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Girlfriends
Ladies what makes a good girlfriend? What would you think of a girlfriend who only calls you when she only needs something? What do you do with user type girlfriends?
Sweet: I am not sure if women use other women because they dont have a man in their life...women's lives DO NOT revolved around a man. Some women do make a man their life but thats their choice and luckily none of my friends or people that I hangout with are like that. If I sense that, I definitely stay away. Its just a sense of insecurity. So the solution to your question is stay away from women who just call you because they need something....If you feel like they are using you, dump them. I did see that in some of my so called friends and I actually confronted them about it and gave them a chance. They didnt change and I didnt change, so I never talked to them again. Why waste time and why hurt yourself...no use in that. Life is too short to be with useless people...I guess in time you will realize...
Proma: I am sure you and all the men in this world would love that...are you hinting that you like to be dominated ;) I always welcome that ;) hehehehe
use a girlfriend refers to girls being rude to girls.. doesn't apply to guys and their girls...
use = as stajani says, ignore them when they come up with their latest sob story (trust me there will be 301 of these over the course of each year)... use them when it suits you for a change (not that it will mean anything to them if they don't realise they are being selfish..)
ingenia, sometimes a good friend is one who decides to start throwing tantrums and asking for attention (when you tell them you have been talking to/ seeing other friends).. and wouldn't understand what you were saying if you pointed out what their behaviour was like
Some girls use another friend when they have no boy in their life. They are lonely and they have no one else to talk to. They want to talk to you and go out with you cause they have no boy to take them out or any other friend cause they lost all their friends. How can you use someone else back?
There is a book ... something something of girlfriends...the name just slipped out of my mind. will let you know about about it soon. Its a great chick book.
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use = as stajani says, ignore them when they come up with their latest sob story (trust me there will be 301 of these over the course of each year)... use them when it suits you for a change (not that it will mean anything to them if they don't realise they are being selfish..)
ingenia, sometimes a good friend is one who decides to start throwing tantrums and asking for attention (when you tell them you have been talking to/ seeing other friends).. and wouldn't understand what you were saying if you pointed out what their behaviour was like