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how to get hitched?


yeah hi and salaams. im pretty young. but i would prefer to marry a memon so our kids can speak memoni and all that, however, i'm curious as to how other memon youngins intend to find their life partners (gosh, i hate that phrase...life partners, its so uber corny!)

but yeah, how does one go about finding a fellow memon to settle down with? the task seems especially hard to me, especially given the fact that there arent exactly very many of us around the US/Canada.

and yeah i know, little things like "i like psychology! so the guy i marry should be a total nut about psych as well" really dont matter, but thats not my point exactly.

the fact remains that one comes across hundreds upon hundreds of different kinds of people during their entire lifetime. the chances of absolute compatability (or the potential for absolute compatibility, anyway) are obviously very low.

contribute to that the fact that THERES NOT VERY MANY MEMONS AROUND NORTHERN AMERICA (as if i havent mentioned this enough times already) it seems really hoepless

or is it just me? btw, im not one of those uber ethnocentric, "i'm memon, hear me roar, memon pride" kind of person, but i do care about my roots, much much more than i used to.
 

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Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 12:40pm)
bump!
 
Login to find out (November 4, 2005 at 7:02am)
EID MUBARAK!
 
Login to find out (October 28, 2005 at 11:53am)
interesting...
 
Login to find out (October 1, 2005 at 9:39pm)
oh woops hes in this village too hehe
 
Login to find out (October 1, 2005 at 9:38pm)
so i came across this guy in the other memon pride village who seems like he would be a good catch...handsome and a doctor........all u single memon ladies better move fast
 
Login to find out (September 29, 2005 at 5:46pm)
hello to my dear memon social support group, LOL. sorry if that sounds lame. i really havent known many memons my age. infact im not aware of that many memons outside my immediate familly scattered across north america.. anyways..i hadnt logged on to naseeb in a while so ive just read all the responses. Memongurl thats a great idea but i dont know about the whole meeting your mate online deal. or maybe i dont want to try, i dont know..it seems kinda hopeless? im kinda laying off these spouse hunt worries, possibly for another 5 seconds. jk no seriously, to heck with hooking up. im going to live in school for the next 20 years.
 
Login to find out (September 22, 2005 at 10:10pm)
all these people tryin to find memon spouses...why not look at each other as potentials?
 
Login to find out (September 15, 2005 at 2:54pm)
lol no atlz dont give up hope! just make dua to Allah and you will get the best...and even if u dont end up with a memon guy look at the plus side...u wont have to deal with the memon stingyness. keep ur hopes up girl...ur still young.
 
Login to find out (September 14, 2005 at 4:09pm)
ive given up all hope now aaahh :-P
 
Login to find out (September 13, 2005 at 8:16pm)
lol are you serious amina?
 
Login to find out (September 13, 2005 at 12:25am)
Don't tell her that! Sally, you don't want him, he's an overbearing JA. Anyway, your best bet is to get a Memon from the "OLD COUNTRY". Lord knows the 25 Memon boys in this country are going to marry girls from "Back Home" because we're not pliant enough because we were raised the same way they were. Guys suck. I'm in a nasty mood, but it's true, all the guys are marrying girls who were either born there or raised there.
 
Login to find out (September 6, 2005 at 11:42pm)
I understand what ur saying, i know alot of girls in the same position. Basically you just have to network in the memon community and make as many memons friends as you can so they recommend you to ppl they know or something. I guess thats how it works. But i know that Samekamaal is looking for a memon girl ;)