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Sacrificing for the KIDS
Mega is back and back with yet another, in fact two scenarios.
Couple A:
I know this woman, family friend of ours, got divorce 5 years after her marriage. Reason: her husband was abusive, more mentally then physically and also a cheater (well cheating part was never proved). Now the problem is her 3 daughters are ages 21, 20 and 19 years and none of them are getting any proposals. Even if any proposal (rishta) gets to their living room, they never returned after knowing that the mother has D word in her life, DIVORCE and by saying " OHHHHHHHHH, well we will let you know". I know those girls and I know they are good girls. Just because their mother stood up for herself and decided not to take any cr*p from her husband and kept her dignity, her girls are not getting proposals from good families caz admit it or not, a lot of our families still don't want to patch up ties with any girl/boy 's family with a divorce mother in the family.
Couple B:
This couple I know, its like a couple from hell.I have seen them verbally fight in super markets, gosh even one time in Walmart. Of course the male is more abusive and after years and years of taking cr*p from her husband, woman has equal potty mouth. But they never separated and remained together since last 25 years. I personally knows the man had an affair with another woman for years. Now their daughter is getting married on August 21st, to some doctor.
My question is which couple is better;; one woman who stood up for herself but her children are not getting any respect OR the woman who took all that abuse but stick with the family so her children don't have to suffer later becasue a divorce man may have respect but aunties and uncles don't give any to divorce woman.
I am asking this question because I heard COUPLE A's daughter saying that If only our mother had some Patience and would ve stayed married, we won't be facing this situation.
Disclaimer::
This journal mean NO DISRESPECT TO NO ONE.
Couple A:
I know this woman, family friend of ours, got divorce 5 years after her marriage. Reason: her husband was abusive, more mentally then physically and also a cheater (well cheating part was never proved). Now the problem is her 3 daughters are ages 21, 20 and 19 years and none of them are getting any proposals. Even if any proposal (rishta) gets to their living room, they never returned after knowing that the mother has D word in her life, DIVORCE and by saying " OHHHHHHHHH, well we will let you know". I know those girls and I know they are good girls. Just because their mother stood up for herself and decided not to take any cr*p from her husband and kept her dignity, her girls are not getting proposals from good families caz admit it or not, a lot of our families still don't want to patch up ties with any girl/boy 's family with a divorce mother in the family.
Couple B:
This couple I know, its like a couple from hell.I have seen them verbally fight in super markets, gosh even one time in Walmart. Of course the male is more abusive and after years and years of taking cr*p from her husband, woman has equal potty mouth. But they never separated and remained together since last 25 years. I personally knows the man had an affair with another woman for years. Now their daughter is getting married on August 21st, to some doctor.
My question is which couple is better;; one woman who stood up for herself but her children are not getting any respect OR the woman who took all that abuse but stick with the family so her children don't have to suffer later becasue a divorce man may have respect but aunties and uncles don't give any to divorce woman.
I am asking this question because I heard COUPLE A's daughter saying that If only our mother had some Patience and would ve stayed married, we won't be facing this situation.
Disclaimer::
This journal mean NO DISRESPECT TO NO ONE.
Comments on this journal
i believe Allah is forgiving, people are not necessarily so + nice ppl who maintain nicety in the face of endless e-thappars.. finish last.. like all other over-nice ppl
however, net discussions, and indeed phone discussions can get more heated than face to face ones; if any of this was being said face to face we would just 'walk out' of the room.. something we are too stubborn to do here a lot of the time
My question comes back again to what are your chances of seeing robin in real life. You have a better chance of winning the Lotto back to back to back then seeing him in real life.
Eye for an eye is permitted however forgiving and ignoring is the sweetest revenge.
After all, its all internet.
when you see a bully, you grumble at the people being kicked wanting to stand up for themselves?!?
yeah we may have class, but once in a while you have to give as good as you get
i am not christian, don't have to turn the other cheek and get double the bruises.. i believe in kicking as hard, when i get kicked - have never been hit.. mainly because i scare people away as they approach :P
that's what women do anyway.. i understand why keeping your enemies closer than your friends would be a good motto.. but who the heck keeps terrorists close to them!
i cant leave u kids to simple JE's alone without u fighting and slapping around each other.
we have once again totally forgotten the topic at hand and moved to some that is totally irrelevant.
now everyone gussa thooko (spit it out) and be nice to all even the rodent types who seem to have crawled back into their little PATHETIC holes.
I am NOT into complexities.
I don't know how to be "smart" about things....I just am ME thats all I can be, I say what I feel, and feel what I say...
And I never mean bad towards anyone.
He can say what he wants about me, I don't care, but this has been continuous, every-time I come on....I should NOT worry about coming here to talk and be my self then get told off for it.
Look at my comments...I kept telling him NICELY and JOKINGLY to please stop.
even to the end.
(cool self-promotion for the ladies, dude !)
:D
I cares less about him, as a matter of fact, I give a fcuk to him, but I know you guys have class which you sure didn't held on to it. Friendship times is fun but the one who keeps the kool in anger really shows the class. By attacking him back doesn't make you any different then him. He attack and you attack him back. Don't you all forgets: the best answer to any stupid question or remark is silence.
He is nobody so he means nothing. Yehbandishain, by mentioning his sisters, mother and other females is not a good thing, from him I can expect, from you, I was disappointed. To throw back mud on someone, you HAVE to put your hands in the SAME mud.
ROBIN yaar u got some issues there mate....calm down...learn to lur urself FIRST...and then maybe you'll learn not to sound so pathetic and child like...sheesh.
robinhudlum, thanx! for proving just how ignorant you are
the divorcees/ single people on here are bigger people than you and don't go around bragging about their imaginary conquests or insulting people who are divorced/ single/ have kids (all natural occurrences)
let's look at the categories you have such a problem digesting
single people = surely a happy situation to be in, as they're improving themselves before they settle down (unlike some) also they didn't marry and get divorced (a no-no in your book apparently) and they're not scr*wing around either
kids - a blessing; in case you hadn't realised, in this day and age, as in the previous generation of asians, it's perfectly possible for an educated woman to provide for herself and her kid; a threat to losers like you, i realise.. also Allah provides for a child when it is born (he wouldn't do that if he had the scummy attitude you have)
Let's compare D words
divorced people : have the guts to get married in the first place, give it their all, and leave when they know something is not going to work; takes a lot more intelligence than hiding behind a cartoon and making dubious jabs at people; as a divorcee, i asked God for help before I married, and help to sort things out when things became intolerable; divorce is a blessing, God allowed me the option, and I took it -
what's your excuse for being a D!ck ?
In fact I was disappointed that after I bitch slapped you in 'Independent Woman', that you edited your comment. Wish you kept the original honey and just apologized. But conceited, hypocritcal, women haters and abusers have a hard time doing that.
Why didn't you honour today's picture request that I sent you?
Learn some math. You got the ages and number of children is wrong. You make so many ASSumptions showing your desparation to make an argument. Your pic that you hid this week shows how constipated your expression is. Please share the 2 pics with us, pweez?
I think Mega is the Mother Teresa of Naseeb as he is your only friend. I do know Mega has a good heart and you are his charity for the year.
I look forward to your comments.
And you ARE Bragging about your Asses you TAP!! SO I KNOW you aren't getting any cause you have to go on the Internet to let Strangers know about it...thats PATHETIC honey!
Robin you say you only come on during the weekend, to grace us with your presence.
You probably work the rest of the week like we all do.
However we don't sit here on the computer in the weekends, I (We) have a life on the weekends and are out living.
While you sit on the computer being Mean (talking to only yourself).
My mother told me this growing up....that when you are this way its like spiting and the spit goes up and falls on your own self.
I think its time that we, you everyone stop this non sense.
thanks.
and by the way I may be Desperate, but I am not pathetic, I can admit to my faults and I take pride in my strengths.
I know I am GROWN and I ALWAYS behave accordingly.