MARRYING A NON MUSLIM!!!!
I CAME ACROSS A FEW MUSLIM GIRLS WHO HAD CHILDREN FROM NON MUSLIMS THEN WHEN THESE MEN LEFT TO FIND OTHER WOMEN TO MESS ABOUT WITH... THESE MUSLIMS GIRLS ARE CRYING AND TRYING TO COMMITT SUICIDE TALKING ABOUT FAMILY RESPECT!!!!
I WAS DISAPPOINTED IN THESE MUSLIM GIRLS AS I BELEIVE THE QURAN TEACHES US A WAY OF LIFE,,,,,,
THESE GIRLS WERE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, BUT SINGLE PARENTS AND THE PARTNERS WERE JUST STREET BOYS,,,, MEN WITH NOTHING TO OFFER IN LIFE!!!
WHY DO PEOPLE KEEP FALLING IN THE WRONG WAY OF LIFE,,,, DO WE NOT KNOW THE BASICS OF OUR RELIGION!!!
I WAS DISAPPOINTED IN THESE MUSLIM GIRLS AS I BELEIVE THE QURAN TEACHES US A WAY OF LIFE,,,,,,
THESE GIRLS WERE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, BUT SINGLE PARENTS AND THE PARTNERS WERE JUST STREET BOYS,,,, MEN WITH NOTHING TO OFFER IN LIFE!!!
WHY DO PEOPLE KEEP FALLING IN THE WRONG WAY OF LIFE,,,, DO WE NOT KNOW THE BASICS OF OUR RELIGION!!!



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NOW ISLAM NOWADAYS IS DIVIDED IN SECT, YOU HAVE AGAR KHAN, NAKSHABANDI, SHIA, AHMADI, SUNNI AND MANY MANY MORE!!!
BUT MOST OF THESE ARE CLASSIFIED AS NON MUSLIMS AND THEY BELIEFS ARE THAT CERTAIN RELIGIOUS LEADERS ARE HIGHER AND MORE POWERFUL THAN ALLAH, WHICH IS INCORRECT, THIS IS CALLED A SHIRRK.
NOW IF I WAS TO BRING ANY OF THESE BOYS FROM THESE SECT, MY FAMILY WOULD NEVER EXCEPT IT, EXCEPT FOR THE SHIA, AS MY DAD SIDE OF THE FAMILY ARE SHIA,,,, BUT ME PERSONALLY WAS BROUGHT UP AS A SUNNI AND WOULD PREFER A SUNNI MUSLIM!
TECHINICALLY, WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY ANYONE FROM A DIFFERCT SECT BECAUSE THE BELIEFS DIFFER, AND INSTEAD OF YOU MARRYING AND DOING A GOOD DEED, YOU ARE IN FACT DOING A BAD DEED!!!
Religion is, and always will be, a private matter between the worshipper and the worshipped.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT SURPRISES ME, IS THE FACT HISTORY, PRESENT AND FUTURE ARE ALL IN THE QURAN,
WHEN THE QURAN-E-PAAK WAS WRITTEN IT ALREADY TOLD US WHAT SCIENCE TELLS US TODAY, YOU NAME A TOPIC FROM MARRIAGE, WORLD, SPACE, ANATONY, ANGELS, JINNS IT IS ALL WRITTEN IN THE QURAN AND THE ACCURACY IS SUCH THAT A MAJORITY OF SCIENTISTS HAVE CONVERTED TO ISLAM..
DURING RAMADAM, I READ ONE CHAPTER PER DAY AFTER WORK, IF I DON'T FINISH THE QURAN ONCE OVER AT LEAST THEN I CARRY ON TIL I HAVE,,,,,,
THIS IS WHY DURING RAMADAM, I DON'T SEE ANYONE EXCEPT TO OPEN AFTARI AS I AM USUALLY AT HOME IN MY ROOM, STUDYING!!!
I AM NOT RELIGIOUS, BUT I LOVE KNOWING, UNDERSTANDING AND LEARNING, EHAT I READ AND WHAT OUR FUTURE IS!!!
However, as a historian, I have to take the following into account. During the 18th Dynasty Egypt rule, the first monotheist was recorded...the Pharoah Akhenaten (the father of Tutankhamun, and husband of Nefertiti). He denounced the worship of the multitude of gods, and favoured the worship of the one god, Aten; and this Aten was represented as a disc. It was only a hundred years later that the Exodus of Moses occured in Egypt under the Pharoah Rameses II....and by this time polytheism was back in.
It shows that one religion, or idea may influence others...and what we deem as correct must be looked into, and judged humanitarily.
'To err is human, to forgive is divine!!'
Apologies for the essay, I know this ain't a history lesson!! As the best Japanese Yakuza wud say for commiting a mistake...'Fawgiverness Preaze!'
My friends family are practicing muslims, she herself was brought up as a good muslim but has been with her boyfriend for 3 years... They want to be together and he would like to get married and they both keep their religions.. but how is that going to work when they have children?
i have let my heart control my mind before and would not say i was stupid. however i have learnt from it and hope never to make the same errors again..
IF I WAS IN THIS SITUATION, FIRSTLY I WOULD MAKE SURE MY CHILDREN KNOW ABOUT ISLAM AND STUDY IT,,, THEN I WOULD MAKE MENDS WITH MY FAMILY AND REALLY IMPROVE MYSELF,.,,,,,,MOST OF ALL AND IMPORTANTLY,,,, I WOULD ASK FOR FORGIVENESS!!!!
ALL THE PRIESTS IN THE WORLD CAN PRAY FOR SOMEONE WHOSE DOES BAD AND ASK ALLAH TO FORGIVE THEM,,,, BUT PRAYERS CAN NOT ANSWERED UNLESS THE PERSON HIMSELF DOES NOT ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND TRY THEY BEST NOT TO MAKE THE MISTAKE AGAIN
THESE GIRLS ARE VERY STUPID AND THEY ALWAYS LET THEY HEART CONTROL THEY HEADS,, THIS IS WHY WE HAVE DIVORCES AND MARRIAGES WHICH NOW ADAYS CAN JUST ABOUT SURVIVE ONE WEEK!!!!!!!!
yes i agree if the marriage was within the same faith then it may help the situation.
u can only help such unfortunate people and pray that they do not make the same mistakes again..
I SUPPOSE EVERYTIME A MUSLIM DOES SOMETHING STUPID LIKE THIS, THE DEVIL GOES TO ALLAH AND LAUGHS AND ALLAH GETS DISAPPOINTED IN MUSLIMS, NO WONDER MUSLIMS AROUND THE WORLD ARE THE ONES WHO SUFFER,,,,,,
I ASKED THIS THIS GAL WHO HAD KIDS FROM THIS BLACK GUY,,IF HER PARTNER WAS A PLAYER BEFORE SHE EVEN MET HIM, THEN WHY DID SHE GET INVOLVED WITH HIM,,,,,, ARE WOMEN STUPID TO BELIEVE A MAN CAN CHANGE!!!!
DO YOU KNOW, A MUSLIM SHOULD ALWAYS HAVE A VERSE FROM THE QURAN PUT UP ON THE WALL, AND A MUSLIM SHOULD READ THE QURAN OR SOMETHING AT LEAST IN ARABIC SO ANGELS COME AND VISIT,,,,, SOME OF THESE ASAIN MUSLIM WOMEN ARE WORSE THAN THE WHITE GIRLS!!
SAD WHEN I SEE A MUSLIM WOMAN WHOSE PUT HERSELF IN SUCH SHAMEFUL SITUATIONS,,, BUT IF ONLY THEY CHANGED A BIT, LIFE MIGHT LOOK BETTER,,,INSTEAD THEY LIVE IN COUNCIL FLATS ALONE AS SINGLE MUM'S WITH CHILDREN WHO DON'T HAVE A FATHERS NAME AND NO STATUS,,,, WHATS THAT KIDS FUTURE GOING TO BE LIKE,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I HATE TO THINK!!!!!!
I'm not perfect but at least I have some sense of responsibility towards God, family and my future kids who are not yet even born.
I'm not being harsh. These are stupid people and for a little bit of cock action, they are willing to sacrifice their futures. They have been offered an alternative way of life (something that white people do not) yet they go around and do this.
Why shouldn't I be judgemental? It's because of these stupid people that religions and governments and societies and cultures pass draconian laws that makes life for us normal folk hell. If these idiots were a little bit more responsible, we wouldn't have to pay the price.
Umer M.
MY MATE MARRIED A SIKH GUY WHO BECAME MUSLIM FOR HER,, HER FAMILY STILL DISOWNED HER,,,,,,BUT SHE BROUGHT HER 4 SONS AS MUSLIMS ALTHOUGH HER HUSBAND IS SIKH BUT HE DOESN'T FOLLOW ANYTHING!!!!
I THINK SOME WOMEN DO DESERVE PUNISHMENT....BUT THEY STILL DON'T LEARN A LESSON.......
SHAME THESE KIDS ARE THE ONES WHO SUFFER AS THEY PARENTS DID THE SIN!!!!
I have a house I'm renting out in Southall. It was to a couple with three kids....the fella a singh, the mai an apne Muslim. Well, the kids were sent to India on the husbands behest, and were raised there. They came back to UK, fresh as a loaf of bread in an Italian bakery. Within a few months of them renting my gaff, the husbands walked, because 'he weren't happy!'
The woman, who is 27, is now alone, as her family has disowned her; she has no job and is claiming benefits, and her kids are sikhified...which is against what she knows.
That be life.
AFTER ALL WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE WHAT ONE PERSON DOES,,,,,,, BUT WHAT GETS TO ME IS THE FACT THESE WOMEN KNOW ISLAM BUT HAVE CHILDREN WITH MEN WHO ARE WOMANISERS AND PROUD ONES,,,,,,,
I FEEL FOR THE CHILDREN AND I SPENT MY SPARE TIME HELPING OUT THESE WOMEN,,,, WHO ARE CLOSE TO COMMITING SUICIDE,,,, UMER I HELP THEM TO GET A GOOD LIFE AND TALK TO THEM,, BUT IF THEY STILL ARE STUPID THEN I LET GO AND DON'T BE FRIENDS WITH THEM!!!!
I FEEL FOR THESE WOMEN AND I TALK TO THEM ABOUT SERIOUS ISSUES AND THING THEY TELL ME IS REALLY DISTURBING!!!!!
THIS IS MY WAY OF KEEPING IN TOUCH WITH THE REAL WORLD AND KNOWING AND PREPARING FOR THE BIG JUDGEMENT DAY!!!
Let them be a lesson for the others. I have no sympathy for them, only for their children.
Umer M