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Numbers Game
When chatting to someone on the net, with the intention of possibly finding a partner, do you chat to many people at a time
or only one person at any one time
and once you click with someone, have exchanged loads of emails and phone calls and think you like them, do you still keep chatting to others in order to see what will happen with them, or limit your attention to the one person
Would be interesting to see what guys and girls think of this (I have a theory about this)
or only one person at any one time
and once you click with someone, have exchanged loads of emails and phone calls and think you like them, do you still keep chatting to others in order to see what will happen with them, or limit your attention to the one person
Would be interesting to see what guys and girls think of this (I have a theory about this)
Comments on this journal
also some people chat giving the impression (as my mate was given) that a meeting was due to take place, and that the guy was besotted with her, couldn't wait to meet her etc... this is before he introduced the mind games angle
If one is chatting to several people online that hardly constitutes 'dating'.
fon - mutiple dating can consist of non hand holding or significantly more; all depends on the duplicitousness of the person doing the mulitdating i suppose
as for "chatting" with multiple people in order to find ones soul mate. i dont think thats wrong. as mila says its best to keep our options open.
but once the dates are more real and in person then there should be exclusivity.
i am sorry mila if after the 5th or 6th date he feels that he has to see other girls then sweetie its time for you to move on with ur life that dude is not hanging around, and chalk him up as a bad experience of life.
the exclusive thing may be easy for some.. especially guys, but girls aren't able to multi-flirt as easily
I see what your all saying. My Girls tell me not to put all my emotions and energy into one person...and I try not to, but when I met him i think about the 5th-6th date I knew I would fall in love....by the way THAT DOESN'T usually happen to me!! (no I didn't say I love him....just that I would really really like him and fall for him)
Now....I know he sees other girls and here I am with all these really profoundly deep feelings....and I didn't know what to do....so...i kept my options open, I try to protect my heart, and I went on other dates with some really great men, who actually showed interest in me.
But my mind wouldn't let it go very far, I had my heart set on him.
I tell you this....because I want you to understand this is why the Putting All Your Eggs in One Basket theory, is where I was coming from.
If I really Like someone I want to be exclusive, I am an Exclusive girl....I would keep the others just as friends....
but you need to reach to that place.
I think that by telling him that I was feeling this way...I did stick my neck out.
But where am I now in all this....neither here nor there.
I don't like guy this way so easily, but when I like someone, I tend to LIKE them ALOT and put my WHOLE self into it.
So just to not get hurt maybe this is a good theory.
And if I am this way I am sure there are other Girls who are the same.