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How about the guys shed some light for a change...
Okay heres a twist for ya! we are sitting here trying to figure out what are some of the signs gurls give guys when they are interested... how about you guys shed some light on some of the non verbal ways you guys try to hint to us that you are interested... I need all the input that i can get right now... LOL
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i dont claim to be a mack daddy or anything but im not settling for one or the other...looks, brains, dIn,
all or none.
thats probably a big reason im single..its not an easy set of traits to find
but i also believe in God's divine plan for every human and sometimes you just need to get out of the way of the plan and let it work instead of trying to Make it work.
(H)
i understand the female perspective however, because id say men think that if they can just get the giril hooked, shell then have to accept his hidden sordid whatever it may be. maybe he hides the fact that he smokes...maybe he hides the fact that he has a shady past. maybe his job isnt all he purported it to be. maybe (and this is a big one) he ISNT quite as islmaic/religion as he claimed initially.
does it work both ways...it sure does..but i dont think it goes to the same extent. guys generally are hung up on looks and if the girl looks good enough, hell gladly be "trapped"
Why do guys need the need to lie to trap a gurl? Why not just be truthful and honest with what a guy wants in order to find someone most compatible with him?
I say this without pointing the finger on the gurlies because some of us out there also lie to trap a man, but our lies tend to be of a different sort. (If you know what I mean)
I don't know here we are we have gone full circle and now we are back at the honesty issue and how couples can so easily lie to get what they want or who they want... WHY????
discussion.
i wonder though, as many guys say that it should be her choice..how many just SAY that to get her interested and TRAP her. only later to find out he NEVER intended it to be that way. :* :* :*
I have to agree with Samspan, it should be her choice. I am not saying there shouldn't be a discussion about it but at the end of the day it is her choice whether or not she want to work full time or just stay home full time.
lets move away from this negativity.
lets move onto positive things. :)
i didnt realize it was gonna be friday night fights.
well, i guess weve proven that its not just men that
can get on a womans last nerve!!1
When I stated in my profile that I am atypical Arab gurl wasn't out of insecurity it?s the mere truth! Anyone who knows me well agrees to that statement. But I don't need to justify myself to you or anyone. I am who I am and damn proud of it!
The reason why I?m on naseeb is because I have a couple of friends on here who invited me to join in order to keep in touch with them! I ain't looking for love on here believes me!
And staph darling don't be jealous just cuz I look better than you... LOL
Now to the men: There is nothing wrong with being a full time dad! If you think that may emasculate you in any way shape or form that is just your insecurities speaking out! Kids need both parents to be there for them, and that is that
As for Araf's question. I find nothing wrong with being a full time mom till the babies are old enough to be in preschool, and than I?m off to work again. After all spending quality time with my children is so much better than spending all day with them resenting them and my husband because I don't have an out side life of my own.
Now to each his own, and that is just my opinion and how I want to be. And I realize I need to find me someone who is supportive of my life style...
One final word to you Staph, if its so easy for you to go out and find yourself someone who can fall head over heels for you sweetie why in the world are you on this website? What aren't you telling us that is making you search for love online???
Anyway that is my advice to you and you know what I am sure you?re just making fun, and I am sort of hoping you are :) because no one can be THIS freaking shallow! LOL
la tortura.
i think it has to do with "success" more than money.
i consider myself very successful in my career (as opposed to other aspects) and if a woman made more
mone than me it wouldnt diminish MY success.
now if i had a dead end job or and she was a lawyer or doctor or did whatever and made more than me then maybe it would be different.
i guess what im saying is that its difficult for me know how id feel. i actually really want a very successful woman but i feel successful already. know what i mean???