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Dear Village Members,
By now, you're probably familiar with a former villager by the name of FreeTurk. He's posted several JE about me and my failure to respond to the emails he'd sent me. I tried to tolerate his very public demands to know why I wouldn't respond to his emails. I even emailed him asking him to stop putting up village posts about his problems with me, that these posts had nothing to do with the purpose of this village. I also told him that my schedule doesn't permit me to respond to every single email I get in a timely fashion. Instead of understanding, FreeTurk started to call me rude and conceited in the village. Not able to tolerate these personal attacks, I blocked him from the village. However, he's since recruited his buddies to join the village and first Redindian posted je's that asked to welcome him back. Earlier today, I found that another one of his friends was posting up JEs that were incredibly antagonistic and threatening in nature. I deleted all of the journal entries. The member's name was Miray, I believe, but she didn't stay in the village long enough for me to block her. Can I file complaints against these guys? He's succeeded in making my experience of Naseeb a negative and, honestly, frightening one. Any advice?

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Thanks, you guys. I hate recommending it 'cause it's not going to be easy and it won't happen immediately, which I'm sure we'd all appreciate. Unfortunately, it's the only advice I have to offer.

damn thats sadd, E-beef...what has the world come to...i feel ur pain sabila..

Thanks so much for your advice T-dog. :)

T-dog... u so smart;)

Wow such politics. This is so silly. It's all online and yet people get to become such bullies. Since I started posting on forums, etc, I've found that there are some people who just can't stop being a bully. I wish I could offer advice, but how could you possibly stop FreeTurk from just opening up a new account and posting again his/her abuse? You can't. You just have to make sure that your friends know you are who you are, and forget about FT. Once it stops bugging you, he'll get bored. Unfortunately that's all the advice I can offer.

THANK YOU GUYS!

Here is some advice. OPEN YOUR OWN VILLAGE. If you want to complain or whatever. If you want to be angry, be angry at ALL of us. DOnt just focus your attention on one person. We all believe that Sabila did us a favor kicking you all off. This village is about finding matches for ourselves or our friends and family. It is not a village to complain about who did what. That is the problem we are having. Dont you understand that? It is your friends who are being selfish. They dont get a response email so they have to disrupt a good village and use a village that is for all people as their own personal complaint forum. If you were really his friend you would sit with him and tell him the truth about himself. YOU GUYS ARE RUINING THIS VILLAGE BECAUSE OF YOUR OWN SELFISHNESS and you dont see that there are others in this village who DONT CARE. You accuse Sabila of being arrogant but you are blinded by your own ignorance and selfishness.

Your friend, Sabila, why is she trying to remove me too? Supposing that she's so tolerant and open-minded, why do I live the fear of being kiccked out all the time? Because she cant endure anti ideas, yeah? My friend's only wish is to be accepted back to village and that she apologizes, thats it. I wonder if she can do that. Otherwise she's way too arrogant!

Ifrit, I know all that he has done, and sorry but I have to defend my friend, I'd do the very same on his shoes. You're taking things only from one single side. He hadnt taken any steps to intrude to privacy anyone just tried to expand how selfish she was behaving!

Melon, you need to take a step back and look at what has happened here. Your friend has posted his complaints in every village and every journal. He even went so far as to create a journal entry attempting to solicit the sympathy of everyone. Honestly it has nothing to do with Sabilas arrogance or conceit. She shouldnt have to justify not responding whether she has a busy schedule or not. And she shouldnt have to endure attacks from you and your friends. No one attacked your friend and she has been more polite and graceful than I would have been. Get on with your lives!

Chocogurl, you dont know him (Can) or Redindian and how nice people they are, namely the most incredible two people I've ever met! And pls dont you talk about him like that. He hasnt done anything wrong, he has just defended his right! All he wanted was to have a "respond" whether negative or positive, but your ARROGANT FRIEND sabila never did that! Please you people be honest to YOURSELF. He has never bothered any of you else!

lemme give you advice Sabila, stop being tooooo arrogant and be gentle with people! And also dont erase people's messages so that they could freely submit their ideas! Be Tolerant ok!!! You talk about people whom you have removed and whom dont have a rgiht a defence themselves! This is unfair by nature! Both of them, especially Redindian was such a fabolous person but your selfish character has prevented you to see this. Why dont you just submit the emails that he'd kindly sent you. I wonder! If you erase this message, I'll write again and again. I'm more stubborn than you, so no worries! And I wonder how you could find that long of a time supposing you're such a BUSY person! ~Best regards, Miray

you know what SabilaK... he sounds crazy and he will just keep sending his freinds here. I would just keep documentation of everything and have him kicked off... I am so sorry you have to go through this and I think most of us see that he has not only made you uncomfortable... but many of us here. Hopefully he will go away now!

I believe that Miray also goes by the name of Melon55.

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