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Naseeb Skank
for the purposes of this je, skank is - Disgusting or vulgar matter; filth or - One who is digustingly foul or filthy and often considered sexually promiscuous
My friend and I met up earlier, and she told me about a naseeber she met who, after just one meeting, decided she was the type he could 'take liberties' with.
My friend has stressed marriage throughout while talking to the guy
She didn't say anything untoward to encourage the guy's leery attitude
Really it seems the only mistake she made was to talk to the guy and encourage communication.. geared towards serious purposes
How do you discourage such people from being skanky
Is there a way of weeding out the filth from the humans
And how do men expect us to take them seriously when their species is full of such mingers
{pseud-isclaimer: this je is not meant to cause offence to anyone, unless you are the d*** this is about.. in which case.. feel free to be offended ! }
My friend and I met up earlier, and she told me about a naseeber she met who, after just one meeting, decided she was the type he could 'take liberties' with.
My friend has stressed marriage throughout while talking to the guy
She didn't say anything untoward to encourage the guy's leery attitude
Really it seems the only mistake she made was to talk to the guy and encourage communication.. geared towards serious purposes
How do you discourage such people from being skanky
Is there a way of weeding out the filth from the humans
And how do men expect us to take them seriously when their species is full of such mingers
{pseud-isclaimer: this je is not meant to cause offence to anyone, unless you are the d*** this is about.. in which case.. feel free to be offended ! }
Comments on this journal
good advice ppl...
mega your 'Once a Skank is Always a Skank' theories are depressing man
and no my friend is a singleton.. never married
i don't think men in general assume divorcees are up for it.. at least they stop assuming that as soon as you close the chat window and never chat to them again..
i think divorcees are often (i know this is controversial) guilty of projecting a very vulnerable/ almost needy vibe.. which is picked up on by idiots.. i'm sure i've been guilty of it myself in the past, so i'm not labelling anyone else
And don't go by what they write on their profiles or what others have written in their testimonials either. I've found people who sounded like the most wonderful person ever and then when you get to know them you find them to be the exact opposite!?
1) 1 guy claimed to SLEEP with 300 girls...I wanted a friendship and before he told me about his 300 girls I thought he could be a potential. He then became very agressive and started demading more from which I wasn't going to give and especially after the 300 girls story...and that was the end of that.
2) This other guy seemed very decent and claimed to be looking for something serious. Then I found out from a girlfriend who happened to be on his naseeb friend's list that this dude wanted to just sleep with her. When I confronted him he denied it and that was the end of that as well.
So basically, there is alot of garbage out there and you need to really take your time to get to know someone and really find out info abou this person from themselves and others.
Your friend may have "stressed marriage" while talking to the guy she met from naseeb. However, that just doesn't make a difference for some men. What exactly made him decide that she was the type he could 'take liberties' with? Was she divorced, by any chance? Many Muslim men feel less guilty about "taking liberties" with a divorced woman, as opposed to a woman who has never been married and possibly might be a virgin....
A) Once a Skank is Always a Skank, Just Like you Can't purify shiit. Once you know someone is skank, Move on.
Q)Is there a way of weeding out the filth from the humans?
A) NO, You can take a human out of filth and crrap, but you CAN'T take the filth and crrap out of humans. once you know someone is full of filth, MOVE ON.
Q)And how do men expect us to take them seriously when their species is full of such mingers?
A) The process of meeting people shoud be a process of sorting them out, not putting all your cards on the table. Sort out people in 3 catagories, bad apples, green apples and red apples. Bad apples, STAY AWAY, green apples, Keep Your distance but stay in touch caz they can ripe anytime. Red are the best, keep them close. If men's species are full of mingers, find the ones who are NOT. If can't be found, MOVE ON.
our dads and brothers and sons are also men/ potential men.. if most of them can behave, why can't the rest
on the other hand if you mail me...... :P
and no this is not about yb...
f this.. i have found out about another guy, loose on a lot of naseeb villages.. displaying what can only be described as abusive behaviour.. he was outed on naseeb.. and is now making things worse for the girl concerned..
this stuff makes me angry.. too many abusive s***s seek refuge in online interactions/ friendships and assume someone will be idiotic enough to enter into a relatioship with them.. unfortunately he has a smooth naseeb image.. have actually heard ppl talking highly of him :(
i don't think our friends get more nutters.. our friends just pick up the phone sooner than otheres/ or we are more prone to posting gossip than others..