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The Merry Go Round


Marriage is a very important factor in our culture....list the things that you just got to have in a partner...things you know are deal breakers, and things that you dont like, but are willing to over look because you are ready to settle down.
 

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Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 5:27pm)
money - well that sucks!!....lol i dont know what else to say...i dont know you...dont know what ya been thru..or where ya going....i however, still wish you the best!!...not trying to sound cheezy...which im sure i will...but real love is a wonderful thing...those who love and are loved in return are truly blessed...i make myself nausous haha...mashallah!!...is it me or am i like the gay lil love fairy these days...haha..lemme sprinkle a lil bit of the good stuff on yall...::flutters away:: :)
 
Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 4:27pm)
i think u'll find her a good desi girl close to home...at least not back home, they say it happens when u least expect it...
 
Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 2:01pm)
Ladymoon: Ok i understand the whole friendship 1st thing....I have female friends....I've dated....and now this is going to sounds really bad.....I;ve had 2 really serious relationships and both of girls were in love....(non-desi girls) but i wasn't even close. What im trying to say is that....it's not like i woke up one day and said "hmmm i wanna fall in love today" I just know my self....and i've never felt that feeling for any girl.....and i know i never will....cuz ....ahhh never mind i dont even care anymore....Long as i find a good girl who will be good to me...thats good enough for me.

Fantasayfairy: Its not like i wanna convert someone or go back home.....but I swear....there is no desi girl who's ever gonna match up with my little formula.....and everyone i tell this too they laugh.....I mean i get it, what im asking for is not all that easy to come by.....but...there gonna be 1 girl out of millions that has to have what im looking for....

LOL.....this topic makes me laugh.
 
Login to find out (March 3, 2006 at 1:09pm)
He must be easygoing & fun

He must not have a bad temper

lol @ Mrs. Butt. There's a store in Toronto called Butt Foods!

Moneey: Please don't do that, the converting thing & going back home to get married is leaving more & more good desi girls single!
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 3:46pm)
I agree with LadyMoon, thats what I have in my profile about relationships ... do not go out looking for the one, try to be a good friend, make good friends, and sooner or latter it will come to you.
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 2:43pm)
Dont listen to her...she has lost all her cyncism since her engagement :P
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 12:44pm)
ahh yes...i totally know how you feel...i was there once...i didnt even think love existed...there came a point, where as pathetic as it sounds...i thought that i was unlovable!!....i was stupid and had issues to say the least...lol...

i know we'd all like to think that we're gonna bump into that perfect person one day...and the lil birdies are gonna start chirping and some gay music will be playing in the background...but unfortunately, thats not the way it works...its HARD!!...but take it from me, its not impossible....the best advice i can give people...is that everytime you meet someone...dont put so much pressure on the relationship...i have a bunch of friends who date, and on every date their thinking "he's the one"..and its so discouraging when the supposed prince charming turns out to have bad breath and is pig!!....get to know people...and sooner or later...you're gonna find someone who may not be super hot...but who makes you happy...whos a good person...who you can see yourself with....and before you know it...it may blossom into love....i think the best relationships actually start with a solid friendship before leading anywhere else...pheww this is a long azz entry...the end :)
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 11:44am)
Ladymoon: lol.......hahahahahha.....
yeah something like that......here is another sad thing since i've never fallen in love EVER before....I just dont know how to decide whom i need to marry....I know everyone tells me "ohhh you will when you meet the right one" yeah OK.....I know that i'm never gonna fall in love, with that in mind how the heck do i decide which girl?? and why her?

I know i need to get married cuz i'm not getting any younger....but I good woman is so hard to come by these days.....or ever.
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 11:35am)
haha money...so you gonna turn juanita into jameela?...
 
Login to find out (March 2, 2006 at 10:41am)
dont worry if its a stick or not....you'll do just fine.
 
Login to find out (March 1, 2006 at 9:29am)
is it a stick? cuz I cant drive a stick.
 
Login to find out (March 1, 2006 at 8:59am)
yeah thanks Ladymoon....I feel so much better now....HAHA its not like your telling something i already didn;t know. I came up with a better idea....I've been thinking about this one for a while....You always hear that i girl converted a guy and they married. I;m thinking i find a NICE Hispanic girl but a brain and a butt....and convert her....that way i increase my chances of going to heaven and also get the girl of my dreams.....What do you guys think?

Hey Raheela, the trip was great...we met up with the guy, he showed us the business and all...ummm i'll tell you the rest later.....but yeah dont worry i wouldn't go to Canada without you.....just get your butt down to NY and we'll drive.....(i'll let you drive my new car....hehe)
 
Login to find out (February 28, 2006 at 9:45pm)
my biology teacher in high school was a Mrs Butt... she was the nicest person, but got stuck with that name ...and well she had a pretty good emm.. Butt too.. so we would make fun and say " Mrs Butt's butt is coming to class" or something like "check out the butt on Mrs Butt" ... haha yeah its retarded and mean.. i know.. but it was hilirious then
 
Login to find out (February 28, 2006 at 9:46am)
LMAO!!!!!
When i was in college..I got a proposal from this guy whose last name was Butt...

He was a doctor, studying here in Boston, and was drop dead gorgeous...BUT THE MERE IDEA OF BEING MRS. BUTT!!!! I couldn't do it...I would laugh my head off every time he would proudly say..

"Array hum BUTT khandan se hain"....heheheheeh

Im going to hell!



Muneeb,

I am so glad u got that new car finally...not that there was anything wrong in ur old car, which I still loved. Have fun in upstate...just know u cant go to canada without me!
 
Login to find out (February 27, 2006 at 6:23pm)
lol money and raheela!!..i dont think ur asking for alot at all..however i havent met that many desi girls with badoonkas...and the ones who i do know...are all taken...lol im not helping am i?...good luck though ;)

haha raheela you know something....on my list of things of my ideal man was "cannot have the last name of Butt"...i refused to be Mrs. Butt or have little Butts running around....
 
Login to find out (February 27, 2006 at 1:35pm)
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA


I wish you would find me a BUTT family in here USA.....


So you silly little girl what have you been up to?

As for me....nothing much...I finally got my new CAR.....still a waste cuz i have no license plates so i can't drive it.....its driving me nuts.
and tomorrow i took of cuz im going to go upstate to take a look at a business opportunity.....see how that works out....aside from that the life is same o'l.....what about you?
 
Login to find out (February 27, 2006 at 12:47pm)
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH sniff sniff ...

HON!!! read it again...this time objectivley...its a JOKE!
 
Login to find out (February 27, 2006 at 10:15am)
Raheela meri jaan....kaysi hai app....

Acha so you think your friend fits all my requirments....and i should just call her up huh.....lol....nice.

"Hi....hello....My name is Muneeb and your friend Raheela told me that you have a great personality and a Nice Butt i was thinking if we can chat"....

Good Job Raheela.....

and you put her number on naseeb....i'm sure she got 30-40 calls from all the dorks on here.


LOL....
so how's work hun?
 
Login to find out (February 24, 2006 at 2:58pm)
Muneeb...call my friend:

Haymaira Butt
Daughter of Dr. Kamal Butt and Haseena Butt.

She fits all ur requirments ;)

011 92 431 555 1212
 
Login to find out (February 24, 2006 at 2:32pm)
Unknown are u trying say something to me??? Please come clean, no need to beat around the bush.
This is my preference.....I can't just marry any boney, smelly, hairy...desi female that comes along.
I'm not a rude guy nor i'm a mean in any way. I have a lot to offer...I'm a great catch....so I expect some things in return.
I'm sure you wouldn't just Marry some Fat, Bald guy your parents pick for you.