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Judging people


i was just curious to hear some your feedback on instances where you've pre-maturely judged someone and later on found out that you were TOTALLY wrong and felt really bad for judging that particular person. What initialy was it that caused you to judge that person(physically, mentally..)? and how has it changed, or not changed, how you interact with people in general? Please feel free to share your stories! don't worry, we won't judge (H)
 

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Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 6:30am)
you two sound like me at work.....!

don't worry fon, those morons wouldn't be able to appreciate a talented accountant if one bit them... :P
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 5:21am)
likewise BEGS....likewise lol
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 5:19am)
My workplace is doing my head in as well..I can't even be bothered to turn up these days!..stroll in casually at 9.30am, open up naseeb and thats the extent of my working life..so non-challenging..
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 5:11am)
PARA i hate to break it to ya....but Cruise bats of the other team :P
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 5:10am)
hey BEGS...i wasnt too sure about it initally...but having had the 2nd interview yesterday.....i actually came away thinking that i'd luv the opportunity....but i guess its probably not in my naseeb :P

But ur right BEGS Inshallaah something better will come along :) hopefully sooner, rather than later lol...this place is doing my nut in lol.
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 4:29am)
Zztopp, Tom Cruise is NOT gay.
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 4:27am)
Hmmm...judging a Muslim girl who is dressed in very sexy or revealing clothing, and then finding out that she is actually a "good girl" and that looks are deceiving.
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 4:16am)
Oh never mind FON..something better will come up..you weren't sure about it anyway were you?
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 4:14am)
hey LABSSSSSSSSSSS me is okish...kinda feeling a little 'blue' :( to be honest.

seems like i probably won't get that job....i haven't heard for certain yet...but nick (my recruitment guy) spoke to the client yesterday and nick reckons from the vibes he got off the client that the other guy will probably be offered the position...because he's fully qualified and i'm not :(

Oh well its their loss and someone's gain :P hehehe
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 3:56am)
fon matey, how're you today.. and where were you yesterday.. in workoholicsville? that's where i'm heading in a few minutes..

agree 100% with what you don't see is what you get, people put on all sorts of masks and assume you'll be too dense to see through them

are we the only 2 here that are jaded?
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 3:52am)
my judgements are usually wrong LOL or rather i think everyone that i initially meet are decent people or atleast appear to be.

I take people for face value....to me.....what you see is what you get....7 out of 10 its usually....what you don't see is what you get.
 
Login to find out (July 6, 2005 at 3:48am)
ZZ lol i take offence to you using the descriptive analysis of the word freak in ur last comment.......do not take my id in vain :P
 
Login to find out (July 5, 2005 at 10:55pm)
I always assume innocent until proven guilty. Once in a while I have a strong positive or positive vibe about people which I have found were correct later. But those judement/vibes are an exception.
 
Login to find out (July 5, 2005 at 12:31pm)
i used to think that Tom Cruise was one of the few level headed hollywood personalities who budding actors could look upto, and that his failed marriages were the cause of hooking up with wrong scheming women..

..but it turned out that he was infact a money-obsessed scientology-space alien loving freak who likes to dominate women and reject upfront payments for his work in movies so that he can sbare a ripe cut of the movies earnings (adding to his alredy sizeable assets) which further his intentions to stamp his authority in the movie business ...

the days not far when we all be worshipping aliens and dissing off ppl on anti-depressants..

{yes, seriously, thats an honest post !! }




oh...and hes gay.
 
Login to find out (July 5, 2005 at 11:27am)
i have, unfortuantely, done this many times. however, i know that any quick, rash judgement should be taken with a large grain of salt, so it rarely sticks or alters my behavior towards the person. i have quite a few close friends now who i first thought were boring, sluts, mean, snobby, etc... and none of it proved to be true. just shows u have to always give ppl the benifit of the doubt and prove who they really are.
 
Login to find out (July 5, 2005 at 5:28am)
I usually go the other way to what I assume you're asking .. give ppl the benefit of the doubt and later find out they're nasty and must be avoided.. i'm not talking about judging someone's looks, but their character (or maybe their character based on first appearances)

Has taught me to be a little less trusting/ less naive and slightly more cautious next time round
 
Login to find out (July 5, 2005 at 1:32am)
I have been judged ohh soo many times and its all writtin on my little MASOOM HEART (A) ... but can't remember judging anyone.
MY point is we all forget when we judge others but get pissed off by missjudgment of others.