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MARRYING A NON MUSLIM!!!!


I CAME ACROSS A FEW MUSLIM GIRLS WHO HAD CHILDREN FROM NON MUSLIMS THEN WHEN THESE MEN LEFT TO FIND OTHER WOMEN TO MESS ABOUT WITH... THESE MUSLIMS GIRLS ARE CRYING AND TRYING TO COMMITT SUICIDE TALKING ABOUT FAMILY RESPECT!!!!

I WAS DISAPPOINTED IN THESE MUSLIM GIRLS AS I BELEIVE THE QURAN TEACHES US A WAY OF LIFE,,,,,,

THESE GIRLS WERE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, BUT SINGLE PARENTS AND THE PARTNERS WERE JUST STREET BOYS,,,, MEN WITH NOTHING TO OFFER IN LIFE!!!

WHY DO PEOPLE KEEP FALLING IN THE WRONG WAY OF LIFE,,,, DO WE NOT KNOW THE BASICS OF OUR RELIGION!!!
 

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Login to find out (September 20, 2005 at 8:48am)
PERSONALLY, ME I AM THE ONLY CHILD AND MY PARENTS DON'T MIND WHO I BRING HOME AS LONG AS I AM HAPPY, BUT HE HAS TO BE MUSLIM.

NOW ISLAM NOWADAYS IS DIVIDED IN SECT, YOU HAVE AGAR KHAN, NAKSHABANDI, SHIA, AHMADI, SUNNI AND MANY MANY MORE!!!

BUT MOST OF THESE ARE CLASSIFIED AS NON MUSLIMS AND THEY BELIEFS ARE THAT CERTAIN RELIGIOUS LEADERS ARE HIGHER AND MORE POWERFUL THAN ALLAH, WHICH IS INCORRECT, THIS IS CALLED A SHIRRK.

NOW IF I WAS TO BRING ANY OF THESE BOYS FROM THESE SECT, MY FAMILY WOULD NEVER EXCEPT IT, EXCEPT FOR THE SHIA, AS MY DAD SIDE OF THE FAMILY ARE SHIA,,,, BUT ME PERSONALLY WAS BROUGHT UP AS A SUNNI AND WOULD PREFER A SUNNI MUSLIM!

TECHINICALLY, WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY ANYONE FROM A DIFFERCT SECT BECAUSE THE BELIEFS DIFFER, AND INSTEAD OF YOU MARRYING AND DOING A GOOD DEED, YOU ARE IN FACT DOING A BAD DEED!!!
 
Login to find out (September 20, 2005 at 3:44am)
What u say is true, my uncle has actually finished a book on the subject. What I'm sayin is that a lot of people get a distorted version of religion, and as such, use religion as a tool for judgement.

Religion is, and always will be, a private matter between the worshipper and the worshipped.
 
Login to find out (September 20, 2005 at 3:32am)
ARCHILLES, IN THE ANCIENT TIMES MORE THAN ONE GOD WAS WORSHIPPED, THEN OUR PROPHETS CAME DOWN AND EACH PROPHET WAS GIVEN A GIFT TO DO SOMETHING TO SHOW THE POWER OF ALLAH.

DO YOU KNOW WHAT SURPRISES ME, IS THE FACT HISTORY, PRESENT AND FUTURE ARE ALL IN THE QURAN,
WHEN THE QURAN-E-PAAK WAS WRITTEN IT ALREADY TOLD US WHAT SCIENCE TELLS US TODAY, YOU NAME A TOPIC FROM MARRIAGE, WORLD, SPACE, ANATONY, ANGELS, JINNS IT IS ALL WRITTEN IN THE QURAN AND THE ACCURACY IS SUCH THAT A MAJORITY OF SCIENTISTS HAVE CONVERTED TO ISLAM..

DURING RAMADAM, I READ ONE CHAPTER PER DAY AFTER WORK, IF I DON'T FINISH THE QURAN ONCE OVER AT LEAST THEN I CARRY ON TIL I HAVE,,,,,,
THIS IS WHY DURING RAMADAM, I DON'T SEE ANYONE EXCEPT TO OPEN AFTARI AS I AM USUALLY AT HOME IN MY ROOM, STUDYING!!!

I AM NOT RELIGIOUS, BUT I LOVE KNOWING, UNDERSTANDING AND LEARNING, EHAT I READ AND WHAT OUR FUTURE IS!!!
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 10:34am)
I question the ideals of people sometimes tho. I am a muslim, tho not practising to the greatest extent, tho I try to abide by as many rules as I can.

However, as a historian, I have to take the following into account. During the 18th Dynasty Egypt rule, the first monotheist was recorded...the Pharoah Akhenaten (the father of Tutankhamun, and husband of Nefertiti). He denounced the worship of the multitude of gods, and favoured the worship of the one god, Aten; and this Aten was represented as a disc. It was only a hundred years later that the Exodus of Moses occured in Egypt under the Pharoah Rameses II....and by this time polytheism was back in.

It shows that one religion, or idea may influence others...and what we deem as correct must be looked into, and judged humanitarily.

'To err is human, to forgive is divine!!'

Apologies for the essay, I know this ain't a history lesson!! As the best Japanese Yakuza wud say for commiting a mistake...'Fawgiverness Preaze!'
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 9:31am)
I have a friend who is in love with a non muslim and he is really into Christianity and says that if he converted that would mean he has to believe that Jesus is only a prophet (rather than son of god as they believe)
My friends family are practicing muslims, she herself was brought up as a good muslim but has been with her boyfriend for 3 years... They want to be together and he would like to get married and they both keep their religions.. but how is that going to work when they have children?
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 9:22am)
a person can only seek forgiveness from Allah only once they've realised they've made a mistake. noone else can do this for them.. some people continue to make errors over and over again...

i have let my heart control my mind before and would not say i was stupid. however i have learnt from it and hope never to make the same errors again..
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 8:54am)
SO CP WHY DON'T THEY FIRSTLY HELP THEMSELVES!!!!

IF I WAS IN THIS SITUATION, FIRSTLY I WOULD MAKE SURE MY CHILDREN KNOW ABOUT ISLAM AND STUDY IT,,, THEN I WOULD MAKE MENDS WITH MY FAMILY AND REALLY IMPROVE MYSELF,.,,,,,,MOST OF ALL AND IMPORTANTLY,,,, I WOULD ASK FOR FORGIVENESS!!!!

ALL THE PRIESTS IN THE WORLD CAN PRAY FOR SOMEONE WHOSE DOES BAD AND ASK ALLAH TO FORGIVE THEM,,,, BUT PRAYERS CAN NOT ANSWERED UNLESS THE PERSON HIMSELF DOES NOT ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND TRY THEY BEST NOT TO MAKE THE MISTAKE AGAIN

THESE GIRLS ARE VERY STUPID AND THEY ALWAYS LET THEY HEART CONTROL THEY HEADS,, THIS IS WHY WE HAVE DIVORCES AND MARRIAGES WHICH NOW ADAYS CAN JUST ABOUT SURVIVE ONE WEEK!!!!!!!!
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 8:40am)
i wont call these people stupid... everyone makes mistakes - some more than others.. just human nature. however its not the religion - its the person. a muslim bloke can also desert his offsprings and wife.

yes i agree if the marriage was within the same faith then it may help the situation.

u can only help such unfortunate people and pray that they do not make the same mistakes again..
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 7:59am)
LOLZ,,,UMER I KNOW WHAT YOUR SAYING,,,,,

I SUPPOSE EVERYTIME A MUSLIM DOES SOMETHING STUPID LIKE THIS, THE DEVIL GOES TO ALLAH AND LAUGHS AND ALLAH GETS DISAPPOINTED IN MUSLIMS, NO WONDER MUSLIMS AROUND THE WORLD ARE THE ONES WHO SUFFER,,,,,,

I ASKED THIS THIS GAL WHO HAD KIDS FROM THIS BLACK GUY,,IF HER PARTNER WAS A PLAYER BEFORE SHE EVEN MET HIM, THEN WHY DID SHE GET INVOLVED WITH HIM,,,,,, ARE WOMEN STUPID TO BELIEVE A MAN CAN CHANGE!!!!

DO YOU KNOW, A MUSLIM SHOULD ALWAYS HAVE A VERSE FROM THE QURAN PUT UP ON THE WALL, AND A MUSLIM SHOULD READ THE QURAN OR SOMETHING AT LEAST IN ARABIC SO ANGELS COME AND VISIT,,,,, SOME OF THESE ASAIN MUSLIM WOMEN ARE WORSE THAN THE WHITE GIRLS!!

SAD WHEN I SEE A MUSLIM WOMAN WHOSE PUT HERSELF IN SUCH SHAMEFUL SITUATIONS,,, BUT IF ONLY THEY CHANGED A BIT, LIFE MIGHT LOOK BETTER,,,INSTEAD THEY LIVE IN COUNCIL FLATS ALONE AS SINGLE MUM'S WITH CHILDREN WHO DON'T HAVE A FATHERS NAME AND NO STATUS,,,, WHATS THAT KIDS FUTURE GOING TO BE LIKE,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I HATE TO THINK!!!!!!
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 6:35am)
Missy,

I'm not perfect but at least I have some sense of responsibility towards God, family and my future kids who are not yet even born.

I'm not being harsh. These are stupid people and for a little bit of cock action, they are willing to sacrifice their futures. They have been offered an alternative way of life (something that white people do not) yet they go around and do this.

Why shouldn't I be judgemental? It's because of these stupid people that religions and governments and societies and cultures pass draconian laws that makes life for us normal folk hell. If these idiots were a little bit more responsible, we wouldn't have to pay the price.

Umer M.
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 6:30am)
THEN THE MOTHER WOULD BE PUNISHED,,,,AS THE KIDS SHOULD BE TAUGHT!!!!,,,,,


MY MATE MARRIED A SIKH GUY WHO BECAME MUSLIM FOR HER,, HER FAMILY STILL DISOWNED HER,,,,,,BUT SHE BROUGHT HER 4 SONS AS MUSLIMS ALTHOUGH HER HUSBAND IS SIKH BUT HE DOESN'T FOLLOW ANYTHING!!!!
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 6:26am)
Well, the nippers were raised sikh. Now, to be honest, what are the chances of a muslim bloke takin on a muslim woman, with sikh children? The kids are already approachin 6 and 8 years of age, and they know nothing other than sikhism.
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 6:22am)
STUPID WOMEN,,,,, AT LEAST MAKE HER KIDS MUSLIMS!!!

I THINK SOME WOMEN DO DESERVE PUNISHMENT....BUT THEY STILL DON'T LEARN A LESSON.......

SHAME THESE KIDS ARE THE ONES WHO SUFFER AS THEY PARENTS DID THE SIN!!!!
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 6:14am)
Similar story....

I have a house I'm renting out in Southall. It was to a couple with three kids....the fella a singh, the mai an apne Muslim. Well, the kids were sent to India on the husbands behest, and were raised there. They came back to UK, fresh as a loaf of bread in an Italian bakery. Within a few months of them renting my gaff, the husbands walked, because 'he weren't happy!'

The woman, who is 27, is now alone, as her family has disowned her; she has no job and is claiming benefits, and her kids are sikhified...which is against what she knows.

That be life.
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 6:09am)
UMER,,, YOUR SO HARSH!!!!

AFTER ALL WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE WHAT ONE PERSON DOES,,,,,,, BUT WHAT GETS TO ME IS THE FACT THESE WOMEN KNOW ISLAM BUT HAVE CHILDREN WITH MEN WHO ARE WOMANISERS AND PROUD ONES,,,,,,,

I FEEL FOR THE CHILDREN AND I SPENT MY SPARE TIME HELPING OUT THESE WOMEN,,,, WHO ARE CLOSE TO COMMITING SUICIDE,,,, UMER I HELP THEM TO GET A GOOD LIFE AND TALK TO THEM,, BUT IF THEY STILL ARE STUPID THEN I LET GO AND DON'T BE FRIENDS WITH THEM!!!!
I FEEL FOR THESE WOMEN AND I TALK TO THEM ABOUT SERIOUS ISSUES AND THING THEY TELL ME IS REALLY DISTURBING!!!!!

THIS IS MY WAY OF KEEPING IN TOUCH WITH THE REAL WORLD AND KNOWING AND PREPARING FOR THE BIG JUDGEMENT DAY!!!
 
Login to find out (September 19, 2005 at 5:59am)
Tough shit,

Let them be a lesson for the others. I have no sympathy for them, only for their children.

Umer M