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IS IT TIME TO GET MARRIED!!!
WHEN IS IT THE RIGHT TIME TO GET MARRIED??
WHEN CHATTING TO MY MATES THEY ARE ALWAYS TELLING ME THEY ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED NEXT YEAR,,, NEXT YEAR,,, NEXT YEAR,,,,,, BUT THEY NEVER DO!!!!
THEN THE EXCUSE IT,,,,, I NEED TO DO THIS,,,, I NEED TO DO THAT,,,,, THEN I'LL GET MARRIED?!????
BUT THAT NEVER HAPPENS EITHER???
SO WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET MARRIED AND START A FAMILY AS RECENTLY IN THE NEWS IT HAS BEEN ADVISED NOT TO START A FAMILY TOOOOO LATE IN LIFE????
WHEN CHATTING TO MY MATES THEY ARE ALWAYS TELLING ME THEY ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED NEXT YEAR,,, NEXT YEAR,,, NEXT YEAR,,,,,, BUT THEY NEVER DO!!!!
THEN THE EXCUSE IT,,,,, I NEED TO DO THIS,,,, I NEED TO DO THAT,,,,, THEN I'LL GET MARRIED?!????
BUT THAT NEVER HAPPENS EITHER???
SO WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET MARRIED AND START A FAMILY AS RECENTLY IN THE NEWS IT HAS BEEN ADVISED NOT TO START A FAMILY TOOOOO LATE IN LIFE????
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OK,,,MY MOTHER IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN MY DADDY IS(THANK GOD I HAVE HER LOOKS)........ BUT MY DADDY WAS AN INTELLIGENT, SUCCESSFUL BUSINESSMAN WHO FELL IN LOVE BADLY WITH MY MUMMY!!!
NOW MY MUMMY IS TALL, FAIR, BEAUTIFUL LOOKING ALL MY MALE FRIENDS LIKED HER,,, SHE IS KIND, FRIENDLY, HONEST AND SHE HAS THE PULLING POWER ALTHOUGH SHE IS OLD,,,,,,,,,,
MY DAD,, IS SHORT, FAT, GOT A BIG NOSE, HIS NOT VERY GOOD LOOKING AT ALL!!!
NOW SOMETIMES I WONDER HOW ON EARTH MY MUM COULD BE ATTRACTED TO MY DADDY,,
DON'T LAUGH,,,,, BUT MY DAD HAS QUALITIES INSIDE HIM THAT MY MUMMY LOVES,, HIS CARING, SELFISH, GRUMPY, MOODY, TREATS HER WITH LOADS OF RESPECT AND LOVE, GIVES HER EVERYTHING SHE WANTS, ADMIRES HER ALL THE TIME, PRAISES HER TO EVERYONE HE MEETS, GO ON AND ON ABOUT HOW HE LOVES HER, HIS EVEN BROUGHT A GRAVE SO WHEN THEY DIE, THEY CAN BE BURIED TOGETHER........
THIS IS WHAT I SEE WHEN I SEE MY DAD THROUGH MY MUM'S EYES,,,,,,!!!
SO ATTRACTION IS SOMETHING THAT DEVELOPS TOO,,,, UNDERSTANDING IS SOMETHING IMPORTANT AND RESPECT........DEED IS ALSO IMPORTANT,,, I AGREE WITH ALL THIS!!!
BUT IF A MAN LOVES A WOMAN THEN A WOMAN GROWS TO LOVE HIM,,, IF HE TREATS HER WELL AND RESPECTS HER!!!
in my opinion, true love is something which develops over time... if u have all the elements of a happy and successful marriage (attraction, understanding, passion for deen) love will inshallah follow
YEH I AGREE WITH YOU CHANDNI,,,, BUT WHAT GETS ME IS,, AFTER ALL THE EXPERIENCES OF GOING ABOUT IN DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS, WOMEN STILL PICK THE WRONG MAN FOR MARRIAGES!!!
YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, YOU MARRY THEM,,, A FEW YEARS LATER, YOU HAVE FALLEN OUT OF LOVE AND LOVE SOMEONE ELSE,,,,,
IS LOVE TJE BASIS OF MARRIAGE,,,,,, CHANDNI YOU RIGHT TO SAY RELIGION AND DEED ARE IMPORTANT.......... SO WHY ARE MUSLIMS MAKING THE SAME MISTAKES AGAIN AND AGAIN........
Missy - i guess its all down to personal priorities and preferences. Depends what ur looking for - there isnt really a right or wrong answer.
From a religious point of view, the most important criteria would be that the guy is a good, practicing muslim (and you will encourage one another to improve in your deen) and he should be able to support his wife and family (that doesn't mean he must be rich, just able to feed and clothe and keep a roof over your head). But ultimately, everyone has additional prerequisites which have probably developed over time. Without a doubt, we have become pickier vs old school generations where the norm was that the first time u even saw ur spouse was on the wedding day!
yaar minu neend a gay hai
BUT DEFINE THE WORD MR RIGHT,,,,, HOW DO YOU KNOW WHATS RIGHT FOR US??
SOME PEOPLE HAVE FAT/LONG NOSES, SHORT/TALL HEIGHTS, GRUMPY, FAT, SKINNY, FLIRTY, WEALTHY, POOR, EDUCATED, ILLITERATE,,,,,,, CAN ALL MEN AND WOMEN BE MR AND MISS RIGHT????
SO IF EVERYONE DID WAIT FOR MR AND MISS RIGHT THEN WHY ARE THE DIVORCE RATES SO HIGH???
COULD IT BE,,,, WE SHOULD MARRY SOMEONE WHO WE KNOW CAN MAKE US A GOOD LIFE PARTNER REGARDLESS OF HIS/HER LOOKS OR WEALTH???
SOMEONE WHOSE AWARE OF HIS RELIGION AND IS FROM A RESPECTABLE BACKGROUND, SOMEONE WHOSE AWARE OF HIS/HER CULTURE??
THATS MR RIGHT, AND THATS THE MAN WHO YOU CAN GROW IN LOVE WITH,,,,,,,,, SOMEONE WHOSE BEAUTIFUL FROM WITHIN!!!!
Its all down to u. Only u will know when the time is right and when it is then it will be a matter of find the RIGHT PERSON.
i've learnt life isn't a fairy tale but you can work towards one...
WE BELIEVE IN GIVING TIME TO DO CERTAIN THINGS,, BUT DON'T YOU FIND THE OLDER YOU GET THE MORE SET IN YOUR OWN WAYS YOU ARE!!!
DO YOU THINK WOMEN WANT TO GET MARRIED AND BE WITH JUST ONE PERSON AND START A FAMILY,.,,, WHEN YOUR SINGLE,,, LIFE IS GREAT,,, NO STRESS NO HASSLE!!!!!,,,,,,,,
WHAT ABOUT MEN,,,, WHY ARE THEY LEAVING IT SOOO LATE,,,,,IS IT THE SAME REASON AS THE WOMANS....
SO WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME,,,,, OR ARE WE SCARED OF COMMITTMENT,,,,,
MANY PEOPLE I KNOW USE AN EXCUSE,,, I NEED TO BUY A HOUSE FIRST,,, OR I NEED TO BE PROMOTED FIRST,,,, OR I NEED TO FINE THE RIGHT ONE~!!!!!
ABOVE NEVER HAPPENS THN THEY HAVE TO GO BACK HOME AND MARRY AND GET A DEPENDENT WIFE WHO IS NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING EXCEPT COOKING AND SMILING AND SENDING MONEY BACK HOME TO HER PARENTS!!!