--but i do think its hard to find...when u find someone that u can luv, and luvs you back, i believe in the policy of no regrets..give it as many chances as u can..work things out...fighting is part of a relationship..and being in a mature relationship is about navigating disagreements

We all have our own openions here. We all believe that there is true love out there for each and every one of us. we can sit here and bad mouth men and women or we can do something about it. we all know that there are both men and women here who are only online to waste time. I wish that someone make a website called, lets_waste_time.com :P All the players can go there and play their little game with each others. I also agree with Destiny01, online is a good way to meet people in the busy world we live in. We just need to be a little more smart about how we use this wonderful tool to meet the right person. Be as honest as possible on your profile and with a person you are chatting with. I know that we will all find our true love one day. I know my true love is out there, I am waiting for her to find me. Plz. if you see her, tell her that i am in Naseeb.com.

The Love that we discussed got two different meaning...in Western Culture...means u evaluate the person by physically (an intimate relationship) and then the "character' evaluation.

Where i duno from which culture u r , but well there is one thing comon...the commitment, you can "go" for "a big shot" when u get angry with that person. But u know your limits.

Though True Love is not so easy path, it is very very rough, u have to remember that ... few things that any of the partner made can't be last , but one promise do last forever. that is marrying and loving each other dearly and forever and for always.

Some promises are broken, but what keep the couple together is the understanding. Sometime guy does some promises he can't make it then there must be reason, and u have to evaluate then that wot was the factor that drives that guy astray from the promise. On the other hand girl may do broke the promise but u have to understand, but if any of those goes too far in to breaking the promises then the best thing is let it go and live apart.

Long Distance Relationship are more worst then anything else, they need 100% commitement, coz u r not even seeing the person face-to-face. but yes lil bit (via web cam ) and talking on fone also give u some hint what kind of person he/she is.

The best thing to do in True Love is stick with what you promised . coz hardship are temporary they are not meant for last forever, only True Love last forever and for good.

But remember, dont cross ur limits, whateve the guy/ gal decided,coz once u cross the limits ... Love won't be the same again.

Everyone guy I have ever tried to meet online ends up having major issues of some sort or another....call it bad luck.

Thank you so much Mahvish19..
HEy Alert for GIRLS ..i want to make a lot of girl friends,
so we should make some nice village or if not village at least start emailing each other...or i dont know something..

I strongly beleive in love. And i am not sure about meeting nice people online, but i did met someone very nice online but the thing is we are not for each other.So i am also confused how to find someone...bcos in america its very hard to have many sunni muslim at one place unless u live in some huge city.And as for arrange marriges sometimes moms of guys have extraordinary expectations and sometimes guys already have affairs with other girls and while mom is in the process of getting him married, he already get engage to other girl. And then the poor girl who was dreaming of this guy thru arrange marrige get a hard time.
So it does not work either.
Hmm now the thing is if u met someone online, and they initially show very interested and after soemtime they say they are in serious realtionship with someother girl(excuse me) , and if your parents arrange marrige for you and the guy is already engage to girl he is in love with, So tell me who are THOSE lucky girls....man since i have always seen guys and gals complaining that they can not find anyone...I am so confused and hurt.

I THINK that maybe there is true love...I have seen married couples who are in love with each other....I myself have never been in love.

Really, so sorry to hear that. These on line relationships are not reliable at all. It?s very difficult to meet someone great on the Internet. There are a great many people who lie about their appearance, age, marital status, and criminal record. Online relationships don't allow you to see their regular life, nor can you see personal behaviors that may disturb you. So I think it's unrealistic to fall in love with someone online unless you have met them. It is not possible to find true love on the Internet. My advice is just be careful! And proceed with caution

Never trust a man you meet off the internet. I had to learn that the hard way recently.......

No I don't believe in love. There is no true love in this world.

yes, i believe in love..i believe it for others..not for ME though. as far as the fall in love then get your but kicked thing...thats not a female only affliction.