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QUESTIONS TO ASK POTENTIAL PARTNERS FOR MARRIAGE?????????


1)NAME
2)AGE
3)LOCATION
4)HAVE YOU BEEN MARRIED BEFORE??
5)ARE YOU A VIRGIN(MISSY HAS TO ASK)
6)ANY PAST RELATIONSHIPS??
7)WHAT HAPPENED IN THEM??
8)DO YOU HAVE THREE BELLY BUTTONS??
9) DO You HAVE CHILDREN??
10)ARE YOU SERIOUSLY ILL??
11)DO YOU HAVE ANY SERIOUS DEBTS??
12) Are you still emotionally attached to your ex??
13)DO YOU SMOKE/DRINK??
14)where would you live after marriage??
15)what type of relationship do you have with your family?
16)do you want your wife to wear a head cover after marriage??
17)WHAT SECT IN ISLAM DO YOU FOLLOW???
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Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 8:37am)
someone in serious debts should not even get married as they are not being fair to their wife or future children!!

If a muslim is not allowed to go to hajj unless his/her debts are cleared, this shows the importance of clearing debts asap, also marriage is suppose to be preformed as a completion of your deen, so then why should a person be able to get married and have debts,,, isn't this also what Allah would dislike?????
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 6:39am)
sex and finances - 2 main issues which can make or break a relationship... they do need to be sorted...

i agree though.. i save my money so i can have the better things in my life without getting into debt even if it means waiting for things so find it difficult having to take on someone else's debts
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 6:01am)
Well, this is better - asking questions now rather than expecting answers without them? Still get the nagging feeling though that with this much cirteria, you're probably better off not getting married at all. It'd only disappoint ya!
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 5:42am)
MissL: Question 11 is a really good one.

I for one have ensured I didnt have any serious debts prior to marrying. I feel that it is not fair on the other person.

However, alot of guys have serious debts and many of them are offended that us girls ask such personal questions relating to their financial situation. I think its a valid question and men should not be offended by it.

My cousin is married to a guy with bad debts and black mark on his credit history and she is the one suffering as a result. He never told her about his situation and she found our afterwards. Please note "found out" and "not informed"!!!

Why dont people be honest and also sort out their finances before getting married cos its not fair on the other person.
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 4:46am)
LOL,,, SO DO I,,,,,,,,,,,,,WONDER WHO WAS ASKING THAT???
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 4:42am)
i like question 8!
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 3:38am)
what about questions like:

CAN I SEE YOU BANK STATEMENTS, AS BANKS GIVE GOLD CARDS TO STUDENTS NOWADAYS???
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 3:37am)
rosegold, unless you want to nurse him all his life, i suggest if he has a serious illness,,,,, JUST RUN!!!! #:
 
Login to find out (March 1, 2006 at 6:14pm)
What do you do if they say that they do have a serious illness?
 
Login to find out (March 1, 2006 at 4:25pm)
12) Are you still emotionally attached to your ex! (Alot of my friends have been caught up with guys who haven't gotten over the ex's).

(Not sure if they would admit to it! LOL)