sahadat,,,,get the sweet hint!!!!!!

i love good restaurants,,, although i am not into designer clothes,,,,,,, but i take more pride in my home, decorating,,,,keeping my family close to me,,,,,,, watching out for my mates,,,,,,,,, actually i love cooking, but i think it is the Lahori blood inside me!!!!
but i do love dressing up and learning new things,,,,,,!!

i very rarely wear designer and i only go to expensive restaurants occasionally. its nice to eat out but also enjoy home cooked food too.. especialy if someone else cooks for me!

imagine this,,, i buy a designer coat for ?400-500,, i could maybe get a coat for ?100/150,,,,, the rest of the money of i sent to charity i could maybe get 6/7 coats for people in Pakistan,,,,,, bear in mind any money we give to Zakat or Sadka(charity) gives us a bigger award!!!

story;;;;;
they was a poor man who was so hungry, he asked Allah,"please give me all the food(rizak) now that you are going to give me in my whole life"
Allah granted his wish and gave him all the food he would of had for his whole life in one day, the man was so happy he distributed the food to everyone in the village and ate himself.
The people were happy and they had such a big feast and the man was grateful to Allah!
Now Allah watched him and Allah thought, I gave this man all the food and his distributed it to my people, now his put a burden, debt on me.
Allah gave that man now more rishak as he had not been greedy and had shared everything he got!!

SO if we think about it.....When we give charity, we are helping our own human, then it makes Allah give us more and more,, on judgment day, all the charity you also help your sins get less as you have helped people in need, you'll be getting loads of dua!!!!

Same Place as you Missy. Levant is one of my favourites too. Recently been wasting money at coccoon far too much as well and Selfridges is like my second home!! );
Your brothers words are wise though, it is a cause for concern and it really does make you think. I should reel things in a bit.