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HUSBAND TRAINING INSTITUTE
We seem to have lost our first trainee ZZZZtop.....
this has given us a valuable opportunity to review our curriculum.
ORIGINAL CURRICULUM
1. BULLET TAKING ABILITY
2. SALAAN MAKING ABILITY
HELP IS NEEDED FOR THE REVISED CURRICULUM..........
this has given us a valuable opportunity to review our curriculum.
ORIGINAL CURRICULUM
1. BULLET TAKING ABILITY
2. SALAAN MAKING ABILITY
HELP IS NEEDED FOR THE REVISED CURRICULUM..........
Comments on this journal
In a son-in-law? Hmmm . . . . my attributes. LOL (A)
do u have the qualities you would like to see in your future son-in-law? :P
He did tell me at the same age, that my mother was his best friend, and to look for that in a woman.
Lot not all of my beliefs in what to look for in a relationship comes from my parents.
hmmm.....
what else did ur father tell you, please share? (H)
My father told me when I was around 10, that women should be out of the house to stimulate their brain whehter they had a career or not.
.. having seen too many aunties who stayed at home and spent the day doing little but gossiping away about Farah's son's shenanigans and Sajida's daughter's studies on the phone/ in person..
in some cases they even make a career out of this which apparently supercedes their duty to husband/ home or kids.. i say women should get out of the house, use their brains and contribute to society rather than being the village gossip mongers
If they marry a jerk, they can leave easier than feeling trapped due to lack of career, money, etc. Just generalizing at a high-level at this point.
btw, funny, don't think my last comment was insinuating that I think you are a hypocrite or fake. I was only talking about the poem :)
Also the caps is just to emphasize the diff between NORMAL and IDEAL :)
As for a NORMAL husband, I would see it as man that caters to the needs of his wife. Someone that understands those needs and supplements them to the best of their ability. A guy that listens - not just hears - to what his wife says and DOESN'T say. Sometimes we all (men too) give suttle hints about things and assume our partner should know. Well I think it's a fair assumption; you're partner is with you for life, so who better to know you? Marriage is a partnership and a man has to realize his end of it too.
Also the man has to know when to take charge and when to stand by. Each sex has certain insights that the other doesn't have; who are we to not acknowledge them?
so let's hear your idea of essentials in today's NORMAL modern husband...and if possible today's IDEAL husband, from a man's point of view.....
taking the womens view and the the mens view, i will attempt to marry them together to produce an equally acceptable view....
it's kind of like this...
people say i'm the life of the party,
coz i tell a joke or two,
even though i laugh loud and hearty,
deep inside i'm blue...
so take a good look at my face,
u'll see my smile sticks out of place,
if u look closer it's easy to trace,
the tracks of my tears....
excuse me, sniffle , sniffle....
"... that women looking for a wifey with macho exterior."
I grudgingly agree with Fun_ny, that women looking for a wifey with macho exterior. That is the 'modern woman'