I THINK THE SADDEST THING IS WHEN A COUPLE IS TRYING FOR CHILDREN AND IT DOESN'T HAPPEN,,,,,,,,,, SOME WOMEN I KNOW, CRY TELLING ME HOW HARD THEY HAVE BEEN TRYING AND NO RESULT AND THEY HAVE BEEN TO IVF AND ALL SORT OF TESTS ARE CARRIED OUT!!!!

THE WORSE IS WHEN A WOMEN IN HER YOUNG DAYS HAD AN ABORTION THEN FOUND LOVE AND COULDN'T CONCEIVE,,,,,,

OR A WOMAN WHO SLEPT WITH THE WRONG MAN AND CAUGHT STD THEN WAS UNABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN FOR HER WHOLE LIFE, ALTHOUGH SHE FOUND THE RIGHT MAN!!!!!!

LIKE I HAVE SAID,,,,,KIDS ARE A BLESSING AND WHEN I HEAR STORIES OF MOTHERS ABANDONING CHILDREN MAKES ME WONDER,,,,,,,,LEAVE THE BABY OUTSIDE MY HOUSE,,, I'LL LOOK AFTER IT!!!!

WHEN I GET MARRIED,,, I AM GOING TO RAPE MY HUSBAND AND MAKE SURE HE GETS ME PREGNANT EVERY YEAR,,,,,,,,,,,,, IF HE DOESN'T AGREE TO MY NEEDS THEN I'LL HAVE TO HAVE A TEST TUBE BABY AND DESIGN THE BABY,,,,,,,,,,, BUT HE'LL BE HEARING FROM MY SOLICTERS!!!,,,,,,,,

I WANT MY HUSBAND TO BE INTELLIGENT AS I WANT MY KIDS TO HAVE SOME GOOD GENETICS INSIDE THEM!!!!

When I was married we didnt have any children which is just as well cause I decided to divorce him but people did ask questions like "have you had yourselves checked out?" till I put them straight with "If we dont even sleep in the same room how is a pregnancy going to occur???"
It still didnt shut them up they thought they should start advising me on how it would bring us closer as a couple to have a child and then he would never leave me and I would be 'safe'!
Children are important to me and I will have them one day inshallah but at the right time with the right person, personally it would complete me as a person and I would feel that my duty as a woman has been fullfilled by becoming a mother.