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Hard to Change


What was the hardest thing for you to adjust to after embracing Islam?
 

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Login to find out (March 27, 2006 at 7:49am)
May Allah guide your loved ones to the straight path, Ameen.
 
Login to find out (March 8, 2006 at 9:30pm)
Yes, I think we know this very well about being kind to parents. One can disobey because one has to yet still be kind. We deal with this challenge every day of our lives.
 
Login to find out (March 8, 2006 at 8:39pm)
A.S .....A1407 and masooma, you have indeed been guided. But still your conversion stories are very humbling and eye openers, for a born Muslim.You indeed are the real believers if I may dare say so , although Allah is the judge. But please share your feelings with us. So that you feel you have a new family now too. Be kind to your parents no matter what, Allah says but I know it can be difficult at times. We all have to deal with difficult situations re: parents sometimes, but they still are the parents.May Allah continue to give you courage .(ameen)
 
Login to find out (March 8, 2006 at 7:05pm)
I was too, I think probably a majority of converts are to varying degrees and it is one of the hardest parts of converting.

It took a lot for me to conclude that doing something that hurt my family, angered them, worried them, went against my parents' wishes, etc., was the right thing to do. Up to that point in my life obeying my parents had always been right and suddenly to do right I had to disobey them and go against them in the strongest possible way - it was hard!
 
Login to find out (March 8, 2006 at 6:51pm)
after embracing islam, i was shunned from my family. so the hardest part for me was to put my faith in Allah above others' wants.
 
Login to find out (March 5, 2006 at 12:15am)
I created not jinn and mankind except that they might worship me

Be certain of this, that the highest aim of creation and its most important result are belief in God. And the most exalted rank in humanity and its highest degree are the knowledge of God contained within belief in God. And the most radiant happiness and sweetest bounty for jinn and human beings are the love of God contained within the knowledge of God. And the purest joy for the human spirit and the sheerest delight for man's heart are the rapture of the spirit contained within the love of God. Indeed, all true happiness, pure joy, sweet bounties, and untroubled pleasure lie in knowledge of God and love of God; they cannot exist without them
 
Login to find out (March 5, 2006 at 12:06am)
AS BJ! Indeed it is! God's Work. I stand corrected. Islam is everywhere in the universe, and everything is bowing to the will of Allah....Only humans have been given the freedom of choice.... WHEN HUMAN BOW TO Allah's WILL AS LAID DOWN IN THE QURAN, THEN, THEY BECOME MOMINS :)
 
Login to find out (March 4, 2006 at 6:34pm)
Actually, Islam is God's concept.
 
Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 11:31pm)
AS......I think its very important to remember that Islam is a human concept, and hence universal. Please always keep that in your upper most thoughts when dealing with diversity within its fold. Never let culture be daunting for you. Similarly I have never let western culture override me :)
 
Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 5:53pm)
I think it meant that your positive move to a path of truth would be positive for them also.
 
Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 4:42pm)
Can somebody explain the comment regarding the effect of ones conversion on the dead to which one is connected?
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 3:41pm)
I agree with Shahzelle. When I first learned about Islam, the Muslims I was around were mainly Arab. A couple of years ago, I became friends with a lot of Desis. Both seem to have very different ways of practicing Islam. I kind of decided to do what I feel is right and try not to worry about little things. Also, I like to keep a very diverse group of friends. I think it helps me to see many different perspectives and learn about things that I wouldn't learn about if my friends were all the same ethnicity.

I also suggest learning about different religions. The more you know about other religions, the more you know about Islam. After becoming Muslim, I learned more about Christianity then I ever knew being raised Christian. I also read the Torah. It's really good to be able to compare religions with Islam, mostly when giving Dawah.
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 4:56am)
Please distinguish Islamic and Muslim culture. I find converts to know more about Islam too.
 
Login to find out (February 26, 2006 at 6:05pm)
As in the below example only one fruit of belief to Allah C.C., Hereafter and Qadar.
Belief may produce the pleasures of Paradise in this world . Consider the following single benefit out of hundreds of pleasurable lights. For example, at the very minute you see someone you love dearly in great danger and dying, a doctor who is like both Loqman the Sage and Khidr arrives. Suddenly your friend is restored to life. What great joy you feel. In the same way, belief gives you happiness and joy to the number of the dead whom you love and with whom you are connected. For through the light of belief, millions of people loved by you in the graveyard of the past are suddenly delivered from extinction and death and resurrected before you. They come to life saying, "We did not die, and we shall not die." In place of the numberless pains resulting from those numberless separations, through belief, the innumerable pleasures and joys arising from union and coming to life may be experienced in this world also. Thus, this shows that "Belief is a seed which produces for those who believe the shoots of Paradise together with all its pleasures and properties in this world, and so too will it produce them in the next.
In the opposite side the non believers do not get the benefits and real relief for their souls. And mainly many acq. mental disorders based on this etiology. Thats why in the world like Japan, denmark,Sweden and Holland... most civilised, wealthy and free from every theological rules countries have trouble of depression and depression related main problem suicide.
 
Login to find out (February 26, 2006 at 10:50am)
Salamun alaikum
Mentally illnesses basicly classified as congenital and acquired. And some congenital ones also based some genetical disorders etc.
The congenital mental disorders are accepted as non responsible from the point of Islamic sharia.
But if a person will become depressive,obsessive,manic so on by abusing his/her own soul,mental health by atheistic influences, bad habits like alcoholism-drugs etc., immoral manners accepted as responsible bcs of his/her former life span.
From the point of Islamic sharia if a person will kill somebody when he was drunk he will be punished like a conscious person. Drinking is strictly prohibited from the beginning. In opposition to Sharia western law accepted the drunk period as an extenuating circumstance.
Fi amanillah
 
Login to find out (February 26, 2006 at 9:40am)
Assalamu Alaikum Autumn,
Here is a Hadith from our prophet Pbuh about this:"
The pen does not record the deeds of three persons: the child until the age of puberty; the sleeping person until he wakes up; the insane until he is sane.? (Reported by Ah?mad and at-Tirmidhi.)

Now as far as "sanity" for mental patients goes, I assume it is relative and has perhaps different levels but what happens on the day of judgement is in the hands and knowledge of Allah only, but we know he is the All-Just and All-Merciful.

edgard
 
Login to find out (February 26, 2006 at 6:34am)
we are responsible for our actions to the extent that we intend them, that we bring them on, that we control them, that we decide them, etc.
 
Login to find out (February 26, 2006 at 12:25am)
The hardest point inside the new Muslims of Japan is to announce their new way of belief bcs the perspectives of Islam in these days very close with the issue of terror all around the world. And the influence of western media daily bombarding the social environment of japan. As you know %65 of japan society accepted themselves as irreligious. If they cant be able announce themselves in their social environment they also cant be able to save themselves from alcohol served business meetings etc. Bcs in japan serving and drinking sake accepted a kind of respect ceremony in many activities. Also if no announcement from the beginning they also accepted a hidden life for prayers and making Dawah even to their own families became impossible.
 
Login to find out (February 25, 2006 at 9:16pm)
Also about the issue of Destiny (Qada' / Qadar), we as humans DO have the freedom of will and action. This freedom though is contained within the will of Allah (ie we can't overpower him and do something above his will), nevetherless we do have freedom for sure, otherwise we can't be judged on our actions if we didn't have it. We know how the Qada' and Qadar works, just like we know of Allah's attributes and his interaction with humans and the world, however we don't comprehend the Qada' and Qadar just like we can't comprehend Allah as He's above our level of comprehension.
 
Login to find out (February 25, 2006 at 9:12pm)
ASsalamu Alaikum AutumnBreeze,

Babyj is right, Allah Almighty with his mercy will judge people according to what they know and are aware of (Muslims or not). Those who don't know about Islam, or those who have a bad impression of Islam because of what's going on in the world have an excuse but if they die as not Muslims Allah will give them a chance on the day of judgement through a test. When it comes to Hellfire, in a Hadith the prophet peace be upon him asked his companions on whether a mother would throw her new babyborn in the fire, and then he made an analogy that Allah Almighty has much more mercy to humans than this mother to her child and thus those who end up in hellfire must have transgressed outside his mercy to deserve it.