Relationships!! Problems they cause emotional pain, time/effort lost, the Islamic factors, the family politics/strife, the respect issues, the physical harm it can cause and the break-up of families, even innocent children suffering in unwanted pregnancies!!

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Yet with all these common down falls, we still don?t think twice about this ?relationship? thing, before jumping with our eyes wide shut. Well are we mad and lost our rational or are we just unadulterated masochist?s..??

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I was thinking and thought eureka and I wasn?t even in my bath at the time! :P

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Hallelujah, there is a third way, away from the usual two of going out with people thus having a relationship and then paying the price for it or the other of not going out with the individuals thus keeping away from all potential and maybe suitable partners.

When the light finally came on, I said why not be platonic friends with a range of individuals and this leads to a more stable social and personal life. You widen your social circle of friends and also have a simpler more active social/personal life.

Then when you find your prefect partner just get hitched, simple, you even have more then enough guests, then you ever thought possible even for even an Asian wedding!!

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Dam I thought, personal problems all sorted out in one fell-swoop, for those folk who say we are only HUMAN we need to have relationships until we get married.

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I say for heavens sake, if that?s the only reason for having a relationship just get married, but for everyone else, just think about the third way approach!

Simple as it seems, this ideal does really make sense to large number of people, I have spoken to already regarding this topic?although all folk might not agree.

Most of the females seem to agree to the above ideal but some guys are not so agreeable, well it seems so??

Realty check needed as I sound abit like my folks!! );