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NEEDS ADVISE,,,,HUSBANDS AFFAIR??


Affair: What would you do if your spouse has an affair and you caught him/her red handed or you have physical proof that he/she had committed adultery or is committing adultery. If you're a woman, your husband has no intention of marrying that other women. Would you still continue with the marriage or ask for a divorce? What does Islam say about this?
 

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Login to find out (January 12, 2006 at 4:57am)
IRFANI STOP GETTING EXCITED TALKING ABOUT SEX,,,,,,, ACTUALLY STOP GETTING ME EXCITED PLS!!!

NUSSIE,,,DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN HAVE ALL YOUR RIGHTS REWRITTEN ON THE NIKAAH BY A GOOD LAWYER,,,, IN FACT YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TO CHANGE YOUR SURNAME IF YOU DON'T WANT TOOO!!

I'M THINKING ABOUT REMAINING A S.H.E.I.K.H?? );

I CAN'T WRITE MY OWN SURNAME ON THIS POSTING AS NASEEB ADMIN SECURITY WATEVER,,DON'T EXCEPT IT!!!
 
Login to find out (January 11, 2006 at 5:55pm)
Missy, u talking bout apsyiation sex?
 
Login to find out (January 11, 2006 at 1:07pm)
Hey... theres a law against forced marriages... no one can force you whther its ur mum or ur man!!

and maybe there should be another law called the ''after marriage restraint order'' to stop him from suffocating you!
 
Login to find out (January 11, 2006 at 3:35am)
IRFANI,,,, I WISH IT WAS SILK SCARFS BUT I THINK THAT IS GONNA BE TIED TO MY NECK,,, IF I DON'T EXCEPT THIS MARRIAGE,,,,,,,,, AND IT WILL BE MY MUMMY KNOTTING IT AROUND,,,,,,
 
Login to find out (January 10, 2006 at 4:15pm)
As long as you get tied with silk scarves, it's all lust 'n love
 
Login to find out (January 10, 2006 at 11:25am)
LOL LOL HA HA DOC,,,,, BUT I AM NOT THE ONE WHO WILL BE TIED DOWN EASILY,,,,,,,,,

BUT IF YOU WERE TO DO IT THEN I'D GIVE IN TO YOU!!!
 
Login to find out (January 10, 2006 at 7:11am)
sounds like u gonna have a good time wid all them restraints the bro will be using.
 
Login to find out (January 10, 2006 at 6:26am)
TRUST ME IF SAMI CAME ONTO NASEEB, HE'D BAR ME FOR THE THINGS I WRITE,,, BUT LUCKILY HIS IN DUBAI ON BUSINESS AND YOU CAN NOT ACCESS NASEEB FROM THERE.....

I'M TELLING YOU NUSSIE, I HAVE THIS GUTTED FEELING, SAMI IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A CONTROL FREAK, WAIT TILL AFTER I HAVE SIGNED THE NIKAAH PAPERS,,, AT THE MOMENT HIS LISTENING TO ME, WAIT TILL LATER, HIS GONNA HAVE ME HANDCUFFED TO THE BEDROOM, CHAINNED TO THE KITCHEN, ROPED TO THE LOUNGE AND BARRED FROM ALL NIGHTS OUT!!!!
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:16am)
Give me the cash and I can send you the gifts... what if he is reading this right now.... he wont fall for it... you will have to think of another plan and not print it for all to read!!
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:13am)
Divorcing him is mean!! Just do that then!

I should know!

He is still crying as we speak!
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:13am)
WELL MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE TO BUY ME EXPENSIVE GIFTS AND SEND THEM TO MY HOUSE WITH NO NAME, THIS WAY MY HUSBAND WILL BE BLOWING FITS ON WHOSE SEND THE GIFT,,, AND HE'LL THINK, I'VE GOT A NEW MAN!!!!!

IF MEN STARTED SENDING ME GIFTS THEN MY MARRIAGE WILL DEFIN BE ON THE ROCKS!!!
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:10am)
I WOULDN'T EVEN BOTHER SHEDDING TEARS ON MY HUSBAND,,, AFTER ALL, HE HAD THE FUN SO WHY SHOULD I CRY, WHEN I KNOW I CAN GET IT TOO!!!

I PERSONALLY WOULDN'T CHEAT ON MY HUSBAND, BUT I WOULD DEFIN HAVE HIM THINKING, WOW MY WIFE, SHE IS LOOKING HOT,,,, AND I'LL MAKE SURE OR PAY PEOPLE/MEN TO COMPLIMENT WHEN HIS AROUND ME,,,, JUST TO KEEP HIM ON HIS TOES!!

"TREAT THEM MEAN, KEEP THEM KEEN"
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:10am)
Missy why would your girlfriends buy you expensive gifts? lol!

I will bring you mettai on eid but thats as ex[pensive as it gets hun... :P
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:07am)
WELL PERSONALLY IF MY HUSBAND HAD THE GUTS TO HAVE AN AFFAIR, I'D LAUGH AND LAUGH!!!

BUT I WOULD MAKE SURE I UPGRADE MY LINGERIE AND GET FITTER IN THE GYM, I WOULD CHANGE MY HAIRSTYLE AND LOOK STUNNING AND SEXY,,,, AFTER THAT I'D MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T COME OUT WITH ME AND I GO OUT WITH MY MATES AND CHILL AND I WOULD DEFIN MAKE SURE THAT I GET EXPENSIVE GIFTS FROM MY GIRLFREINDS(HE CAN THINK ITS BOYS) AND I WOULD GIVE HIM SOMETHING TO RUN/THINK ABOUT....,,,,,,


WOMEN SHOULD BE CLEVER, MOST MEN IN THE WORLD HAVE AFFAIRS, BUT IF WOMEN ARE A LITTLE MORE TACKED AND AHEAD IN THE GAME THEN THAT MAN STANDS NO CHANCE!!!

BUT I WOULD NEVER DIVORCE MY HUSBAND,,,,,
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 11:04am)
Its a tough one - I think it depends on the kind of relationship you both share as husband and wife or not share as the case may be and thats why he went elsewhere - The sensible thing would be to sit and talk about the root of the problem and why it happened in the first place... but realistically speaking that will probably be after all the screaming, shouting, tears etc...
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 8:35am)
if my spouse to be had an affair, i'd have to sit,talk and understand why she did it.
If we can resolve the situation then i would work towards making my relationship better, i would spend a lot of time with her and learn to know, understand her and her needs.

If i fail then as a last resort i would go for the divorce, but this i would do as a last option.
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 6:24am)
With or without mouthwash, I would not want to snog after the affair.

I'd tell him/her to leave and 'Mind the Gap' as they leave
 
Login to find out (January 9, 2006 at 4:01am)
STOLE THIS FROM NASEEB,,,, I THOUGHT IT WAS INTERESTING!!