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if it wasn't because culture pressure will u still want to get married?


if it wasn't for social and culture pressure such as u r getting older, u need to settle down, people look down at a older single person ...etc

if none of these exist will u still have a though of marriage?
 

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Login to find out (March 25, 2006 at 9:40am)
that's better. so u just had to take extra courses here to achieve american satisfaction degree?
i know a friend he owns $200 thousands to education Loan.
 
Login to find out (March 24, 2006 at 9:28pm)
Hzma, was all your medical education taking from education loan?
 
Login to find out (March 24, 2006 at 3:38am)
There is something too in Egypt that I didn't like...which is a single female is not expected to mingle with a female who gets married....it is not encouraged and I always felt very sad by that. What are they thinking, that we're going to be talking day and night about her marriage business and new life as a married woman?!!!!

I know naturally you gravitate towards people who are in similar life stages as you....but why do we have to complicate things and make it bigger than it seems? A friendship is a friendship....married...single,...o r widowed!!!

(a crying face) :)
 
Login to find out (March 24, 2006 at 3:35am)
It's not just you guys, single women too are discriminated against in the marriage world :( Once girlfriends get married, they treat the single girls as if they have the plague . They start turning to married girlfriends and bug the single girlfriends about not being married;.......everything else they had in common is gone with the wind. It is like what Bush said, you are either with us or against us :(

(a crying face)
 
Login to find out (March 23, 2006 at 11:38pm)
shohob ... yah you have 13 years to go (to be 40) : p

hey u know that wazeer el sakafa in egypt, i heard people call him Gay because he is not married. ofcurse this is incorrect, he probably doesn't want to bring trouble to him self :)

about married friends who listen to their wives that actually true except for few. we gotta keep all our friends single man :) morsy are you in? : P
 
Login to find out (March 23, 2006 at 9:29pm)
Shehab, married guys like your friend crack me up.. they think they're in control but poor things are victims of vicious womanhood..

Culture pressure??? Everyone is in need of love. Marriage is proving your love and not necessary complying with culture expectations.
 
Login to find out (March 23, 2006 at 3:17pm)
remind me ya shohob when I was going out with my two best friends who happened to be married...and then they got phone calls from their ladies.. and they told them we are with X and Amr..and both said..taib X is married, Amr bey3mel eih ma3akom hahahah :) ta3asoobbbbbbbb so don't worry, all singles are black-listed by default lol wa3ala al motadarer alegooo2 lel-gawaz hahah :D
 
Login to find out (March 22, 2006 at 4:02pm)
lol from me? why me? I am married!! heh (I know you didnt mean me, but just wanted to make fun). Anyway, yeah I agree to a certain extent, although I am not to sure about the gay part :( .
I am just saying most of us still want to get married without the pressures, the pressures only changes when...
 
Login to find out (March 22, 2006 at 11:37am)
don't u think people look down at a woman who is divorce.
or think wrong of a woman who is getting older and didn't get married yet.

also for men. i know a guy he is 40 years old. everyone think he is gay just because he did not get married yet :)
also for social activities, every wife will try to protect her husband from you.
 
Login to find out (March 20, 2006 at 3:02pm)
Depending on the person, but I think most people will say yes...eventually. Culture doesnt force us to get married, but it just pressures us to get married earlier. Especially for girls. Which is not usually a great thing since you might not be old enough yet to recognize what you really want.

But like I said, most people will get married eventually but probably not as young as most do in our culture.