TELL YOU A STORY!!!!---- they was a Princess who was walking through her garden admiring the flowers, when the garden man stopped her and asked her to walk the garden again and pick ONE flower of her choice, she can't go back and pick one after she has passed it,and she must pick one before she gets to the end gate,, so this Princess walked looking, she admired the flowers, but never picked one thinking she will find a better one further down, she carried on thinking till she got to the gate and had not picked anything,,,,,, the garden man looked at her and asked her, ehy he had not choose anything,,,,, she replied, " i was going along thinking i would get better, although i could of picked, but thinking they is always better i came to the end with nothing",,,,,, i think you have understood what i am trying to say,,, no matter what happens, we should try our best in anything/everything as long as we've made the effort, we have nothing to be sad for,,,, but ppl like Zak will be going in life thinking they will get better, but at the end of time, life they usually end up with nothing,,,,,, so i am stronger and my faith in Allah is so that i leave it to him to punish him with nothing but unhappiness,,,ameen....lol!!!

its like human opposes and God disposes,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,we think so much, plan our future, try to fulfil our dreams,,,, but i've found we all are becoming so materialistic in this world, that we'd step on anyones toe to get what we want,,, or try to think we can better in life,,, when we've never appreciated what we already have!!!!

hey laila i feel the same way after my divorce.. things just got better..ALHAMDULILLAH.. and yeah other ppl's problems put your own in perspective

WAT DO YOU LIKE,,, LEBABESE OR INDIAN OR THAI OR CHINESE OR SOUTH AFRICAN OR A MACDONALDS,,,,,, ANYONE ELSE WANNA COME,,,???

thats ok missy! dinner is good.. i love food!

CHOTI THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGE OF HAPPY BIRTHDAY,,,, WISH WE DID MEET,,,,, MIND YOU I THINK WE SHOULD ALL DO DINNER!!!

i can totally understand where you're coming from missy..

RECENTLY I WAS SO SO SO UPSET AND IN TEARS THAT MY ZAK LEFT ME AND BROUGHT A HOUSE BEHIND MY BACK, AFTER 5 YEARS HE LIED AND WAS A BASTARD,,,, BUT THEN WHEN I LOOK AT THE OTHER STORIES, IT MADE ME THINK MY PROBLEMS ARE NOTHING,,, AS I KNOW HE CAN'T SURVIVE WITHOUT ME AND WILL LOSE EVERYTHING INSHALLAH,,, BUT I HAVE MY FAITH IN ALLAH,,, MY HEALTH AND BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS WHO HAVE BEEN AROUND ME ALL THE TIME CHECKING UP ON ME,,, AND ALSO NASEEB PEOPLE WHO HAVE STOOD BY ME LIKE MY PILLAR,,,,,,,, I AM SO THANKFUL TO ALLAH FOR EVERYTHING AND I BELIEVE WHAT EVER HE HAS IN THE FUTURE FOR ME HAS TO BE BETTER THAN WHAT I LOST NOW!!!!!