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Greencard Bride?


Hmm.. Confused..



Arab men only want Arab women..



Desi men only want Desi women..



Unless they want a greencard..



Or want to use you for money..



Or something else..



So, questions:



1.) How can you tell if a man is looking for a greencard?



- if he wants to come here, that's fairly obvious, but if he wants you to move there, slightly more subtle..



2.) Why would an Arab or Desi guy (in all honesty) want a non-Arab/Desi woman?



3.) How can you tell when a person is actually genuine?



It's soooo horrible to have such paranoia about people, but it happens all the time. Are there actually good, honest people out there? Or are all international "relationships" doomed to fail?
 

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Login to find out (February 28, 2006 at 3:12am)
.......... if its for green-cards ! yes most definitely. :#
 
Login to find out (January 28, 2006 at 1:58pm)
Can't read that comment :)
 
Login to find out (January 27, 2006 at 11:58pm)
I personally feel, when you are talking abt someone WANTING someone, there are two sides to it. One is for sheer matrimony and nothing else, and the second is dat u love someone and wanna spend the rest of ur life with the person. In the second case, caste, creed, age etc. dnt count at all. In the first, i wud say dat marriage is an extremely dicey relationship. You never know the person u r marrying in totality until u spend ur life with him/her, and at times its too late for a change.
As far as a guy wanting to marry someone for a green card, i wud say dat sincerity does come across in conversation. But, if one is hell bent upon hiding his feelings, only Allah will help you.
I dnt have a green card and dnt want one either but m scared to death abt getting married to someone with whom adjusting wud be impossible ! Its all in Allah's hands.
 
Login to find out (January 23, 2006 at 9:06am)
Not sure about Arabs but Desi's love White skin sorry to put it that way but usually that's a motivator. Another one, is just living in a place w/o a lot of desi's, or they could just fall in love with a non-desi, if a person is liberal they can fall in love with anyone.. not necesarily their own kind (I know I didn't) Anyways greencared seekers It think are obvious, I personaly never dated anyone who was not an American when I was single, but some guys want a green card but also want just a wife to be with... so they are maybe tyring to kill two birds with one stone...