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i need advice...for my friend....quote unqoute...

see i have this "friend" who has a "problem"...

see there's this friend she has of the opposite often unavoidable and baffling sex, they get along so incredibly great its gross...but lately ppl have been murmuring...that maybe there's something more?? that those two jus arent seeing?? and to open their eyes...why?? why mess them up like that?? good friendship, solid friendship...and then they threw all that other word vomit into the mix...so now she's all weirded out...he's oblivious(surprise, surprise) and she dont know wut to do...:( all this confusion and drama, obviously all from her part cuz he's jus not gettin it, no one said anything to him, all comments were directed to the drama queen...i had nothing to do with this, i swear...help!!

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i don't understand the question at allllll

Thanx guys! I shall pass this on...

AP : you think liking someone is haram?? explain...

its haram

i understand its VERY scary because you care for him so much and dont want to lose him if he doesnt feel the same way for you and then gets weirded out and distant...thats the worst case scenerio of course...i agree with Gala, in that the friendship will never be what it used to be...but that doesnt necessarily have to be a bad thing....if this works out for the best, inshallah...it can lead to a wonderful relationship...you guys know each other...theres none of that fake stuff in attempting to impress the other....the only thing left is letting him know...thats the hardest part...you figure out when you wanna do it...and how...and whatever happens i wish you luck with it...:)

Salma, it is too the friendship is already gone, even if he never feels a thing or know a thing, she is thinking of him in these terms and she can never enjoy the friendship the same. so she should work now on the base that she is in love and consider her options.

o man, all this confusion...i didnt even word the je properly :( i guess ultimately...shud she make a move?? cuz yes, LM...i think she is falling for him...which probably never wudve happened if ppl had jus kept their mouths shut!! :# its jus goes back to the whole, its an awesome friendship, dont wanna wreck it...'sigh' my sis is rite when she says that a guy and a girl cant be friends witout one of them liking the other...

guys are clueless and if the girl makes the first move he'll probably just want to keep the status quo, maybe someone else should mention it to him

people ruin everything!....a good, solid friendship is HARD to come by...im confused though...are you...ahem i mean "your friend" falling for him??.

so whats the question? and whats seam to be the problem? that people are talking? people always talk. no stopping that, what else?

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