well it depends a lot on what you're trying to accomplish with the mendhi. are you looking for strictly gidda songs or just all out bhangra? and are you looking for more traditional songs or something more contemporary? Some of my personal favorites that might work for your mendhi are these two songs off of dj vips album party time: long gawacha (desi version) and lus lus karde ang (desi killa mix). some other good songs, rani randeep - ishqe di maar (the bhangra pulse version is the best, cause theres added bass), and jagoo from dhol cutz vol 1, deepak sharma - oh yaar korn nachdhi, satwinder bitti - hai hai (desi version), shamshad begum - batti bal ke (this song is a really old classic, if there going to be older women at the mendhi, they'll really enjoy it) and mona singh - kankaan de ohle. I?m sure you?ve heard of most if not all of these songs. They?re all gidda oriented, but if you need anymore help, lemme know. good luck with your mendhi.