SAADIA,,, PLS CALL ME MISSY,,,, NO LIALA???

YOU NOT SUPPOSE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I WRITE,,,,, I ONLY LIKE TAPPING ON THE KEYBOARD AS MY BOSS THINKS I WORK HARD,,,,,,,,,,!!!!

SAADIA,,,,,, HOW YOU DOING MY DARLING!!!!

lol @ Aftab and Saadieeya

Liala Babes,

Talk straight! I didn't understand what you r trying to say here???

WELL SAAD LOOKS LIKE MISSY AND SAADIA ARE OUT OF YOUR PICTURE NOW,,,, AS WE CAN'T SMELL... I MEAN SPELL!!!!!

SAADIA ARE YOU NOW USING SPELL CHECK AS EVERYTIME I USE IT,, IT HIGH LIGHTS ALL THE WORDS I WRITE,,,, I SHOULD GET A PERSONAL SEXRETARY,,,,,, NUSSIE YOU WANT A JOB????

Saad,

Sadly arrogance, materialism, show-off and dual standards are salient characteristics of south Asian society, where human respect is measured in terms of money and status. Consequently our people carry this kind of attitude with them no matter where they go and inject the same mentality in their children?s mind and that is the reason our people are stuck-up.

I have this idea for you if you really want a sincere and humble woman in your life.
For you the best thing would be NOT to show-off your status. like you have mentioned,

?You have expensive cars
?You have upper class family background
?You live in posh area ete etc

Just present yourself as an educated and humble Muslim and see who is genuinely self-effacing, down to earth, intelligent and deserves to be your soul mate.

Yes life is short indeed and people (not just girls) tend to forget in this very competitive world that having the latest mobile phone/shoes/handbag/car/haircut etc etc does not make them any better than anyone else as Allah sees us all as equal and it is only those with the 'best' imaan that will benefit...

Many people are quick to judge others or look down...

For example one of my neighbours has just purchased her fifth house and people will criticise where she does her food shopping like it is their concern - maybe its jealousy...

Ok guys, Im back from paris, feeling really tired but was a very successful business meeting. Have been surprised by the number of replies I have received, so thank to you all.

I did think about my would be partner and what characteristics she should possess, so here I go.

Firstly, I think she should be a very kind and sincere person who hates liars.

Secondly, she should have a generous heart and who cares about other people.

Thridly, she should be a realist and not a sleeping beauty.

Fourthly, she should know how to speak, write and read English.

Fifthly, she should be a person who would respect me, my family and should be happy in fitting into her new home.

And also, she should be an intelligent woman so that she shouldnt feel ever that I am superior to her in any way as my version of marriage is two people who compatible equally with each other in a lot of ways.

I find that a lot of asian girls in this country are stuck up because they develop this zone within themselves in their minds that no one looks as pretty as them and no one is better than them which is completely the wrong way to think. What separates the good girls from the stuck up girls is that they are content in how they are and they dont waste money left right and centre even if they are born millionaires. At the end of the day why show off when the person who brought you into this world hates it so much that it has been mentioned repeatedly in the Quran.

With regards to what Saadieya has mentioned that british girls are materialistic, I cannot disagree with her more. Being materialistic and being stuck up are two different things. Materialistic is a characteristic that comes from the company of friends you carry, and this habit tends to disappear after a while. But being stuck up is something that develops and if it keeps growing it can lead to a very disturbing and miserable way of living a life that is so short.

Saad

Saad NGE has said it all:)

hey Laila n Choti... I am doin great... just too bzi as usual with what I do...

Laila! hope u also doin good... inshAllah very soon we'll link up again darling... I'll be in london with friends this weekend... will give ya a call if time permitts.

Choti yar since u have found Sahadat u have completely ditched me... hope u doin well... muwaah...

Its all good Saadieeya! and very true... duniya is very kharaab (said in my best Chaachi accent lol)

Thnx Begsy! n walikum-slam Chandni.

Liala n Chandni,i was only joking. materialism exists everywhere now-a-days. No matter its london or Islamabad.

Thank God!.....we didn't loose our client.
Saad...there must be more to what you like in a girl. I mean some who is social , or some one who is likes things that perhaps you like. I know you don't want to fussy...but you have give us something to work with ;) .
Well give it thought on your way back.

Hey Saad - welcome back!!

Sounds like a very modest requirement list so far - we will wait for you to add anythin extra u think of on the way back home, n then set the wheels in motion in finding ur match!!! (I love this Chachi malarkey lol)

Have a safe journey back!

Missy, i am in Paris for work at the moment, i have not gone missing!

I have noted your questions for my partner requirement, i will think about this in detail on the way home.

But i can tell you basically, I want someone whose Simple, Kind, Caring, someone who can look after me and our home.

If she wants to live with my parents then we'll do that, if not then i do own my own place too, if she wants to move to a different area, i don't have a problem with any of her requirement, as long as she can love and respect me,

My partner must be aware of our deen or be willing to learn, i have some information also on my profile.

I must dash as i have to speak to my staff now.

WELL SAAAD32 HAS GONE MISSING AND SAADIA TURNS UP,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,!!!

SAADIA I LOVE MY MATERIALISTIC SIDE,,,,,,, BUT GALS FROM PAKISTAN I THOUGHT WERE MORE MATERIALISTIC AS THE CLASS SYSTEM IS MORE EFFECTIVE THERE!!!!

Lol @ Saadieeya..welcome back..

Salams Saadieeya - hey, we aint all materialistic y'knw hun!! who gave u that idea?

Missy - will leave ur query for ur consultant (Taaya) to answer...

LONDON HAS LOADS OF MEN WHO ARE PROFESSIONALS AND CLASSY AND STILL LOOOKING!!!!

SO CHA MATRIMONIALS,,,,,,,, WHAT KIND OF MAN ARE YOU SEARCHING FOR ME!!!!!
AFTAB,,,,, WHAT IS PAKISTAN OFFERING FOR YOUR SPECIAL CLIENT,,,,,ME!!!

lol... Liala Darling im good n hope u r good as well. Saad's journal seemed really intresting considering the fact that how materilaistic you london gals are.... ;) n saad is still lookind despiting being so classy n sucessfull....lol