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Lady's Choice


This is a question purely for women to answer. Lets assume that you are currently single / not associated with a man.

You get a proposal from a man who is already married, has one, two or may be three wives and doesnt intend to divorce any of his wives.

Would you say yes or no to that proposal and why? (given the edge that there are 4 wives allowed in islam).

What would be the conditions for a man to marry a 2nd, 3rd, or 4th concecutive time.
 

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Login to find out (June 19, 2005 at 1:38pm)
hmm hmm hmm, interesting
 
Login to find out (June 18, 2005 at 3:42pm)
OHH HELL NO!!
I am not for this thing of marrying more then 1 wife...
I want to be the ONE and ONLY wife!!!
Thats it...no expalination needed.
I want a Husband who will have love for me only, and our children, and I will Take care and Serve him and our family.
Thats it!!
 
Login to find out (June 18, 2005 at 2:54pm)
IRFANI...*freak gets her chumpal and whoops irfani's butt* :op
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 2:58pm)
Yo Yo Yo. Lillyy you be putting bad words in my mouth. I did not give the blessings to have concurrent sex. lol. Just said it can be more efficient. :>)

End of the day, whatever is in agreement between all parties involved in the love fest.
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 2:43pm)
i dont know the quotation from the scriptures, but i am pretty sure, you cant even actually see your spouse completly naked, leave alone 3somes. but if you dont care for that, then it wouldnt matter, humanly i see nothing wrong with it, if 3 adults concent in doing something then i guess let em do it.
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 2:30pm)
Holy crap! ok have we move into 2 wifes orgy together. wow. Well then what can the poor man do but go and get himsself an 3rd one. lol. Hey but if they wanna be one small happy family instead of one big happy family, and all parties say go, then why not go?
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 12:17pm)
Being an analyst, efficiency is one of my areas. Concurrent sex will save time. Time for what? For the wives to get back to work (cooking, cleaning, babysitting, etc). Freak, don't slap me! As Lilyy said, Just do it! Go Nike! :>)
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 11:05am)
Well don't do it, Lil! ;)
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 11:01am)
Hmm.. Guess as usual it's down in individual interpretation. At the end of the day, they will sort something out they're all happy with and if they're all happy with orgies, good luck to 'em I say!
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 10:48am)
LILLY you go gal :o)
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 10:33am)
IF the case is as SAHADAT thinks it is...do you honestly think two hetrosexual muslim wives would get it on together???
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 10:32am)
SAHADAT....respectable and woman...hmmm...not familiar with those words :op
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 10:24am)
This Quranic extract seems to say that men can enjoy their wives however they wish - which I imagine includes having them all at the same time? "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or HOW YE WILL; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. (The Noble Quran, 2:223)" Comments?
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 10:08am)
But where does it say that, Lilly?
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:43am)
Wouldn't a wife orgy be classified as a lesbian experience as well if two woman are involved?
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:42am)
Yup, and that block was in the worst neighbourhood too... But I am scandalised at the thoughts residing in your mind - a respectable married woman too... :p
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:37am)
SAHADAT me thinks you been around the block and then some more :op
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:35am)
Where does it say that, though? What if the wives mess around between themselves? They're kinda married after all...
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:34am)
guys...take note of what LILLY's said :o) its a strictly ONE on ONE showcase.
 
Login to find out (June 17, 2005 at 9:27am)
interesting question FON.. i'd like to know that too