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PAKIS AND SARDARJI'S


WHY IS IT OUR PAKISTANI PEOPLE PREFER THEY PARTNERS TO BE FROM OTHER RELIGIONS/CASTE/CULTURE???,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,IS THIS THE GROWING TREAD??????????????
 

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Login to find out (May 11, 2005 at 6:50am)
i think one should marry a Muslim Man, it doesn't matter what colour he is,,, personally i think men and women born/bred in Uk should marry amongst each other and ones from back home should stay with the gals back home,,,,,, don't think personally we should ever import people to Uk as we end up deported them anyway or get a bad name or become single parents again!!!
 
Login to find out (May 11, 2005 at 3:56am)
lol labs!.What would you do say, if you were seeing a half caste guy who was willing to convert to Islam and practice it but he couldn't speak the lingo..Would you be prepared to go through with it?
 
Login to find out (May 11, 2005 at 3:31am)
Wife from pakistan = food on table at 6pm, servant to all their needs, no communication required (language barrier), leggy blonde (mainly trailer trash) on the side for sexual needs.

Wife from England = no dinner on the table at 6pm cos she's at work, she can think for herself, she's educated, she likes to go out and spend money (her own!)

All this equals to INSECURITY!
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 9:40pm)
i agree.. british men going home by the planeload doesn't exactly leave us with much choice.. (lol at 'village virgin') i think the mixed factor is due to the love of the exotic.. or if you're not keen on being a desi, you would go for an indian/ white girl who is equally removed from your culture...... my brother (pak) and sis in law (bengali) are married partly i think because they had met too many idiots from their own cultures... hence the opposite seems a safer bet.. i must admit english men are looking more and more appealing by the day .. but i would only marry them if they were Muslim
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 2:37pm)
yeh i agree begsy...if this is what we are left to deal with (them going back home for clean wives) then what choice does that leave us with....either we go back home and get a husband (who uses us for his visa and to cal his famiy over and then dump u if u dont comply !!!! in comes wife number 2!) i dont think its ideal....but then again i cannot make a blanket statement and say that its best to marry muslim....look how corrupt they all are! i can fully emphathize with these girls resorting to looking at another culture for a hubby coz lets face it our uk british muslm pakistani men exp are nothing to go on....and i know this will get the miltant vibe out in some of u (men esp) but u really need to look at individual circumstances......noone deserves to be alone....
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 7:59am)
For the first time in my life, I have seen the old tradition of arranged marriages slowly dying out..I was really pleased with this and it meant we were allowed to choose our husbands from here in the UK who were on the same leve. Little did I know that men are now actually choosing to go back home for their wives..
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 7:40am)
i never understand why men think back home women are virgins, we were talking about this the other day with some londoncrew boys and they claimed that the women did everything else openly!!! also they were saying that everything is done but its more discreet then the UK women!!!!
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 6:50am)
In the long run, its better to stick to your own..but I for one, don't blame these women who do choose to go and look elsewhere..if the men in the UK are anything to go by, is there any wonder women are choosing to look outside of culture and religion..Western society don't send their boys back home to look for village virgins! I am bitter yes..
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 5:20am)
ACTUALLY I SEE A LOT OF MIXED MARRIAGES,, BUT DON'T YOU FEEL RELATIONSHIPS LIKE THESE DON'T LAST LONG,,,,,
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 4:01am)
People just want to experience something outside of the norms of society maybe..
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 3:51am)
lol missi - can't say i have noticed the above. however, i would only ever want to be with a muslim guy..... x mobsters moll x
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 3:29am)
and they are clean and talk properly!
 
Login to find out (May 10, 2005 at 3:21am)
i love muslim guys as they are muslims..
 
Login to find out (May 9, 2005 at 4:02pm)
whats wrong with the muslim guys?
 
Login to find out (May 9, 2005 at 11:05am)
i didn't know that!