Haya Haya Haya My GOOODNESS!!

Okay I got to the most IMPORTANT part of your Entry which I quote...
"Love b4 marriage shouldn't happen"

I Skimmed threw the rest....
Haya baby...I lov a Different Penis every day :P !! Just Kidding!
Maybe I am a Shoitan!
Who cares....You only live Once!

We aren't Robots....there is no way you cant love before marriage...Love Happens
Its an Emotion Allah has given us to share, and we connect with sooo many people...in soo many ways!
Everything in Love doesn't have to be Nasty or Sexual!

There are SOO Many ways to Love someone....
(Think Kosher!!!!)

I don't agree with your theory.

You can Love someone soo much and not be able to have them in a marriage...but still just LOVE him/her.

Thats Deep!
Think bout it...get back to me! ;)

want me to post it here, eh Labs? (H)

zztopp, how's YOUR thesis going.. :P

thesis alert !

Well i don't know about u Doc or anyone else that wat they think of love,but 2 me it really means a lot,if i once said"i love u"2 some guy! I'll do this only when i'll feel i really can't live without him. Love b4 marriage shud'nt happen but no matter if it is b4 or after marriage the thing is how much that person means to u!! If u start feeling like u can't live him/her without n when u start loving him even 4 those things that u never ever liked or wanted 2 like,when u feel his/her presence around u even if he/she is miles away from u,when u know he/she is wrong but u still like him/her no matter who he/she is n wat he/she does,when u start forgiving him/her for even those things that u never immagined 2 4give,when u 4get about yr ownself,yr own happiness n alwayz try 2 make yr love happy,when u 4get about yr own self respect n ego(though its wrong) n just do wat yr love makes u to do,u r 4 sure in love!!...it does'nt matter that he/she is yr ideal matte or not,u yrself can bring so many changes to the one u love n vice versa n thats the way it shud be,cuz no1 is perfect,n u can never get all the qualities in a single person,u ever wanted to! The thing is when u start feeling that u r in love u shud better think again n agian n when u realize that u r truely,madly,deeply in love,just make a promise 2 yr own self (b4 promising that person)that u'll never leave this person 4 another person even if that person is better than the 1st! for u yr love shud be the best/perfect n thaswat love actually is!! Also when being apart brings tears in yr eyes even when u feel that u've forgotten him/her n when u try 2 get yr love till yr last breath...when u pray 2 get yr love even when there is no hope....u r in love dear n that is the person made 4 u...cuz u can never 4get him/her! But wateve i said might be true 4 girls but only a few guyz feel like that 4 guyz r not sensative like gals!...BUT only Allah knows wat is right 4 us,so we shud'nt think on such things..all we can do is 2 pray 2 Allah 2 bless us with the perfect partner n 2 give us much strength to not to keep on loving ppl. cuz it never ends,if we can love twice,we can do it even thrice n so on, n thatswhy Allah said to do purdah!...khair i'm sure all my taqreer will not clear u the meaning of love...u will only get 2 know it when u'll taste the true love...may be after marriage,with ur wife,i wish n hope so!
*loving sum1 just 2 taste love is not right,love happens,one shoud'nt do it intentionally...but ofcourse its gud 2 love yr wife/husband even if u don't!(kuch samjhey!!)

no u shudnt that really was a summary

aw fon.. cool.. that is sweeeet, but that's just the PG version, innit

where's the real gossip.. (ok ok i will shut up now)

oh yeah perception i rem my driving instructor was always talking about perception. one shudnt drink and drive. and as far as bar is concerned
allma iqbal said about bars
umeed-e-nau ko dekh aur subh-e-bahar dekh
hay dekhnay ki zheeze issay bar bar dekh

DOC lol...not prescription....u silly moo lol...perception!

u used the word 'we' so he wasnt pissed hmmm then thats fine. wat abt the prescription ? wat has prescription got to do with bars ?

DOC no we were not pissed LOL...coz my hubbie doesn't drink alcohol.

CHOTS ur absolutely right...its all about the presception thing.

doc are u trying to be funny? its not about what u drink at the bar. this is about our elders perception of bars! of course we know u can drink orange juice in a bar...

well yeah but u can always drink orange juice in a bar ? or if u r lawyers then bar is fine as well. my cell fone gets drunk at times when i try to call somwhere and it says call bared. does it matter if u were in a bar ? prob is were u pissed as well ?

Sheesh DOC that wedding of ur mates....yaar that must have been awful...having some guy preaching hate about you're faith on YOUR wedding day....that just aint right.

CHOTS tell me about it :P Thankfully (touch wood) the whole issue of 'where we met' was never really discussed.

tauba tauba FON - imagine after all that if your parents knew you guys met in a bar! lol...

guess wat FON this friend of mine in peterborough got nikahfied to his girl friend who was a sunni and her parents were dead against the wedding. but anyways nikah was arranged and her father to get even brought the anti shia sunni molvi who gave a big lecture at time of nikah against shia to embarassment of my friend's whole family. i think the easier solution is that all shias shud come with me to hell and let sunnis enjoy their heavens in it ?

our shia molvi.

who read the nika sunni molive or shia molvi ?

CHOTS believe it or not we actually met in a bar! lol Although our respective families don't know that :P As far as they are concerned we just met through some mutual friends :P

aww thanks for sharing FON.. shows you peserverance does work. My friend and her husband also had to keep convincing their families too. Her hubbie's family was dead against her because she was a divorcee. Now they have a baby boy and both families accept them.

How and where did you and G meet?