Few things girls need to know..


1. Never marry a bad guy. Never...

They might seem attractive, dangerous, strong and ruthless but they are the worst husband material on the face of this earth. Only a few bad guys turn out to be good husbands (very rarely).

My friend who got married to a bad guy while knowing he is bad, recently got divorced.

Reasons : Affairs, abuse, drinking, bad temper and a cruel attitude towards his wife.

So next time you find Colin Farrel kind of guys hot..just drool over them from a distance and keep that maternal instinct under control.

Remember....Nature does not change.


2. If a guy is insecure and immature enough to pretend/put a false persona...put him on ignore..

Original is classy and Self confidence is Hot.



3. Make sure you do not fall in to that available but friend category. It is NOT normal when a guy calls you at 12 o'clock at night for three hours but you are still a FRIEND!! This guy seriously needs to be kicked out of your life.


4. It is not natural not to like someone or develop an interest. Just do not get obsessed with the guy, think you are almost in love with him and would spend the rest of your life brooding over him. Drop a few casual hints, show a little interest..

If you can figure out he is not that in to you, move on to the next interest. No not the second best, the second interest. Learn to be a player at heart..LOL.


5. Keep it civilized. That is some thing i want every person to learn, let it be a guy or a girl. Things might not work out between two people, he/she may not return your feelings, just don't go acting crazy on them. Move on with some dignity and self respect.


6. I have never really been able to understand it but looks ARE important to a woman. We feel good about our selves when we look pretty or wear great clothes or get that new hair cut.

So umm try not to get in to that intellectual cr*p of how looks don't matter. Looking good is important!!!


7. Have a career - or at least somekind of interest outside of the home

8. Have some good friends - even if you can count them on one hand.


9. Its in real bad taste when some one tries to act rich. May be they do not realise it but that just shows lack of money in previous generations. So please stay away from that kind. I really admire hard working, ambitious guys who even after becoming very successful, remain grounded.

10. Take your time before you really trust someone.


11. Last but not least, RESPECT and LOVE yourself the most. You might never get married but that is better than being a silly piece of sh*t anybody can walk over any minute they want.

Have some attitude!