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Men can cry
We all cry, but there still seems to be a an old belief that men are ashamed to cry.
I personally have no objection to men crying, i have no gender biase of any emotions.
Our beloved prophet, on occasions went home to Khadija, his wife, and sobbed in her arms....
His life at that stage faced many spiritual questions, confusions.
She was a protector of his flame, she wrapped him up in her arms and cared for him, without her support our beloved could not have achieved what he did (all thanks to allah)...
If our beloved, the perfection of perfection, could depend on his wife during a time when male dominated the globe, than why cant we cry?
I think putting our cultural expectations, we should no longer hold true that men cant and shouldnt cry.
New generation of muslim me, or even non-muslims no longer abide by such stereotypes.
God gave us a heart, we feel wamth in it. How can we not cry?
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so whos cried here? and how isnt still 'ashamed' to explain why they cry.
I personally have no objection to men crying, i have no gender biase of any emotions.
Our beloved prophet, on occasions went home to Khadija, his wife, and sobbed in her arms....
His life at that stage faced many spiritual questions, confusions.
She was a protector of his flame, she wrapped him up in her arms and cared for him, without her support our beloved could not have achieved what he did (all thanks to allah)...
If our beloved, the perfection of perfection, could depend on his wife during a time when male dominated the globe, than why cant we cry?
I think putting our cultural expectations, we should no longer hold true that men cant and shouldnt cry.
New generation of muslim me, or even non-muslims no longer abide by such stereotypes.
God gave us a heart, we feel wamth in it. How can we not cry?
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so whos cried here? and how isnt still 'ashamed' to explain why they cry.
Comments on this journal
THATS AN ART, BOYS CRYING BECAUSE OF MUMMY!!!!
DOC, I SHOULD PUT YOU OVER MY LAP AND GIVE YOU A FEW SLAP,,,SEE IF MUM POWER WORKS,,,,,,, WILL YOU CRY FOR ME DOC?????
NUSSIE,,LAST A MAN CRIED FOR ME WAS WHEN I WAS PLANNING TO LEAVE HIM,,,, BUT HE CRIED SO MUCH THAT I KEPT HIM,,, BUT CHANGED MY NUMBER,,,,,,,,, I THINK HIS NOW FOUND ME,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,EIN IT DOC!!!!
I saw crying my dear dad just three time and it was only for death
it doesnt say anything in islam about crying for a decesaesd one. it must be a pakistani thing.
like i said, no one in my family cry like that. if anything ive ever seen women cry loud, shout and make a scene.
WHEN SOMEONE IN OUR FAMILY DIES, OUR UNCLES DON'T CRY ALTHOUGH THEY ARE UPSET,,
BUT WHEN MY NANNY PASSED AWAY, THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME I SAW TEARS IN MY UNCLES EYES.....
BUT NO SCREAMING, SHOUTING.........................
MY FAMILY IS DIFFERENT I SUPPOSE!!!
BUT I NEVER UNDERSTAND, WHEN I LEAVE MY BOYFRIENDS WHY DO THEY START CRYING,,, THEN MAKE ME CRY,,,,, THEN WE NEVER BREAK OFF,,,,,
ANYWAY I DECIDED EVERYTIME I WANT TO LEAVE A BOYFRIEND I'LL JUST CHANGE MY NUMBER, CHANGE MY HOUSE, CHANGE THE COUNTRY,,,,, I'LL MOVE,,,,,,
IRFANI, YOU GOT ANY ROOM IN YOUR HOUSE FOR MISSY!!!
its cool missy, i care not where u got it from :P
ANYWAY I CRY BUT ONLY AFTER I MADE EVERYONE ELSE CRY,,,, BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE HAVING THE BLAME!!!
if he could cry, i can cry.