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Heart breaking girl friend
I just had this missUnderstanding with one of my very very good girlfriend. We both are on naseeb and share the single hood. She like a guy here on naseeb and been talking and exchanging mails. She told me that she is talking to him about a month ago and told me to check him out. I did. I emailed him to say hi and commented something about his profile. My intentions were purely to look out for my friend. He replied friendly and that was it. I never emailed him back heck i never even visited his profile again.
my mistake: I didn't tell her that i emailed him, honestly just because i forgot as i m always on the run and soo much going on in my own life.
She laterz complained that they never talked to each other on phone its just emails. and other stuff which tells anyone that They are not really a couple.
some days ago she brought him again in our conversation and i told her that i appologize i forgot to tell you that i emailed that guy to find out how he is. i hope you didn't mind. (to me she shouldnt've) She was alright that instant.
I talked to her after 2 hours and he just bursted at me.. and despite of my apology she said some strong words like " even i told u that i like this guy you contacted him without letting me know, make me judge your character".
I was soo upset and shocked and never imagined that she would it that way. I tried to explain that i was the one who told her about it not the guy.
She agreed on taking my apology and refuse to apologise on her remark for me.
I do have other girlfriend and i still think she is a great girl to be friend with and i love her like a sister and i expected the same from her. But...
I think that when they are not even couple she should've consider her behaviour with me and apologise for the strong words she said and on her wrong judgment. I don't think she should throw her great friendship with me for a guy she don't even know like her or not. And she is so smart and intelligent and knows so much about guys and relationships she couldn't think that if that guy would come after me i wouldn't even consider him because i already know my friend likes him.
Even though we see each other online... but since then we have this cold block of ice. I think she should apologize to me first. I hate this situation but i have just enough ego in me.
my mistake: I didn't tell her that i emailed him, honestly just because i forgot as i m always on the run and soo much going on in my own life.
She laterz complained that they never talked to each other on phone its just emails. and other stuff which tells anyone that They are not really a couple.
some days ago she brought him again in our conversation and i told her that i appologize i forgot to tell you that i emailed that guy to find out how he is. i hope you didn't mind. (to me she shouldnt've) She was alright that instant.
I talked to her after 2 hours and he just bursted at me.. and despite of my apology she said some strong words like " even i told u that i like this guy you contacted him without letting me know, make me judge your character".
I was soo upset and shocked and never imagined that she would it that way. I tried to explain that i was the one who told her about it not the guy.
She agreed on taking my apology and refuse to apologise on her remark for me.
I do have other girlfriend and i still think she is a great girl to be friend with and i love her like a sister and i expected the same from her. But...
I think that when they are not even couple she should've consider her behaviour with me and apologise for the strong words she said and on her wrong judgment. I don't think she should throw her great friendship with me for a guy she don't even know like her or not. And she is so smart and intelligent and knows so much about guys and relationships she couldn't think that if that guy would come after me i wouldn't even consider him because i already know my friend likes him.
Even though we see each other online... but since then we have this cold block of ice. I think she should apologize to me first. I hate this situation but i have just enough ego in me.
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So I don't really believe in a trinity as such. I believe that God's Holy Spirit is breathed inside us - which separated us from the other animals God created. But Jesus - although a most holy prophet - is a Son like we are all sons and daughters of God.
And Mohamad (pbuh) as a prophet? Why the heck not? That was always my thoughts on the matter. I'll never forget the Baptist guy who freaked me out when I dared ask the question about Mohamad (pbuh). I'll never make that mistake again (whew!). I think I got out of there barely with my life in-tact. ha, ha!
But I don't think the last has come yet. That's my personal thoughts. The Bible teaches me that Jesus is the last, but I believe that Mohamad (pbuh) is also a prophet, so how can I believe that Jesus was the last???
And of course God is the only God. "Thou shalt have no other gods before me." I don't memorize the order, but that's one of the first two Commandments we as Christians have. It went something like God is a jealous God - I thought that was always a cute way of putting it - and that we shall have no others before Him.
I think that's why He got righteously pissed off when the gang Moses led out of Egypt started worshipping their golden cows and whatever they had.
But then that's how fickle we humans are too. There you have this God who just led you from captivity and here you go worshipping your worthless idols again. Lol... I'd have been pissed off too.
YOU REFER TO OUR PROPHET AS (SWT),,,,, ITS A START??
SO WHO DO YOU THINK THE LAST PROPHET WAS???
DO YOU BELEIVE ALLAH IS ONE???
DO YOU BELIEVE THAT CHRIST WAS A PROPHET??
ALL THE PROPHETS WHAT CAME TO EARTH COULD DO SOMETHING THAT NO MAGICIAN WOULD BE ABLE TO DO, ALLAH GAVE THEM THAT GIFT SO PEOPLE BELIEVE!!!
PROPHET JESUS MADE THE DEAD COME BACK TO LIFE, HE WAS GIVEN THE ANGEL OF DEATH AND ANGEL OF LIFE AS A GIFT!!!
OUR PROPHET SPLIT THE MOON IN HALF, IF YOU LOOK VERY VERY CLOSE TO THE MOON YOU CAN SEE THE SPILT,,,,,,
PROPHET MOSES SPLIT THE SEA IN HALF,,,,, THIS IS WHERE HIS PEOPLE CROSSED!!!
T-DOG, YOU WILL NOT BE CONVERTING BUT REVERTING BACK TO ISLAM!!!
T-DOG THE BIGGEST SIN IS BELIEVING THAT ALLAH IS NOT ONE, LIKE MANY CHRISTIANS WHO BELIEVE IN CHRIST BEING THE SON, AND THE HOLY SPIRIT AND JESUS AND GOD BEING ONE,,,,,,,, THIS IS FALSE AND DON'T BELEIVE IN IT!!
ALLAH, GOD IS ONLY ONE, HE HAS NO SON, DAUGHTER MOTHER OR FATHER!!!!
So I don't see why I should convert, but I do incorporate a lot of Islamic ideals into my life as I feel they are worthy for everyone.
Wow! My boss just said the F-word in there. Great. I'm going to have a good day. (sigh) Only 9:24 a.m. too.
NGE IS THE MOST HONEST, SWEET PERSON YOU'LL EVER MEET,,,,, JUST DON'T CALL HER "BABE" OR "LOVE" THEN YOUR IN HER GOOD BOOKS!!!! ;)
T-DOG... HAVE YOU REVERTED TO ISLAM YET????
FRIENDSHIP IS SOMETHING HARD TO FIND,,,,, THERE ARE LOADS OF NICE PEOPLE WHO WILL APPRECIATE GOOD FRIENDSHIPS,,,,,,,,
IN TOTAL COUNTING ALL MY GALS,,,, WE ARE 37 OF US AND ALL OF US ARE BEST FRIENDS AND KEEP IN TOUCH WHEN WE CAN, BUT WE ALL RESPECT EACH OTHER AND TRUST EACH OTHER,
WE GALS ALWAYS STICK TOGETHER, ALTHOUGH SOME OF THEM ARE NOW MARRIED AND WITH KIDS AND SOME LIKE ME ARE SINGLE BUT SEEING SOMEONE!!!!
ONLY PROBLEM IS,, AS I AM THE ONLY CHILD,,, ALL THESE GALS ARE LIKE SISTER,,,,,,,,,,,,,MY HUSBAND WILL HAVE ENOUGH SISTER-IN-LAWS!!
Morals, I'm going through sh*t at work today due to stupid women co-workers talking smack about me and my boss heard it. Now I'll get reprimanded tonight before I go home.
It's such nonsense.
Also, while I do agree with you about the fact that they really aren't a couple and she doesn't have a right to be so upset with you (you were just looking out for your sis), SHE thinks they are in a relationship. Unfortunately perception is reality.
When she learns the hard way and he breaks her heart she'll be back. Otherwise you'll have to eat the humble pie.
MORALS AND I HARDLY SEE EACH OTHER, WE HARDLY CHAT BUT WE ARE GOOD FRIENDS AND RESPECT EACH OTHER,,,
MORALS HAS CHILLED WITH ME AND MY MAN, WE'VE ALL GONE OUT TOGETHER AND HAD A GREAT TIME!!
I LOVE MORALS,WHEN WE DO MEET WE HAVE A GOOD TIME,,,CUSSS MEN, GOSSIP AND LAUGH!!!
THIS IS FRIENDSHIP,,,TRUST AND UNDERSTANDING!!
also miss L is right if he is on naseeb he will turn out to be an ar-se very soon....sonner or later he will be exposed to be an player and a pr_t - ..jsut wait it out she will be back ...they always come bk when the men play up.....
SOME OF MY BEST FRIENDS LOST CONTACT WITH ME OVER THE YEARS AND AFTER 4/5 YEARS WE ARE NOW IN TOUCH,,,,,
MOST OF MY FRIENDS WE GO BACK 10/15 YEARS OR MORE,,, SOME NEW FRIENDS I HAVE MADE HAVE ALSO BECOME CLOSE FRIENDS AND WE ARE ALL VERY VERY WELL UNITED.
BELIEVE ME WHEN SOME NEW PEOPLE COME AND SHITTSTIR IN OUR FRIENDSHIP,WE CAN ARGUE AND DELETE NUMBERS BUT WHEN WE DO KOOL OFF WE BECOME FRIENDS AGAIN AND ARE MORE CAREFUL OF WHAT IS BEING SAID TO US!!!
SOME GALS ARE JUST BITTCHES AND THEY VALUE MEN MORE THEN FRIENDSHIP.........
YOU SHOULD TELL US WHO THE GUY IS SO WE'LL ALL EMAIL HIM AND GET HIM GOING!!!!
SEED,,, YOU SHOULD GO OUT AND PARTY AND LET YOUT HAIR DOWN AND HANG AROUND PEOPLE WHO APPRECIATE FRIENDSHIP AND CAN HAVE A LAUGH!!!
MY MATES CALL MY BOYFRIEND AND CHAT TO HIM ALL THE TIME,CUZ HIS A BUSINESSMAN AND HE ALWAYS RESPECTS THEM,,,,, HIS ALWAYS GIVING THEM BROTHERLY ADVISE AND THEY ALL LOVE HIM TO BITS,,,,, HIS GAINED A LOT OF RESPECT IN MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND IN MY EYES, HIS THE BEST MAN I COULD EVER PRAY FOR!!!
I NEVER GET JEALOUS BECAUSE THEY IS NO NEED TO BE!!
ALTHOUGH ASAIN SPITEFUL WOMEN WOULD POISON YOU AND SAY,,, KEEP HIM AWAY FROM YOUR MATES IN CASE HIS INTENTIONS CHANGE,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, THIS IS TRUE FOR SOME MEN WHO ARE JUST BORN ASSSHOLES ,,,,, BUT THEY ARE SOME MEN IN THIS WORLD, LIKE MY NEW MAN WHO ARE GOD FEARING AND COME FROM VERY GOOD FAMILY BACKGROUNDS THAT THEY KNOW HOW TO GIVE/RECEIVE RESPECT!!!
BUT IF A MATE LIKES A MAN THEN ITS SAFE TO BACK OFF,,,, WATS BULLOCK ABOUT THIS,,,,,,,, SOME GALS ARE TOO DESPERATE SO JUST LEAVE HER AND HER MAN TO IT!!!!
I PERSONALLY COULDN'T GIVE A SHIIIT WHICH FEMALE MATE OF MINE EMAILED ANY OF MY BOYS AS I TRUST I MATES AND MY BOYS,,,,,,, BUT SOME DESI GALS HAVE SMALL MANTALITY!!!!
BUT SOMETHING TO LEARN FOR THE FUTURE!!!