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How do u understand she likes u?
To us guys, girls are often puzzling! Well, just for the good of the two sides, how do you understand that a girl likes us? I mean what kind of indications she reveals meaning that she likes you?
well.....ayub, i agree with you. It depends on the individual's perception, but talking seriously and frankly, now a days i am not having patience with anyone else.....lol
well....its so hard to explain these things.....we just discover how much we're loved when someone is able to do everything for you.....btw......, now talking with you promakhos, girls are not hard to understand....the problem is, men usually dont have patience with us....lol this is the issue!
well, when a woman change her style life, religion, leave the family and job to stay with you, be sure she must be crazy about you.. (i did that for someone and i got a kick on my ass)
What? Why am i confusing you? i am just trying to shed some light on some things is all.
I agree that gurls are hard to understand sometimes, but you guys have your fair share in confusing the heck out of us as well! so don't go putting blame on one gender when you know you are also guilty as well. PEACE!
Prom I don't really no anymore. Tell you the truth I'm not so good at reading women's minds it is always a puzzle you gotta walk a careful line here sometimes you say a word and they may have a thousand interpretation to it I give up :(
this is why it is so difficult to understand women. They say no but this no may mean a shy yes or wait maybe it does mean NO. Remember very few ppl say no with an "explanation" and most, when they say no, provide no explanation so guys and gals are left guessing. No means no and if someone wants to play expensive saying NO is the wrong way to d it. As to building friendship I agree and I also agree that platonic friendship is very difficult to build. Still you can build a friendship based on common understanding that "let's take it one step at a time" and see what develops, this makes it a lot easier to be honest and straightforward in all phases of the relationship. Agree?
Caar,
That may be true but you know that in the matters of the heart it?s not all black and white. If she says no but she seems to want to say yes (you know playing hard to get) than she wants him to keep trying. But if it?s a flat out no with an explanation than yeah you are right. We can't look at this as this way or that way. We are unique and differ in so many ways. The guy needs to realize that he needs to build a friendship with the gurl he is interested in and visa versa and than build from there. After all I read somewhere if a guy wants to be friends with a gurl he HAS to find her physically attractive; which means that there is no platonic friendship between men and women. Now, do you agree, or disagree?
wisala I read somehere that when a girl says no and the guy still wants to be a friend the gurl will interpret this as if the guy still hopes to be able to change her mind in time so it is all a big game isn't it :( well it's mentally exhausting to be involved in such a thing so if he or she says no the best thing to do is move on, of course with no hard feelings :)
Prom, u need to start seeing this as more than just a numbers game! i'm serious i think this is where you losing most of us and just gaining more 'friends'. pick one and stick with her, and if she likes you back consider yourself lucky and marry her b4 she changes her mind... see its not about numbers its about timing ;-)
Um Caar I think you forgot to mention what you promised. :)
And Prom maybe it?s your attitude that needs to change! I mean you come in here and say that we are all beautiful, you want us all, and there are too many of us but so little you!
Love is not a numbers game nor should it be a freagin game! It?s about connecting, communicating and loving someone!
But no matter what guys will always look at love as if it's a hunt! Now I know we (gurls) are known to be guilty of the same thing, but I hey we learned that stuff from you guys ;) and now that we are playing the games by your rules you all can't stand it.
Well you know what I can say to that?
TUFF!!!! Get over yourself and ask that special gurl you want to out already! And if she says no, don't hate her. Be her friend ;)
Yalla I?ve said my piece... whatcha gonna say Prom??
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I agree that gurls are hard to understand sometimes, but you guys have your fair share in confusing the heck out of us as well! so don't go putting blame on one gender when you know you are also guilty as well. PEACE!
this is why it is so difficult to understand women. They say no but this no may mean a shy yes or wait maybe it does mean NO. Remember very few ppl say no with an "explanation" and most, when they say no, provide no explanation so guys and gals are left guessing. No means no and if someone wants to play expensive saying NO is the wrong way to d it. As to building friendship I agree and I also agree that platonic friendship is very difficult to build. Still you can build a friendship based on common understanding that "let's take it one step at a time" and see what develops, this makes it a lot easier to be honest and straightforward in all phases of the relationship. Agree?
That may be true but you know that in the matters of the heart it?s not all black and white. If she says no but she seems to want to say yes (you know playing hard to get) than she wants him to keep trying. But if it?s a flat out no with an explanation than yeah you are right. We can't look at this as this way or that way. We are unique and differ in so many ways. The guy needs to realize that he needs to build a friendship with the gurl he is interested in and visa versa and than build from there. After all I read somewhere if a guy wants to be friends with a gurl he HAS to find her physically attractive; which means that there is no platonic friendship between men and women. Now, do you agree, or disagree?
And Prom maybe it?s your attitude that needs to change! I mean you come in here and say that we are all beautiful, you want us all, and there are too many of us but so little you!
Love is not a numbers game nor should it be a freagin game! It?s about connecting, communicating and loving someone!
But no matter what guys will always look at love as if it's a hunt! Now I know we (gurls) are known to be guilty of the same thing, but I hey we learned that stuff from you guys ;) and now that we are playing the games by your rules you all can't stand it.
Well you know what I can say to that?
TUFF!!!! Get over yourself and ask that special gurl you want to out already! And if she says no, don't hate her. Be her friend ;)
Yalla I?ve said my piece... whatcha gonna say Prom??