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HOW DO YOU FIND BEST deals when you are shopping for a husband?


HOW DO YOU FIND BEST deals when you are shopping for a husband?
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Got a great hubby? share your shopping secrets


I am writing this from my personal experience.I am registered at a popular Desi matrimonial website.I am having a DIFFICULT time meeting quality men through people

It is surprising A Pakistani girls are very popular among different cultures because they are conservative and gets a lot of offers from different peoples from different cultures.

The problem is a conservative girls does not know how to handle a guy who runs in a fast block (ya they don't walk)

Can any SMART married girl out there email me some TRICKS OF THE TRADE?
Most of the guys out there have been around ALL the BLOCKS! too much! that they do not wish to trade their freedom for a committed relationship and know too well how to play the game.I doubt if they are seriously looking unless they have the Ultimate VISA problem or some other reason to make them tie a knot. or if the woman is very Rich.

I have a had contact from a lot of men.I have a good # of members in my list my problem is I AM HAVING A HARD TIME FIGURING THESE MEN OUT OR MAY BE I DON'T KNOW HOW TO HANDEL THEM WELL. I haven't been around guys at all

I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE FROM SMART married (gals)people OUT THERE!
E-MAIL ME IF YOU WISH NOT TO POST THERE..PLEASE HELP!
Please give sincere advice,I am seriously shopping for a husband.I need your help
Your input will be appreciated and confidential.

I am looking for someone who is soft spoken, romantic, passionate ,committed, has strong family values especially morality (faithful), mutual respect ,makes joint decisions ,who is sincere about me,raised in Islamic culture and has good values.

Some MUSLIM guys are literally CALL THEM SELVES" Gigolos" who wish to have a side mistresses along with wife.I am NOT seeking them,but even some gutless weak emotionally needy men try to copy these other men too!

No Muslimah waits her life to marry a Gigolo! like Deuce Bigalow: European Gigolo ?...may be who may have better genes at least.
Strangely they even call themselves "pigs" and "dogs"???!!! !!!!

This has been confirmed by many guys.Their stay in USA is not the reason either, its their own lack of character integrity.


I NEED A MENTOR TO GUIDE ME ,ANY SMART TACTFUL MARRIED GIRL OUT THERE WHO IS WILLING TO SHARE HER 2 CENTS WITH ME? PLEASE
EMAIL ME IF THAT MAKES YOU COMFORTABLE..THANKS

I wonder how do Hijabi women work out these problems when guys tell me to bring a guy from back home If I want a faithful hubby?...so Hijabis what do you do?

The thing is, IF I do bring a guy here from Pakistan I would never know his potential to become one of these MORONS? & that would help him in immigration & he may take off too?It does not take time for a guy to catch colors from other men influencing them...Any good advice about this?

It would be nice to hear from a appily Married WOMEN..share your wisdom ...women helping single women ...That would be a a really a cool woman!

Are you her?




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PS= There are Liberal guys for Liberal girls too.They single,Liberal girls can post their own experience.I am not concerned with them.
 

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Login to find out (July 22, 2006 at 4:58am)
what is a wimbledon accent (says the Paki girl with the English accent)?!!! I've always stuck by the rule that if you go looking ye shall never find and just when you're not they come in droves... well ok not droves but I've been caught unawares a few times. I look for someone with good written English but that's my personal standards. If someone has that good quality English then they are likely to have grown up away from the brethren so are less likely to be obnoxious, immature and generally paindu. (Ok now i've probably upset a lot of people) but here in the UK...oh dear...the choice is soooooooo ...actually there is no choice...
 
Login to find out (March 13, 2006 at 7:31am)
Definitely MPG!
 
Login to find out (March 13, 2006 at 1:36am)
Tok you're so silly!! Boy i miss you!! we should do diner on a weekday or soomething since the next couple of weekends i will be busy! i might be going to jackson heights to shop so you can meet me there!! :)
 
Login to find out (March 11, 2006 at 8:27am)
YEAH!!!!!!!

ADVANTAGE, MISSPAKIGIRL (imagine that being said in a Wimbledon accent)!
 
Login to find out (March 11, 2006 at 3:02am)
TOK has a point .........shockin! LOL but ya most married gals are busy being married instead of spending too much time on naseeb....

You dont have to take my advice now since iam technically not married, but after this summer we can talk, but then again i might be too busy! LOL JK
 
Login to find out (March 9, 2006 at 7:38pm)
Maybe 1 out of every 200 women who actually are active in JE's or Villages are married. However, you can find a SHYT LOAD of divorcees!

C'mon now with the stupid questions. You know most chicks are on here to meet guys. Is that a secret???
 
Login to find out (March 9, 2006 at 4:00pm)
Dude there are married women here !

Why do you think so? please share.........
 
Login to find out (March 9, 2006 at 3:17pm)
Wake up!

You posted this on Naseeb.com. You won't find many married women here!
 
Login to find out (March 9, 2006 at 2:59pm)
They tell you that they ARE by their own mouth,what more do you want ,write it on a piece of paper.
When men tell something about them selves they are usually honest...even if they are telling their worst traits.
that is good so then you know what you don't want.
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Theoutkast ,wrote

How about you start off by meeting these men before labeling them gigolos (LMAO as if that was really true). Go have dinner, a cup of coffee, or something like that. You don't know shyt about shyt making all those assumptions
 
Login to find out (March 9, 2006 at 2:53pm)
Nice of you to reply I am asking only married women ,which you are NOT .Thanks for your post


{It would be nice to hear from a happily Married WOMEN..share your wisdom ...women helping single women ...That would be a a really a cool woman!

Are you her?}
 
Login to find out (March 9, 2006 at 2:47pm)
Misspakigirl ..........
What else do you call matrimonial search that is shopping for hubby(wife for men)Thank you for your advice .yes it does make some sense.

Men like women who are secure in them selves and are self supportive.So they make up for the part the fall short of.

If you cruise thru other looking for soul mate profiles.you will find strange thing that people have fixed things they want to look for like ...some one who can talk without words ,just in eyes?
Someone with innocence?
Friendship? you can become enemies too later on.
Some people hate the word soul mate? Duuh??


Thats the strange thing about the way people respond ,you know ,esp because its written for married women to comment and it's usually single people who do comment...may be because they are in the same search...or God knows & esp they are very rude else where I posted.I wish them good luck anyway.In general ,I find leg pulling very common among Desi,esp if someone is asking for an advice for self improvement.
Why don't married women comment NOT all women are married in arranged marriages?Are they...??
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 11:57am)
Well I guess thats why I don't go Husband Shopping! ;)
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 11:51am)
K-Mart in aisle 8!!!

Gosh TOK you dont know what you are talking about!!

It Target in aisle 4!
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 11:43am)
Well anyway, this whole journal cracks me up. How do you give someone advice on husband shopping? I mean wtf kind of answers is she looking for, go to K-Mart and check aisle 8???
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 11:34am)
You're so silly!!

No, trust me my advice works!!

The only time I've met jerks were the times when i didnt make myself #1 in my life and when I would give them 2nd or 3rd chances!

When i didnt do that, I only met great guys who would make any woman happy, we just didn't have that chemistry!
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 11:28am)
I'm different? Theres probably thousands of guys out there like me. You're giving this woman bad advice. She's pretty lost as it is. With everything you know about guys, don't you think you can do a lot better then judge men by your first impression??? ;)
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 11:10am)
You're different dork-wad!! LOL You weren't a husband-hunt!!! All you were to me was a Giants fan back then!!

Now you are so much more!! *Sigh* only if i can have 2 hubbies! LOL
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 8:29am)
Really MPG??? How do you explain our friendship then? You hated me the first time!!!
 
Login to find out (February 8, 2006 at 8:05am)
Listen to MPG, she knows what she is talking about.
 
Login to find out (February 7, 2006 at 4:48pm)
Act like you don't need a man, and focus on bettering yourself..........then they'll come running to you.

Also, don't take sh!t from a guy..........Oprah says, "When a man shows you how he is the first time, believe him" Meaning if he does or says something jerk-sh... then best believe he is a jerk...........

I know those 2 things will help in the hunt....I've met more great guys than bad just by following my own advice!!