"Long Distance"

Login to find out (June 8, 2005 at 8:53am)

well, personally i don't believe in keeping a relationship longer than one year before you get married!
I think one year is enough to know the person and make decisions. Plus who has time to waste?

Login to find out (June 8, 2005 at 12:19am)

It can as long as you can endure the frustration. But the glue to it is making frequent visits. But when one meets, it is like a honeymoon period where both want to be nice since it may only be a weekend trip. So you may not see the dark side, bad habits, toilet seat up, walking around with your belt unbuckled.

Login to find out (May 31, 2005 at 4:42am)

yes and No,
Yes, it depends on the couple, if they really want it to last they will, by trusting each otherand
No, if they don't the trust won't be there.

Login to find out (May 30, 2005 at 9:55am)

NO

Login to find out (May 27, 2005 at 7:21pm)

women are too moody and with a long distance RL good luck :)

Login to find out (May 20, 2005 at 7:31am)

3 years....the minimum time for residency in the US.

Login to find out (May 19, 2005 at 8:10pm)

they can... but not forever. and there's always a chance that the other person is deceptive or non-committal.

Login to find out (May 19, 2005 at 7:05am)

See thats what I mean Keeper...........If you think that person will fake it then there was no trust in the first place. It looks to like in that example the relationship was one sided. But if both people want it to work ,it will. Just think of it as it was not ment to be. I am in the medical feild and I know many partners who are both docs, and at the start of their jobs they have to live apart. They manage it.

Login to find out (May 18, 2005 at 2:00pm)

i gota one liner for this one ... if you can believe it than you can achieve it .. haha :P

Login to find out (May 18, 2005 at 10:46am)

DesiInCali, so true! the longer the duration the harder it gets...Hrao, that's exactly how i feel,it's a matter of trust...if thats good than there is basicly nothing to worry abt, long distance or not. Although, I always wonder how can(or cannot) we trust...and the answer to this question was 'u either do or u dont'...very simple... but the more I think of it the more sense it makes...

Login to find out (May 18, 2005 at 10:27am)

well, keeper i feel ya bro. But don't let th e past hold you back to your way in future. I understand how it can be being in a long distance relationships, i've seen it. But yah trust is important, and i have to agree with you the time factor is a kicker, most people don't realize it. The longer the duration gets the harder it gets and more you stray away from eachother because phones and internet gets boring after a while.

Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 5:58pm)

Desi is spot on! Comunication is imoprtant but equaly is 'TRUST' with both there Respect forms. Long distance or not thats what makes a relationship work.

Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 12:24pm)

ok keeper. I mean everyone has their own experiences and prefrences. But there could be no communication even if you are living in one house. So it just all depends how well you are connecting with the person. Mental connection, physical affection and communication are the keys in my opinion.

Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 11:02am)

lol so u should have asked how many are in a long distance relationship and if its working :)
I think relationships are all about communications, if communication is good any relationship would work,long distance or local.

Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 9:46am)

OK Keeper, I do believe in some cases they do. With the right communication. If the communication fails then the relationship fails. But I was curious to know how many people were in a long distance relationship that was successful?

Login to find out (May 17, 2005 at 6:59am)

ok maybe it's cause it's 8 am and I only slept 4 hours, but I don't understand what u wrote ya Said... :S

Login to find out (May 16, 2005 at 11:10pm)

lol serene u got me on this one..it can be extremly hard at times...there is goods and bads abt it,...but if ppl feel like it its def worth trying...mashallah danz, that's awesome!

Login to find out (May 16, 2005 at 10:12pm)

well my bro and his fianc?e live 5-7 hours apart, and they're 2 happy little lovebirds :)

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