The ratio of adultery and fornication in non-islamic societies is still much higher than polygamy among muslims ... It is obvious that one man may commit adultery or fornication with a woman and another and another ... So why not encourage your husband to marry again ? ..... As you all know I am in a polygamous marriage and I see nothing wrong with encouraging my husband to marry again .... I say this because in the past I have been viewed as weird and sometimes out of my mind .... but this is what I think ... I think Allah has blessed me with a very good ... kind and wonderful husband who ... performs his duties as a husband beyond my expectations and I say to myself this life we're living on earth is a test for us to make it onto the next life .... THE REAL LIFE .... Junnah ... Inshallah
When I was growing up .. my mom would always say "What you want for yourselves you should always want for others" and I never really paid much attention to the real meaning of these words until now ... So I say why not encourage my husband to marry again ? .... Why shouldn't another sister who's not married and looking for a good husband be not blessed with my husband ? Or any other good husband for that matter.

So I post the question ... Is their anything wrong with encouraging our husbands to marry again?