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Login to find out (July 1, 2005 at 12:49pm)

Uc u part of that village to na?

Login to find out (June 30, 2005 at 10:04am)

Waseem - I think most would still marry, but much, much later in life. It would probably look very much like present day mainstream society w/o religious / cultural constraints to having multiple partners along one's journey in life.

Even casual relationships though, can get people attached that didn't expect to. Attached people naturally crave exclusivitity. It's rooted very much in us anthropologically. One can be jealous outside of marriage too.

So true love birds will still wed, eventually. Lots of people who didn't make the cut for Mr/Mrs Right and got into something as someone else's stop-gap measure would feel used.

Login to find out (June 30, 2005 at 9:59am)

As a member of the 30-some village, thank you for the advertisements to our village. 20-somethings: Life is still great at 30-something :)

Login to find out (June 30, 2005 at 7:45am)

would you not marry ? or would you just care less about marriage?

Login to find out (June 30, 2005 at 5:50am)

Candy_berry, if sex outside of marriage was allowed, I'd never marry either....lol.

Login to find out (June 30, 2005 at 1:57am)

Cubsfan, Actually I have read the posting on the 30 somethin and hot village...heheheh. Man! ya'll talk about some stuff!!! which means I have been feeling like I lost my virginity!!! My innocence has been long gone!!

Login to find out (June 29, 2005 at 8:53am)

I 2nd and 3rd that!! just wait until you are 30 and join the 30 somethin-n-hot village......you could be a virgin and on that village you will feel like you have lost your virginity by reading the journal enteries!

Login to find out (June 29, 2005 at 1:35am)

Candy_berry hit the nail on the head..........!

Login to find out (June 29, 2005 at 12:27am)

If prematerial sex was allowed.. I'd never marry!!! hahahah

Login to find out (June 28, 2005 at 5:26am)

I think one key reason that getting married is fundamental in Islam is because if you marry, then there are less chances that you will have sex outside of marriage. So I guess marriage serves 2 main purposes in Islam: procreating, and avoiding fornication. Interesting.

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 4:44pm)

fair enough i feel the same way about finding a great girl

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 3:40pm)

Great guy cannot be defined.........I just gotta get that gut feeling that this guy is the one for me, until my gut tells me that, I am gonna be single

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 2:44pm)

that is the worst motivation ever and half the reason you see so much divorce.

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 2:44pm)

F786 - people are not compelled to marry to fulfill their deen. they are compelled to marry because it is a societal expectation and they are afraid they will end up alone.

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 1:56pm)

define GREAT GUY

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 11:24am)

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH PARADISE!! BUT IF I FIND A GREAT GUY, I WILL HOLD ONTO HIM, BUT WHAT ARE THE CHANCES! LOL JK

Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 5:45am)

I wouldn't mind being single for the rest of my life if Islam "allowed" women to have children out of wedlock. Having children someday is of importance to me. Having a man in my life isn't that important. Sometimes having a man in my life is just a big pain in the arse.

Login to find out (June 22, 2005 at 5:28pm)

Aasmaan: ummm, because its part of our deen. It's fulfilling half of our religion. That's why it's a big deal. We should marry because it's an act of pleasing Allah.

Login to find out (June 22, 2005 at 4:46pm)

everyone says that but i realy dont think ill change my mind

Login to find out (June 22, 2005 at 4:20pm)

why are people always so stressed aout about getting married?..is there something wrong with being a complete person on your own? If you want kids, adopt them..this whole concept of marriage and the desperate menatlity that comes with it is beyond me.. ;o(

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