Girl's Best friends

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 9:01am)

comepetition against others of the same sex and latent (or not so latent) attraction to the opposite sex. Of course there are exceptional conditions, we seem to like to maintain small "working groups", specifically when we are out "hunting" (shopping, clubbing, in my case going to the skatepark or local riding spot). i personally think its all context-driven. What one desires drives one's preferred environment, of course, and why should one's choice of company be any different?

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 8:52am)

Huzu/Lastlyric- I was going to say the same thing. If you are nurtured in your upbringing to have friends of the opposite gender, less likely to quickly fall in love. Problem is ven if your parents encourage social interaction, the culture/religion attitude discourages it. I was lucky I have 2 sisters and too many female cousins that I threw frogs on as a child. After 1-2 crushes, I grew up, just a bit :>)

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 7:21am)

whether guys and girls be just friends is a totally different issue people. That can be discussed on the Village entry titled: "Platonic friends?" ..... LastLyric: I would agree I guess both guys or girls who haven't socialized much with the opposite sex most of their lives tend to become romantically involved much easier when they do interact with someone from the opposite sex.

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 6:37am)

I have more than five friends who have helped me in bad times and who shared my happy moments too....so im also lucky.yayyyyy :)00))

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 6:27am)

A friend in need is a friend indeed...and its very easy to share the joys with others...but those who stick around to share your sorrows are your real friends.

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 6:26am)

Alhamdolillah i ve more than five friends who ve shared my good and bad times with me...so im a blessed one!

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 6:24am)

i read that if a person has round 5 friends whom he/she has teasted as sincere ones then thats person is real lucky...so guys tell me how many sincere friends do u have?less than five ....5...or more than 5?

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 5:41am)

yea...and there is no point in socialising with people who are any thing but your wellwishers...and yea Huza i agree with you that Negative energy is great for the Darkside of the force!

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 5:14am)

Siro I agree with you on the point that its easier to fall in love with men once you share every thing with them...talk to them about every thing...get close to them and its natural to start thinking about them(but im talking especially about those women who donot openly mix up with boys...and suppose they start to chat with a guy in a friendly manner...lets say over the phone or the onternet....then it becomes real easy for them to fall for they guys....where as those who have been socialising with boys from their childhood and have as many male friends as the female freinds then they treat men as women as simple friends...and there r less chances of fallling in love with every guy they talk to.lol)........

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 4:38am)

LOL...yea there is always some girly stuff that better escape the ears of the guys....(wink wink):O)

Login to find out (June 11, 2005 at 4:25am)

I dont think its true Huzu that girls get along with guys better than they get along with girls...all my friens are females and we share all are joys and sorrows together...im also close to a few male cousins of mine and we have all the fun in the world...but i feel that there are some thiings that i just cant share with males as easliy and comfortably as i can with my female cousines or friends...i think its a bit different being friends with a guy and a whole new thing with a girl...and i also have this feeling that when people of opposite sex befriend each other...and share their joys n sorrows,spend alot of time with each other, then the likeness is developed and you canot desist yourself from getting involved in that person and then at some stage the vibes of love can be easily felt in your hearts.

Login to find out (June 10, 2005 at 7:06am)

RED i'm all equiped with my oxford dictionary at the ready, right next to me....shoot with your big and long words :op

Login to find out (June 10, 2005 at 7:05am)

huzU sorry yaar....slip of the ole fingers :op

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 10:08pm)

FON: it's Huzu with a U in the end :)

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 8:48pm)

Choti, how are your freiendships with guys different to your friendships with girls.. define please..

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 6:00pm)

HUZA cheers for the dictionery explanations....i hadn't a clue what RED was on about :op

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 3:59pm)

Red- I noticed your muscular vocabulary today, here and in another survey. Been lifting weights with your brain? You go girl! Huzu- can you vocab wrestle (arm wrestle) Red? Wagers anyone?

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 1:35pm)

Coterie: A small, often select group of persons who associate with one another frequently......................... Insensate:Lacking sense or the power to reason....... For those of us who are not english majors..... Oh almost forgot :)........Chamaeleon: Girgit

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 1:07pm)

Negative energy is great for the Darkside of the force! :)

Login to find out (June 9, 2005 at 1:05pm)

Irfani: awwww.....Group hug people :) You are right, negative energy can definitely drag one down. But if its a friend, then you definitely stick by them and help them get through it and if it still continues, then I also distance myself from people.

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