NEEDS ADVISE,,,,HUSBANDS AFFAIR??
Affair: What would you do if your spouse has an affair and you caught him/her red handed or you have physical proof that he/she had committed adultery or is committing adultery. If you're a woman, your husband has no intention of marrying that other women. Would you still continue with the marriage or ask for a divorce? What does Islam say about this?



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NUSSIE,,,DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN HAVE ALL YOUR RIGHTS REWRITTEN ON THE NIKAAH BY A GOOD LAWYER,,,, IN FACT YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TO CHANGE YOUR SURNAME IF YOU DON'T WANT TOOO!!
I'M THINKING ABOUT REMAINING A S.H.E.I.K.H?? );
I CAN'T WRITE MY OWN SURNAME ON THIS POSTING AS NASEEB ADMIN SECURITY WATEVER,,DON'T EXCEPT IT!!!
and maybe there should be another law called the ''after marriage restraint order'' to stop him from suffocating you!
BUT IF YOU WERE TO DO IT THEN I'D GIVE IN TO YOU!!!
I'M TELLING YOU NUSSIE, I HAVE THIS GUTTED FEELING, SAMI IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A CONTROL FREAK, WAIT TILL AFTER I HAVE SIGNED THE NIKAAH PAPERS,,, AT THE MOMENT HIS LISTENING TO ME, WAIT TILL LATER, HIS GONNA HAVE ME HANDCUFFED TO THE BEDROOM, CHAINNED TO THE KITCHEN, ROPED TO THE LOUNGE AND BARRED FROM ALL NIGHTS OUT!!!!
I should know!
He is still crying as we speak!
IF MEN STARTED SENDING ME GIFTS THEN MY MARRIAGE WILL DEFIN BE ON THE ROCKS!!!
I PERSONALLY WOULDN'T CHEAT ON MY HUSBAND, BUT I WOULD DEFIN HAVE HIM THINKING, WOW MY WIFE, SHE IS LOOKING HOT,,,, AND I'LL MAKE SURE OR PAY PEOPLE/MEN TO COMPLIMENT WHEN HIS AROUND ME,,,, JUST TO KEEP HIM ON HIS TOES!!
"TREAT THEM MEAN, KEEP THEM KEEN"
I will bring you mettai on eid but thats as ex[pensive as it gets hun... :P
BUT I WOULD MAKE SURE I UPGRADE MY LINGERIE AND GET FITTER IN THE GYM, I WOULD CHANGE MY HAIRSTYLE AND LOOK STUNNING AND SEXY,,,, AFTER THAT I'D MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T COME OUT WITH ME AND I GO OUT WITH MY MATES AND CHILL AND I WOULD DEFIN MAKE SURE THAT I GET EXPENSIVE GIFTS FROM MY GIRLFREINDS(HE CAN THINK ITS BOYS) AND I WOULD GIVE HIM SOMETHING TO RUN/THINK ABOUT....,,,,,,
WOMEN SHOULD BE CLEVER, MOST MEN IN THE WORLD HAVE AFFAIRS, BUT IF WOMEN ARE A LITTLE MORE TACKED AND AHEAD IN THE GAME THEN THAT MAN STANDS NO CHANCE!!!
BUT I WOULD NEVER DIVORCE MY HUSBAND,,,,,
If we can resolve the situation then i would work towards making my relationship better, i would spend a lot of time with her and learn to know, understand her and her needs.
If i fail then as a last resort i would go for the divorce, but this i would do as a last option.
I'd tell him/her to leave and 'Mind the Gap' as they leave